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Great post ILR.   

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The way she is treating you is the only way she knows how to interact with a man.  She's attracted to the guy that's a dick.  She complains about the drama but she thrives on it because it is all that she knows.  She accuses you of being jealous and she does things to provoke you because that is all she knows and that is what she is comfortable with.  She needs to get her act together before she can have a meaningful relationship.  It has nothing to do with fear of attachment or trust issues.  This is all she knows about relationships and it will not get better until she decides she is worthy of a healthy relationship.

PS...I thought WE were supposed to be getting married....
hahah..maybe my assessment is a bit biased...(wink)

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Sorry to hear about your father Tins.  You and your family are in my prayers.

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In that example you are still only using one way to get to what your goal is.  And with LOA we have to not worry about the how it happens.  For instance let's suppose in the same example the parent does enroll the girl into the ballet class.  Who is to say that in the future the Royal Ballet will not reach out to people with disabilities and have a special showing in which the girl can be in?  You have to be open to every possiblity and I think that's where your dissonance is coming from. 

Also regarding your ballet example I noticed in the original message you didn't clarify the Royal Ballet outcome  can I ask why you upped it and made that clarification.  The reason I ask is that sometimes we just can't take a simple answer and we have to make things complicated.  In your response by upping the outcome to Royal Ballet it seems that you may have done that and I wonder if you don't do that when presented with these situations in the "real world".  Another reason why you have dissonance.

I see you made another response and you touched on some of the issues I asked you about.  No she may not be able to leap but there is no reason why if she would like it that she should be kept out of that kind of environment. 
Is this the situation regarding Maggie one that you are dealing with?

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wtg i am so happy for you! I wish i could have my girl in my arms right now but that will never happen! I dont really think love is in my cards anymore i been so negative the past two years trying all i ever got from mine is texts and talking about how she misses me than she goes and dates other guys and uses me as a shoulder to cry on... I dont think i ever will find love in my life all i ever attract is     hateful ppl and users! Anyways keep it up and hope you guys  last this time around yay! heres to your success!

Sometimes the light that we shine in a world full of darkness does attract those hanger ons.  Why? Because they are jealous and want to break you. They want to extinquish your light so they can feel better about themselves.  Don't let them.  Believe it or not...they are attracted to you because you can help them.  You want to be a LOA teacher/writer...well consider these experiences your baptism by fire. 

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I am so happy for you Alexia.  You deserve this!! 

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Alexia..
calm down gal...
you got this!!!  Meet him as an equal..know that he desires to see you equally as much as you desire to see him.  Don't get caught into thinking otherwise...that's where nervousness comes in.  Control yourself and be happy.

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Yeah its me in the avatar

Wow. I thought it was some American film or TV star (I'm serious). You are beautiful and very cool-looking.

I know, right.  Isn't she gorgeous?  I have to admit that all of the people that I have met on this forum who post pictures are just breathtaking!!!! 

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The more we praise and thank another person the more apt they are to repeat that behavior. 
I'd say something like.
Thank you for that message.  When you say things like that you always put a smile on my face.

And leave it at that.....

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You got this!!

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Hey there Lashark!!!

Thanks for the kind words.  I have been lurking and not posting much.  Things are going very well.  I have had quite a few amazing manifestations.  I am so happy to see you around here.  You have such great advice and that wonderful faith that serves to uplift the whole board!!!

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I am very happy for you Alexia!!!!  Your destiny awaits.

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Irish
Why would they lie and get your hopes up like they did?  I think you've mentioned that they've done this before.  Why take you on that emotional roller coaster and just say to you ..stop doubting and leave it at that.

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Hahah...Arrested Development Fan!!
One of the coolest shows and Tobias Funke rocks.

I'm with prince_charming on this one.  You may attract a sprained ankle, stomach flu, or even worst a community tragedy that would cause all high schools in your area to be closed down.

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It seems that your smiles are conditional.  It's like you are doing it not because you are happy and are glad that you and the other person are sharing this world.  It's because you expect, desire, and demand the same back to you.  That's not what it's about.  You give your smiles unconditionally and it is not about what you receive back.  When you learn to give with no expectation from the other person then you will find that you are attracting people who are nice and open to you.  You are closed and you attact people that are closed. 

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