What does it mean when something feels wrong?

[Blore]

Hey everyone, I just wanted your opinion on something.

Do you any of you ever get a feeling when someone does something or says something, it can be significant or even completely insignificant, but for some reason it just feels 'wrong'? Almost like you're in a dream, like maybe you aren't in the right reality. It just feels wrong and like it shouldn't be there.

I was just curious what you guys thought this meant.

[schenderson22]

I think it is a vibrational mismatch. 

[Natalie Hill]

I’m thinking that when something feels wrong there could be a few different reasons for it. Definitely, I agree with Schenderson that it’s a vibrational mismatch.The question is, what causes that mismatch. . .

It could be that the person is barking an unconscious memory of a disturbing event that happened earlier in our life. It could be the sound of their voice, their posture, their looks or profile, the smell of their cologne . . . Could be any number of things that could cause that.

When we’re still holding the stress reaction to something that someone does or says, we can’t respond to them freshly in the present moment.

[karaheissman]

Most of the time, when you have a feeling that something bad is going to happen, it is caused by one of three things:

1. There is something that you know is going on that has the potential of resulting in something bad happening. Just as we often pick up "subtle vibes" from meeting new people, we often pick up (without ever realizing it) similar subtle vibes about ourselves and any number of situations.

2. You may be particularly stressed out and anxious. When we're under stress we start to live "under the influence" of "stress chemicals" which bring about certain changes in our bodies. We aren't our "usual calm selves", so that, alone, makes us feel more generally nervous. Depending on the number of stressors that we are dealing with, and the severeity of stress, we get can to a point where we don't just feel uncertain or ungrounded, we can start to get into the "what's-going-to-happen-next" kind of thinking.

3. Some people, for whom everything in life is generally good, develop a worry that something bad happen is eventually gonna happen.

Hope this helps!

[skorpan420]

It means whatever you make of it. It could be the end of a relationship, it could be the end of the world, or it could be a "vibrational mismatch". You'll be the judge, no one else.

[karaheissman]

Most of the time, when I have a feeling that something bad is going to happen, for me it is caused by one of three things:

1. I know the when a situation has the potential of resulting in something bad happening. Just as we often pick up "subtle vibes" from meeting new people, I often pick up similar subtle vibes about ourselves and any number of situations.

2. I may be particularly stressed out and anxious. When we're under stress we start to live "under the influence" of "stress chemicals" which bring about certain changes in our bodies. We aren't our "usual calm selves", so that, alone, makes us feel more generally nervous. Depending on the number of stressors that we are dealing with, and the severeity of stress, we get can to a point where we don't just feel uncertain or ungrounded, we can start to get into the "what's-going-to-happen-next" kind of thinking.


3. Some people, for whom everything in life is generally good, develop a worry that something bad happen is eventually gonna happen.

Hope this helps!