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Molly's Love,I saved my 7 year relationship with my guy because I wanted to. I was also very desperate, and quite willing to sell my soul - literally - to anyone or anything that could even remotely help me achieve this. After spending quite some time whining and crying, I started to listen to all the advice I was given here and I put every little piece of it into practice. Not just once - all the time.....Then I got off my butt and took action, stopped crying and got myself together and a true miracle occured right before my eyes in about 2 weeks time.

You remind me of a former member named "Uploading" . Maybe some senior members remember him. He got this place into an uproar for months then disappeared when Ginny or Lise, no Ginny, realized he was a troll.

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I LOVE that one Crazysoul, thanks a bunch ! 

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I choose not to talk about breaking up a relationship, just the deadline. I set a deadline last Summer, when I was attracting Patrick back, and it worked. But I set the deadline when there was no longer a shread of doubt in my mind about the outcome.

I think it may help me to get in that place of knowing and certainty if I can say that by X date, Y will have happened.

You must get to that place of knowing and certainty first 

Whatever you do, follow 9J's advice and start with something small 

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I wouldnt dwell on it. Looks like he still has some resentment to work through. Its obvious with him trying to prove that he had a life when you guys were apart and going overboard with praising this woman. Its probably all because of the other guy. If he chose to get back together with you than he is choosing love over his pride so thats a good thing but all the resentment cant disappear in one day. It'll be fine trust me.

How true !
It seems to me that this is a typical case of button pushing. You can be proud of your composed reaction 

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It's nice to pop in here from time to time (I know I know, I should stop by more often) and to read such a delightful success story  Congrats !!!!

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I attracted my guy back (I refuse to call him my EX) to the point where I am comfortable with our relationship.  There are still days when I want to hear from him so bad, but I just relax and tell myself 'it's done, he IS contacting me"  then I let myself feel this sense of "KNOWING" that it done. 
I cant describe it, but when I get to that point, he really does get in contact with me.

Love4only1, I understand how that feels. That peaceful knowledge that my desire has come to fruition is something very difficult to describe, and it has never failed me in many areas, not just in getting my guy back... kind of like a tipping point 

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I have never used that mantra. When I successfully attracted my guy back I used Om mani padme om all the time. I don't know if it helped to attract him back specifically, but it really calmed my mind and helped me find peace 

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) What did you mean by "I stopped trying to attract him back in the physical sense (no questions, I gave him space and especially, PEACE)  and concentrated on attracting him back in the spiritual sense" - How can you attract someone spiritually???

Previously I had based alot of my efforts on attracting him back physically. When things started getting better between us I would ask him questions like  "we're getting along better now aren't we ? Don't you think that means that we are meant for each other and you are falling in love with me again ?"    And/or by trying to please him in every possible way I could think of, instead of pampering myself and taking care of ME  and showing that I was no longer the pathetic little thing willing to do anything to win him back.  Etc etc etc... the list goes on... By attracting him back spiritually I mean doing what everyone here says to do : sending him loving thoughts, sending him sweetness (whenever I did that he would actually come home SMILING whereas before he wouldn't even talk to me when he came home from work) and just being appreciative of every single moment of my day and expecting nothing but happiness all the time and savoring the happiness before the happiness came back knocking at my door. Gratitude was a very powerful tool that I still use every day and several times a day...  Some people told me I have a very powerful telepathic mind, maybe, maybe not !!  but one thing is for sure, I was certain that I would attract him back and I did it.  And it wasn't just a phase, he really really wanted me OUT and was acting like a jerk and was downright mean and hateful and even very cruel.

b) What frequency binaural beats were you using? How often did you listen to them all day? While sleeping too?

I have to look that one up, I can't remember 

c) Which buddhist mantras? 'Om mani padme hum' or 'Naam myoho renge kyo?' How often? Did you meditate to it???

I listened non stop practically to "om mani padme hum" that Schenderson told me about and to this day I get goose bumps whenever I listen to those mantras and yes, I meditated ALOT.

d) From what I understand that I should feel happy and complete with myself and truly believe like I don't need this person to complete myself... And love him unconditionally and just want him to be happy with or without me??? Then should I be open to move on with any other person... Or should I feel that I don't need a life-partner to complete myself???

That's a good question. I think it depends on you. When I first joined this community, I was suicidal and I was certain that I couldn't live without him. Then after I had "grown" a bit spiritually, I understood that I don't need him to be happy,  and he doesn't belong to me anyway. But strangely I never thought "him or someone else" because my faith was so strong I felt I could move mountains. Now, I feel that I don't need a life-partner to complete myself.  Okay I'm in the comfortable position of having attracted him back... but deep down in my heart I'm sure that my happiness lies within myself and within myself alone. He is just the cherry on the cake. Our wedding is postponed because his dad is very ill and that didn't upset me at all. Everything is so peaceful in my mind and soul that nothing can disturb me or upset me  Hope this helps a bit. I'll try to stop by more often ! Much love to you all

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I remember you MeraBaccha and I am thrilled to learn that you have made such tremendous progress ! Congratulations ! I am sorry about your loss... Keep up with the fighting spirit 

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Thanks everybody !     Magdog I explained everything in my success story : http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/success-stories-3/the-time-has-come-for-my-success-story/msg29044/#msg29044

It's all about becoming a better person, detachment, unconditional love, etc.... everything that is explained here daily by so many people

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Hello ! I joined this community in June of last year. Time flies !!    I came here totally desperate because my guy wanted us to break up and I went through some very very difficult times and that is truly an understatement. I was so happy to find the help here that I really needed. I'm sure some of the senior members remember me  I posted my wonderful success story in August. Just to let you know that our relationship is more loving than ever. We are a very happy couple and I am so grateful for that. We are more in love than ever ! We were going to get married in May, but my guy's Dad is terminally ill and the wedding is postponed, which is something I understand, because Patrick loves his Dad very much and he doesn't feel like celebrating anything for the time being. I don't come here often anymore but I do think of you guys alot : Mariposa, Sneha, Vickie Christina, 2thetop, Lise, Ankur of course, Tinseltown, Teresa, Irishgirl, Schenderson, Mr Positive, I can't name everyone but you are all in my heart. I hope all is well with you 

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Happy Persian new year, happy Spring ...

Much love to you sweet Ava, and yes honey,  everything will be alright   

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May the new year
Bring these wishes to all of you

Warmth of love, comfort of home

Joy for your children.

Company and support of family and friends

A caring heart that accepts
And treats all human beings equally

Enrichment of knowledge and
Richness of diversity

Courage to seek and speak the truth
Even if it means standing alone

Hopes and dreams of a just world and
The desire to make it happen

A light to guide your path

Helping hands to strengthen unity

Serenity and peace within your mind,
Heart and soul

Food for thought and soul

A hand to hold



I wish You a

Fantastic JANUARY
Lovable FEBRUARY
Marvelous MARCH
Fool less APRIL
Enjoyable MAY
Successful JUNE
Wonderful JULY
Independent AUGUST
Romantic SEPTEMBER
Tastiest OCTOBER
Beautiful NOVEMBER
Happiest DECEMBER

Have a VICTORIOUS 2012

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Hey Bal, I'll be on the forum less & less, too many strange people, I really don't feel that good here anymore. Let me know about how it goes for you 

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I think you're a very agressive person and you don't belong here.

I for one will no longer read your rantings/ravings.

And you're being reported to Ankur.

Wishing you the best

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