Need your ideas to make my mother a bit more positive

[Itami]

hello,

my mother is a very negative person and it went wrong a lot in her life. her husband died in july and she feels very bad.
i want to help her. so i decided to program a "Positive Advent calendar" for her. i want her to believe a bit more in the power of positive thinking and maybe a bit in the secret. further i want to improve her self-love and show her that she is the only one who is responsible for her happyness.
i have some videos, stories and music to put into the calendar but it isn't enough. do you have any ideas? it just has to be a file that you can open without installing a new program like a jpg, png, doc, mp3, midi or something like that.

i'm glad about every inspiration.

thank you so much for every answer

Itami

[Ginny]

How about putting in some things that you know would make her smile? Maybe jokes, pictures she likes, poems, music clips, etc?

[Itami]

yes, i have some, but it's not enough. i have some cartoons, a video of a comedian, some funny pics and gif's and a youtube video "gods love letter to you". some videos about faith or bear down doubt would be great.

[Ginny]

I meant, things that she specifically likes, rather than anything necessarily to do with positive thinking. Wasn't sure, got the impression that the other stuff you had was all LOA / positive thinking stuff.

[Itami]

i was focused on positve thinking because i want to help her with this present. but you are right. something that she like will lift her spirits too. thank you  i will think in this direction tomorrow.

[Mr positive]

Its sad how ppl get so torn up after a loved one dies! Well nothing lasts forever sadly and its to bad this had to happen My best wishes to your mom and you! All I can say is think about all the good times she had with him and for you both, maybe take this time to be greatful for the time you and your mom have together! Things take time to heal but with you helping her things will get easier for you both ! Yeah but add things of all sorts that she likes bc that will also make her happy! Maybe make memories together on pictures and add that to! Nothing like family memories making you feel greatful for now! Gl hope things get better for you both tc! Youll both be in my prayers

[Itami]

thank you very much. i'll try my best to help her.

[Shrikanya]

Dear Itami,

It is miraculous that people need validation of whatever they are thinking is happening. It will take some effort on your part to make her smile, see that the world is much beautiful and that there are some wonderful people as well.

I guess you can get some idea from this video. here, take a look.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cbk980jV7Ao

Hope this brings  a smile on your face as well as your mother's

Take care,

Best Regards,
Shrikanya

[Itami]

thank you very much. it brought a smile on my face and i will use it for my Advent calendar.