change sexuality

[relatedtouniverse]

Sup guys! There's only one little thing I wanna change about me. I have a girlfriend, job and I'm a friendly person, but there's one thing...
I'm attracted to giving oral pleasure to men. Is there some way to stop it!? I am very serious. I mean, I'm attracted to women, but as I said...

[Mariposa, (KnJ)]

I am not sure but I am kinda doubting there will be many responses to this post but I did pm you with advice. 

I hope that helps. 

We really don't get many posts like this on the forum, it's just not a normal topic we discuss but hopefully what I sent you will be of help.

Have a great night! 

[iloverainbows]

Why do you feel the need to change yourself? There's nothing wrong with being bisexual. It's lovely

My advice is to explore who you are more and learn to love that person rather than trying to repress it. Repressing your true self just leads to all sorts of nastiness down the lane.

If you're feeling odd about being bisexual, there's a wealth of information and support out there to help you, love you.

Please don't try and change your sexuality. There's really no need.

Love from,
Another bisexual person

[relatedtouniverse]

if you can do whatever you want by using law of attraction, I want only to stop my bisexual desire. I'm not homophobe or something

[iloverainbows]

Why do you want to stop yourself being bisexual? Why not manifest accepting and loving yourself like you are? That's far healthier. If you love sucking guys off, then don't repress that...embrace it! It's lovely!

[relatedtouniverse]

Not my style

[iloverainbows]

I'm not trying to be difficult on purpose, but I think it's an important question to ask...'why do you want to change this?'. This is because what you are doing is actually working against the law of attraction in a few fundamental ways:

1) Manifesting requires you being in a state of love, bliss and happiness. this starts with you so if you are not happy with part of you, then your foundation is...tainted.

2) You are trying to use LOA to push against part of yourself. When you push against something, it only gets fiercer and stronger.

It sounds like you are coming from a place of not accepting yourself fully...you said this is not your style. However it clearly is your style, or you wouldn't be into it. The path of love is not one where you try to repress part of yourself. it is loving every part of who you are.

Now, if you want to use LOA to focus on....the bliss you feel when you're with women...or enjoying the oral pleasure of your girlfriend...that you can do. However I sense in you someone who really doesn't love part of themselves, and this is an opportunity for you to change that. I'm not sure why you don't embrace this part of you...is it not accepted in your culture? Do you think that somehow it makes you more 'weak' to like men? I know a lot of men who like men can feel this way, but that doesn't mean you have to feel that way. Loving your whole self has much more freedom than repressing and denying part of who you are. And you can only ever repress who you are, you can't destroy it fully. Then the repressed part of you comes out in unhealthy ways down the line. Or, you can take this chance to begin really exploring why you want to take away this wonderful part of yourself, and learn to start loving and accepting all of you instead. Embrace your true nature; it's bliss.

PS I'm not sure if I'll post any more here, but I hope others give good advice and help soon.

[relatedtouniverse]

I wanna change myself and that's it, when I succed, I'll let you know