In debt and quit his job

[littlegirl]

Someone I know has been $50,000 in debt and he quit his job (which paid about $65,000). He does not want to worry about the debt and thinks things will take care of themselves. It sounds irresponsible to me.
What do you think? If you don't focus on debt, will it just go away?

[amaranth]

Hello littlegirl!

To be honest, I don´t think that debts will dissappear by simply denying them! The law of attraction is very helpful, but I believe, that it won´t work if you just sit on a sofa and wait! There are many chances that come your way but you have to take them!

[lee.see]

If he really is content with his decision (and only he will know this). Doors will open where there are now walls.

[themoneypoems]

Littlegirl,

There is a difference between using denials to sever mental attachments to the beliefs that stand back of outer conditions and living in denial about your problems.

I write about this very thing in my latest blog entry entitled, "Affirmations 101: Denials - Your Mental Stain Remover." (themoneypoems.wordpress.com)

Denials and affirmations are tools for building consciousness. Denials prep the mind for affirmations. They dissolve our faulty thinking so that our affirmations can be planted in good mental soil. True denial targets negative beliefs, not negative things.

Denials are not an excuse to live in denial. They are not a sophisticated form of sticking your head in the sand about undesirable problems. To the casual observer, it may appear that denials are a way of “pretending” that a bad condition does not exist. But the skilled thinker knows that as long as you live in mental contact with any undesirable condition, you recognize its place and therefore give it license to be in your experience. Denials sever mental contact.

I do not know your friend or what prompted his decision to quit his job. What I can share with you is that the cause of debt is mental. And, it's solution is mental. It matters not whether he ever works again or finds a job paying twice the amount he was previously making. Until that mental paradigm is released, your friend will keep a debt experience.

In the meantime, you can affirm for him that he accepts his good. Here's an affirmation from Catherine Ponder that I use for all my business associates: There is good for you, you ought to have it, and you claim it now. Your good is at hand and you experience it NOW!

Prosperously yours,
Denise Allen
www.themoneypoems.com