Ur fear not always become true

[Free bird]

hey guys..........there is a query which i have.............sometimes i have noticed that sometimes what i fear the most to happen does not happen at all...........like for eg. when i fear seeing someone at that particular place n time.............opposite happens..........i want to understand how does that happen, if our fear are to become reality then how come sometimes opposite happens???

[Ginny]

I think our fears don't always become reality. I think there are lots of other influences at work, that we often aren't aware of. I think people are so keen to believe in LOA that they come up with theories to explain observations that don't fit with the general rule - and can then get very dogmatic about why this or that thing happened - they'll insist, "you must really have been thinking X if Y happened, no matter what you say you were thinking"

My own theory (not to be applied dogmatically ) is just what I said above, there can be lots of other influences that we aren't aware of. Like gravity - it's a universal Law, it's always at work. But if you drop a ball in air it falls faster than if you drop it in a vat of oil. And if you drop it out in space far from Earth or other dominant gravitational forces, it may not appear to "fall" at all. Doesn't mean that gravity isn't real, just that there are other factors that come into play.

[JustForToday]

i think it depends on what you truly believe in. something fearing doesnt mean that youre REALLY convinced that this is going to happen- at least not your subconsciuos and thats what counts. the fear might be conscious, but the belief is subconscious, something we cannot influence.
i found out, that things ARE going to happen- in case you just dont fear it but the inside- YOU believes you "deserve" no better.

  my view

[Free bird]

maybe..........but how to get ur subconscious mind believe in something u really want and do u get wat ur subscious mind believes in??

[Hirandall]

How to make sure subconscious mind DO NOT believe in something AT ALL?Any tips?

[JustForToday]

maybe..........but how to get ur subconscious mind believe in something u really want and do u get wat ur subscious mind believes in??

i think its possible through hypnosis and some binautral beats.
also, there is a method, pstec, you will find it here:

hope that helps

http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/pstec/