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i have been broken up with my guy for 1.5 yrs... we have talked off and on thru tht yr and a half.(mostly me talking).. we are tlaking more and more over the past cpl months  .. but one thing i wanted to share .. tht he told me ... he said had i not kept contacting him he wld have just let it all go... there were times i didnt contact him for a cpl months at a time ... but eventually i wld send a txt and sometimes i got nothing back no response and when i did i was grateful (once i learned not to overthink it) .. but i stayed vigilant.. he never asked me not to contact him  if he had asked me not to i wldnt have ...we are tlaking about seeing each other now..taking one day at a time.. i do not know what will happen but i know over the course of that time we were broken up i never gave up hope ... even when i went out with other guys .. or when i wasnt contacting him .. i did those thng becasue its what i needed to do to grow and become more confident in myself

i know this doesnt work for everyone .. but its just something i wanted to share for those of u who are not sure .. i didnt send texts professng my undying love (well maybe in the beginning..lol) but as i got more of a grip on things i genuinlely  just wanted to stay in touch and evidently it has been the right thing for me to do in MY situation

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well u know what they say ... be careful what u wish for ... u get what u want .. good or bad

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I completely understand and wasnt implying tht u r judging .. but alot of ppl here do not get it ... and do make judgements just because they dont understand  why we want what we want
my point is .. we will all get to the stage in our own time ... i have been there too n.. self love was def someting i had to work on myself and taking him off the pedestal ..so trust me i get that .. again it was a learning process and i have grown so i totally understand where u r coming frm i just think we all get there in our own time it took me awhile like i said i have been here over 2 yrs

i let ppl stand in the way and i questioned myself abt what i wanted and why ...so i have been thru all the steps .and mant to go .. ty Beautifuldreamer .. i just wanted make my point i totally understand yours

Many thanks!

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i can only tell u  if u r sure she is the one .. not to give up .. let go of the longing and the desperation .. find things to occupy your mind ... i am not a firm believer in no contact .. but maybe if u back off a bit and let her wonder it cld help ... but u have to decide abt that

i have been here 2 years .. with same desire as u and he is contacting now ... and has been a little since first of the year

honestly the best advice i can give is to work on you .. be happy .. it doesnt happen over night but u will get to a point when u r ok with whatever happens .. and either u will have moved on or she will come .. but keep growing as a person
the single most important thing i have done was to be grateful
distracting myself...changing neg thoughts ..

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it doesnt mean anything when signs stop showing .. maybe u dont need them anymore maybe they will come when  there is something significant u need to know ... dont ask out of desperation ... i get the most signs when i am feeling good ... but mostly i trust my gut and nine times out of ten i am not wrong

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i think as we all move thru our journey , if that be wanting our ex's back .. we are growing as people , some ppl who were desperate to get someone back eventually either met someone else or decided they really didnt want their ex back .and some got them back that never tht it wld happen. we will all fig it out at some point .. i have been here over 2 yrs ... my desire has never changed .. although i have changed how i want it to happen at first i wld have taken him back under any circumstance then i realized i didnt want it like it used to be .. so i asked for  it to come when it  was right when we were both ready ... it is all coming together .. everyones circumstances are different ..

i fell in love with a man who was going thru a bad divorce .. he used to tell me i WISH i had met u 2 yrs frm now .. when all this is over and im over it and can shake it off(he is divorced now)
my desire was for him to come when he is ready ..
He is coming around .. things are happening for me and i am to a point where i have let go of him
i just got a message frm him yesterday .. i used to over think it i used to be desperate for signs
now when i get them i just smile and go on abt my day .. if  a sign is what keeps u hopeful then ask ask ask .. u will get them when the time is right (ive had some pretty obvious and incredible signs)

so my point is we all have a journey .. wether that is knowing /wanting  an ex back or money or whatever it is .. its not for anyone else to decide whats right for you ..ONLY U CAN DECIDE WHEN ITS TIME TO GIVE UP OR MOVE ON. if u r sure it was your ex then .. keep on keeping on and dont give up .. at some point u will fig it out .. wether u get them back or dont ... at that point u will be ok with it .. u cannot possibly go thru this journey and not learn and grow as a person ..

YEAH i knw some of u are just sick of the wanting an ex back thing .. but we all came here for a reason and for support ..and to see whats  working for others .. to read success stories etc. so u do what u need to and i will do what i need to dont judge ... noone here is wrong .. u knw what they say abt opinions ..

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in the book "the Secret " she tells u to ask for signs .. its just a confirmation your on the right path .. now im not saying ask 10-20 times a day .. but i dont really see the  harm in asking for signs ... been doing it forever and i manifest stuff daily ... again its what u believe

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sorry .. one other thing ... do not worry about what she is doing .. or that she will forget you ... dont follow her on facebook, twitter or anything else .. ONLY worry abt you and what u r doing ... knowing what she is up to will only make it worse ..

you are all thats important right now JUST YOU ..be kind to yourself . be kind to ppl .. say ty for everything .. even your toothpaste  , water to bathe in , food to eat the little bird in your back yard .. anything and everything .. eventually you will actually see beauty in things u never have before.. there is so much out there i never noticed b4.. go outside at night and look at the black sky .. and at some point even the darkness will amaze you

SEEK and you shall find
ask and it will be given to you ..IF YOU BELIEVE
Knock and the door will open!

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one thing that i do that makes me laugh out loud is watch funny videos on u tube ... ill do it for hrs sometimes .. especially about animals doing funny things .. cracks me up and laughing makes yur vibrations high .. try it 

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there is a god and u have to have unwavering faith in him... u will be tested .. how much do u want to get better? then have FAITH tht all will come to u do not let anything stand in your way ...make up your mind that u wuill have all you want .. u have alot of work to do .. letting go isnt as simple as waking up one morn and saying ok i let go today??? but u can put it in gods hands
and TRUST tht he will help u thru this

work on feeling better ... KNOW that god will bring u all that u desire .. but u cant lay in bed just hoping it will come ..u have to do the work .. loving yourself -say affirmations , listen to meditations, read this forum of success stories .. some u wld have never thought wld come out their desperation but they did ... when the work is done and u can actually say .. hey i feel great , im not longing for any thing ur manifestations will start to come

no matter what anyone says YOU have to do the work ... find the you tht she was once attracted to and she and others will be drawn to you

ASK for what u want
Believe it will come
receive enjoy life and it will come

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even though  some of my horoscopes  seem to be rather accurate i think they r rather general .... i personally have a psychic tht guides me and has been right on .. with predictions .. time frames etc..she helps me stay on my path.shes the best!.. but horoscopes are way to general

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I dont believe you can just wake up and say .. ok im going to detach today .. i think we have to do the work and at some point the detachment will come ... I am finally there after  quite sometime.. i used to feel like i had to do all the stuff,IE: affirmations, visualizing, gratitudes, etc... and if i missed one day i was scared i had messed up ... BUT i do think thats part of the process, i needed to do that work to get to the detachment stage , hope i am making sense
I believe the people who manifest quicker just detached sooner.. i still do gratitudes everyday  that has become a way of life but i only do RS and visualize when it feels inspired... things get better and better everyday

TY TY TY God and the universe!

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im going thru this too  and have been for awhile .. i do rs only when i feel like it but its getting harder to want to .. or i just get tired and say nah ill do it tomorrow .. i used to do it nightly now maybe twice a month .. i do pray everynight ... and when i have a bad tht i do change it but thats with everything not just my guy ... so glad to know its a good thing i have often wondered abt this

thank you for this post

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i cannot address the bringing a person back to life part of this because i dont believe its belieavable i obviously cldnt do it

BUT i will talk about attracting ex's and how i feel it has worked FOR ME ... when me and my guy first broke up  i wld have taken him back under any circumstances... I JUST WNTED HIM BACK! period.!.. baggage , problems and all

there was  alot going on in his life .. a long drawn out divorce tht caused insecutities in me and the end of our relationship, his daughtyer was killed in a car accident

this off and on again contact drove me nuts and i started doubting .. at some point i realized having him back with all this going on in his life and me still feeling insecure wld not ,make me happy.. and i decided to change my desire ..

I then asked for god/the universe to bring him back when he was ready.. divorced,healed and happy, and with an open heart  and when i loved myself more.. than i loved him

he has since gotten his divorce..but he is very hurt over his daughters death and very bitter 

he and i have started  talking a bit..since NOvember but he is not ready for a relationship .. i cld go "sleep " with him hed love that! but i decided tht wld not make me happy either .. i made my desire clear .. he will come back when he is divorced, healed, ready for a relationship and i love myself more  than i love him

i believe tht what Ava experienced by finding someone else was meant to be because ... if im not suppossed to have the man i THINK i want God/the universe will throw another one in our path to distract us .. to get us past tht .. and help us to move on .. til the perfect one comes along

when we put our order out ... for tht man tht will complete us .. if the man u desire is the one .. HE WILL COME BACK TO YOU.. if he is not god will give us another .. to make us realize he was not it! im not really sure if i am making any sense here i know what im trying to say .. LOL

My guy got his divorce and i am loving myself more everyday .. i told him no  a few weeks  ago when he asked me to go home with him .. and so even though its taken over a year .. i am manifesting my desire exactly the way i want it to be.. EXACTLY!!!!!!.. i have healed from the pain of the breakup and i have  more respect for myself than i ever have i will stand strong .. and i know if he is not the one for me god will bring me the one who is .. and i will happily accept 

Noone else can complete you .. only you can do that

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