hello guys advice needed

[def]

So update,

I ended up with the perfect man. I came to this forum trying to get a certain man back into my life and to start a new relationship. In the meantime I found the perfect man however the certain man I wanted to attract has come back into my life and wants to make amends because he is the perfect mans best friend. I just really dont know what to do, because its weirded me out. So I'm just wanting to know what to do?

[truelove]

Can I just clarify something? Has the original guy come back to make amends and be friends because you are now going out with his friend (if so great! be friends easy peasy) or has he come back wanting something more from you?? If so I can see how that is confusing.
All I can say is follow your heart... which one are you happier with?

Without knowing these guys, or you, it sounds to me like the simple solution is to just stay with the perfect guy right..? because he's perfect!! 

[I Love Rainbows]

Here's what you do.
You fill your emotional grid with good stuff.
And let the love come rollin' in

Watch these two videos - fifteen minutes and forty-three seconds of MASSIVE expansion into the vortex:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JtUK0Mh0utU&feature=g-vrec

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T9UrX54uD1g&feature=g-vrec

[sh-boom]

follow your heart, but do be careful that the guy who you attracted back doesnt just want you because youre not his anymore and that his feelings are genuine. you dont want to throw away what you have with the guy you describe as perfect for someone who only wants you because he cant have you right now. make sure his intentions are genuine. and well done on attracting them both

[def]

Has the original guy come back to make amends and be friends because you are now going out with his friend (if so great! be friends easy peasy) or has he come back wanting something more from you?? If so I can see how that is confusing.

I'm don't think he (the x) knows. I feel a lot of confusion coming from him. He was shocked to see me then went around to his friends house to see me and make the peace. He thought I would be hostile and I am just not that person. I speak very candidly with my perfect man because even his flaws are perfect. We talked about his friend and I know who I want to be with. My perfect man isn't perfect but he is perfect for me. We have a connection on all levels and I am grateful to have him in my life.

 :-*Thank you so much. I think the shock of him wanting to see me after being so cruel and mean. It has been 8months since I last saw the x but for my loves sake and mine. I will make the peace. Even if  he wants more its too late. I am so happy, grateful and I love sharing my joy. Thank you guys. You are always here when I need advice.

Sending positive vibes