Freaked out by reply

[jojo]

I asked :

Hello, I am new to the law of attraction and would like some advice. I am worried that if I ask for money to come to me, something might happen to someone I love and that the money may come to me as a result of something happening to them. I realise tht this may seem very silly but it is a real concern and is putting me off asking for what I would like to be delivered to me. Can anyone offer me advice, encouragement or any words of wisdon to reassure me please?

Added:

Sorry I did not make myself clear. The information I have read and heard instructs me to ask for what I want, be pro-active but do not worry about where it comes from or how it comes to me. I am aware that I am mentioned in the will of a close family member and a close family friend. If I ask for money and do not specify how it comes to me, how can I be sure that the money will not come to me because of something happening to the people I love? I realise that this may seem silly to some but it is a concern. I do not know how to ask for something without being negative. I can hardly say please help me to pay off my mortgage but don't let any harm come to anyone in order for me to do this. Any further advice please?

I received the following reply which has freaked me out. I am struggling to stop negative thoughts as I am new to this and worry that I am going to cause negative things to happen because of the following reply to my question.

What you think about, feel about, and believe about, will come true. Having said that, I'd like to inform you that in my opinion, if you keep on focusing the bad things that might happen, it might actually come true. That is the Law of Attraction at work. Therefore, I would recommend that you only think about the things that you DO want to come true, and get emotionally involved in the good things in your mind, and not the bad things.

Can anyone offer me some more encouragement and make me feel less bewildered please? Sorry to appear needy , I am working on it.

[Mariposa, (KnJ)]

Did you go back and read the thread on your last post?

I guess I don't understand where the problem is.......if you think it will come to you at the peril of your family and friends, it will because your thoughts become your reality so you must "delete" those thoughts and replace them with good thoughts as explained in the link to the other thread related to your first thread.

http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/how-to-use-law-of-attraction-12/question-regarding-the-safety-of-the-loa/msg38911/#msg38911

Take a look at it again and explain what you need help with, please.

Thanks. 

Lots of Love!

[Mr positive]

yeah this i well explained to you! Stop thinking negatively! Sounds easy bc it is easy! It wont happen over night but hey its the same for every one! Your never alone! Dont be scared of the reply, you needed to hear that to realise how important it is to think positive! Let all your worries go they wont help you! Good luck and just STOP!

[tereza]

Jojo,

Since the thought of manifesting money is something that fills you up with fear, you can get around that fear, by visualizing the end result. Check out this article for more information on it:
http://www.mind-your-reality.com/mental_focus.html#Part_2

Their example was instead of focusing on a larger bank account, focus on giving away money to charities or giving expensive gifts to family members (which in order to do, you would need to have lots of money). So perhaps you could focus on giving gifts to the family members you want to protect.

[Shrikanya]

Simple!!

ASK:

Money please come to me so that I and the people I love are always bestowed with happiness, health, wealth and prosperity

Hope this will solve your problem!!

A very happy new year!!

[57angel]

Change your beliefs on money and money will flow into your life. Allow money to love you, by having the thoughts, beliefs, feelings and emotions that money will only do good and great things and events to you and your family.