YES, IT WORKS...you can attract him/her back!

[spiritcrafter]

This is my original post to give you some background on my story:

http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/6/my-success-story-and-questions/

But people, you know the answer!

It works!

But you have to stop holding on so tightly.

And you need to shift your focus.

I'll be glad to answer some questions, as I know it may help me decide what to do next.

Here is an article I found very useful:
(was posted a while back by a fellow manifester, but can't find the link)


One of the most often asked questions is “Can you attract a specific person using the law of attraction?” The good news is Yes you can absolutely attract a specific person in your life in a relationship you choose and with success.

Love is the most important emotion of all in this entire universe. When it comes to money, jobs, and so many other things people don’t really have that much difficulty in manifesting. In matters of the heart if you don’t get what you want the pain is maximum. The one you love, that specific person, is the most important person for you, and even the entire world cannot substitute for that person. Now I have absolutely great news for you today. Yes, you can attract that specific person you are in love with. So today allow yourself to be absolutely elated and just follow the procedure below.

Desire and Desperation – You need to let go of the desperation

While desire is a sacred energy, an energy of creation, desperation is just the opposite, a destructive energy. When desire is unfulfilled the void is taken over by desperation. While desire is a pure and good energy, desperation is a powerful negative energy. Desire creates those vibes in you to attract, desperation creates just the opposite vibes, to repel. When you fell in love with that special person, the sacred seed of desire was sown in you. Due to whatever reasons when that desire was unfulfilled desperation crept in. So the first step is remove that desperation. Clear all desperation.


How to clear desperation?
The easiest way to clear desperation is to let go. Surrender to the light of divine love of the Universe. Imagine a beautiful light of divine love, a pure radiant love light. Just surrender to that beautiful sparkling light. That light created you, gave you everything that you possess, and that light simply loves you, no matter what you have done so far. That light is forgiving, 100% pure love and powerful enough to create a beautiful reality beyond your wildest imagination. When you fell in love that light was silently telling you what to do, only if you listened. So let go of everything, surrender and start anew. Today submit yourself to that divine light and affirm to yourself you let go, you surrender and you allow that Divine Light to create a bright future, a bright love life for you. You accept the divine will because the divine will make your life far happier than you can imagine.

Once you do this you let go of any attachment to the result. Now the fun part begins.

Creating a beautiful love life
Once you have let go of any attachment to that person, you have given a very powerful and strong signal to the Universe you are now ready for love in your life. If previously your love was one sided now it’s time to create a both sided relationship. You are a super hero in your theater of the mind. Your movie is in your mind and your movie creates your reality. You have 100% control over your imagination and use this wisely to create a reality of your choice.

Now now simply imagine your loved one in love with you. Earlier you were one the one in love now imagine your lover is the one in love with you. “Your loved one loves you”, your desire is fulfilled. How does it feel? Say to yourself as an affirmation 1000’s of times “_______ loves me” See what happens in the next 5-7 days. See the shift in energy. Notice how you would feel. Visualize your lover is in love with you. Keep a tab on the feelings. How does it feel? Go lucid in your mind as you make love to your lover. How does it feel?

If you do the above stop properly you will realize and laugh at yourself, what was I so desperate for? And once you have done it well, your world opens up. You feel more powerful. If you do this properly you will feel like a winner and your world of choices opens you. You will definitely wonder what the big deal about this person that I was putting so much energy on? Why didn’t I just let go before?

Sending Love
While the above techniques were to get you out of your pit of desperate feelings and make you feel like a winner so that positive thoughts and feelings came and made you realize whether you wanted that person because of love or because you wanted to satisfy your ego. In many cases the desperation to get back isn’t because of love but because of a sense of conquest. So now you know in your heart whether you truly love the other person or not. If its love go forward else just allow the Universe to deliver the best vibrational match for you.

Now this is a very important step for those in love
Love – the power behind creation
Understand this. Love is THE most powerful energy in the Universe. With love you can create anything, win anyone’s heart, mind and soul. Every day for at least 10 minutes sit down and send loving thoughts to your loved one. Imagine you already have a relationship with her. Your lover loves you completely. Now what kind of loving thoughts would you send to your lover.

Imagine a pink ball of energy in between your hands in which you see you already have the relationship of your choice. In this ball you can see you and your lover. This ball can only contain pure and good love energy. Note the words, the thoughts, the kind of relationship you both have in this ball. Now let go of the pink ball. Let it flow away in the Universe.

Let go of any attachment. And if you do it right there will be no attachment now because you are already in a field where you can FEEL the feelings of the relationship and loving your lover. In case there are any doubts Affirm to yourself, “I surrender to my divine light”. “I only have love and gratitude for my divine light”.

Remember this very clearly Intention Manifestation can ONLY and ONLY happen when the feelings vibrational level is high. Desperation is like a deep well, it has a -ve vibration. Love and Gratitude have the highest vibration.

If you do this right your emotions at this point of time should be:
1. zero desperation. You will wonder where it has disappeared?
2. extremely happy because you have created a beautiful relationship and seen and felt it so vividly
3. a perfect happy relationship between you and the Universe where you only and only have Thank You’s for the Universe.

Your perfect relationship will manifest in all certainty. 60,000 thoughts a day is your thought karma. If Love and Gratitude is even in 80% of this thought karma you cannot imagine what a beautiful relationship you will create, far beyond your imagination.

Article Source:

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http://brightmiracles.com/blog/how-to-attract-a-specific-personyes-you-can-attract-a-specific-person/


HAPPY CREATING.

[Vicki Christina]

I have seen this before and it is a good article to read often!  Thank you for posting it on this board!

[dany]

Hey! It is indeed a beautiful post! thank's for posting it again! And how's your situation now?

[vageesha]

  thnku very much for this post! i love it very much and i found it randomly yesterday, and keeps coming to me..out of no where so i thought of really studying it! and takeingit to head.. i have alredy attarcted my ex back to talk to after 9 months and im very happy bout it. but he hasn't talked to again for a while only once so i hope to keep getting him to talk to me  but i also thought that it's a good thing he isn't talking t me while that the universe must be alredy planing on what to do. to get him to back  here are things i have done so far and doing..

1. i try to let go and feel good so far im doing pretty well n i do hav thouts of he come or not doesn't matter or i don't care he talks or not!

2. i write down all the things im thnkful and greatful for... and writign as of his alredy mine.


3. folowing a 30 day manifeting video wathcing it n visulaing every night.

4. also being happy! am i doing good? what i should do more? and i have aked for sings about him i used to call him bunny alwyz..his nickname from me. so i asked universe if his gonna bemine again to hsow my bunnies every where out side of my home or on computer/tv our of blue also the color green so i keep getting those. wha do you think?

[spiritcrafter]

thnku very much for this post! i love it very much and i found it randomly yesterday, and keeps coming to me..out of no where so i thought of really studying it! and takeingit to head.. i have alredy attarcted my ex back to talk to after 9 months and im very happy bout it. but he hasn't talked to again for a while only once so i hope to keep getting him to talk to me  but i also thought that it's a good thing he isn't talking t me while that the universe must be alredy planing on what to do. to get him to back  here are things i have done so far and doing..

1. i try to let go and feel good so far im doing pretty well n i do hav thouts of he come or not doesn't matter or i don't care he talks or not!

2. i write down all the things im thnkful and greatful for... and writign as of his alredy mine.


3. folowing a 30 day manifeting video wathcing it n visulaing every night.

4. also being happy! am i doing good? what i should do more? and i have aked for sings about him i used to call him bunny alwyz..his nickname from me. so i asked universe if his gonna bemine again to hsow my bunnies every where out side of my home or on computer/tv our of blue also the color green so i keep getting those. wha do you think?

WHOA YOU ARE DOING GREAT!
DO NICE STUFF FOR YOURSELF.
Visualize only when you are feeling super happy.
Listen to some cool music (Goldfrapp's Believer is one of my favorite songs, and I changes some words on it)
Keep the writing in the present tense with A LOT OF DETAIL on what you want.
Act like you are back together, but keep it to yourself (don't tell anyone).
Walk and think like you are already together.

Your love is here already.

[57angel]

Wow, you are doing great Vageesha, thank you for sharing your inspiring story here. It does really inspire me to continue letting go. I am still in the letting go stage still as well as affirming that my perfect mate is already with me. I do agree with Spriritcrafter, visualizing should only be done when you are extremely happy. I tried that before, but it only bring me more desperation and longing for him. Schenderson22 suggested to me to delete him in all my affirmations and instead attract my perfect mate mmmm the more I love myself now, the more I will think maybe later if I will still want to attract him back hehehe Look forward to your future posts Vageesha, best of LOA to you now that you are almost there

[vageesha]

spiritcrafter and @angel 

thnku you guys soooooooooooooooooooooo much i feel very confident i must say that i have been feeling very high spirited and aligned wit the Universe lately and i keep smiling every second... i know it's coming i know my beloved is on his way! i started to Summon * .......loves me- every time i get a Doudts is this oky?
and i did write the Greatful journal and is reading it every night and morning and feeling it!
im kind sad that his not talking to me anymore after i manifested him to talk to me what should i do?
IM finally letting go i won't be into this whole thing much anymore im trying to go to school and get many of my things done! so i can have a good life.
i do visulize too i used to have a hard time visulizng his face becouse i had forgotten it n hearing his voice.. but i get them easily now i do hear his voice say * I love you vagee and i feel as his hugging me and i really feel them and oky i will for sure visulize only when i feel good this is a very good TIP THNKU very much!!!!!

i feel its coming! i have figued out long ago that i truly do love him and he is my soul mate =) so i will keep going till he comes i m kind of curious when i visulize him and say his bame and summon does he feel me? like when i imagine his kissing me? and or hug me? i wonder!

@ angel we are in this together!  we all are we will all get our loved ones sooooooon and in time will go on this journay together im very thnkful to find people that is going through stuff just like me and thnkful for LOA thnkuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu guys i love you allllllllllll very much

[Sweet Spirit]

Dear sweet Vageesha,

Please remember not to doubt or feel sad that he isn't talking right now; a life long commitment needs careful concentration and he may be doing some soul searching himself. This is a slow process, so keep believing that your efforts WILL bring him back. It takes time and patience and positivity. You know that better than anyone!! You are proof that LOA works! Now that you have let go, you can be certain that the universe will bring you the desires of your heart. Stay strong my friend, as you are truly an inspiration to us all!

 It is funny how my beloved has been in my dreams every night for the last several nights. That never happened until here recently. I am hoping that this may be a sign that he is thinking of me too. There are times when I waver back and forth wondering whether he is the one truly meant for me because of the emotional roller coaster ride I was on during our relationship, but now that I realize I don't need him to make me happy, I realize that I DO want him in my life! We were so in tune with each other and we knew each other like no one else. I may not have liked his actions at times, but I truly love his soul unconditionally. Anyway, I know that when I finally get to the point of letting go, that I will get the clear answer to that and I will be happy no matter what the outcome.

Keep doing your positive affirmations and keep the faith!! You are doing so well!

Many blessings to you.

-Melanie

[spiritcrafter]

@ Vicki Christina  Thank you for reading!
@dany   I am trying to decide what's next but we already talked and he addressed all the stuff I wanted to talk about without me asking! It is truly amazing.
@vageesha  you are doing sooooo well. But yes, focus on other priorities too. And send him love.
It helps me when I say "------ loves me"  " I love me"
Listen to good inspiring music, journal your life together in the present with new, beautiful experiences.
@Sweet Spirit  LOA works even if (blah, blah, blah....fill in the blank). The two prior days before he started to contact me, I had him in my dreams.
I do think is a sign.
I do agree with the idea that you have to "let go" in a way. But the meaning of that is not so much let go of the dream of being back together, but rather let go of the need, the desperation, the control.

Best wishes for all!
Let me know when your stories once you have attracted your love back, 'cause I know you are.

[Bubbles]

I don't know why....but I'm starting to really not care about anything anymore. As in...I have no more longing (or maybe really minimal like a split second moment)...I no longer look at my MSN to see if he's there, no longer want to or even have a slight desire to want to check his facebook profile, doesn't feel like calling/texting him. Even when I met up with common friends, I don't even have the slightest desire to talk about him.

But I still believe he is coming back. And it's getting stronger by the day. The feeling of that is very very strong. To the point, it makes me laugh :S To the point that his name is appearing everywhere...even the Criminal Mind episode I jsut watched. During my healing period, I didn't see his name anywhere!

Nothing has changed in reality to be honest. Except that I had a dream of him blasting my phone a few nights ago and I remember feeling very nonchalent inside the dream. I woke up laughing hytserically.

Hahaha

Love to everyone here! I love coming in here to see stories of people finding themselves Because I think I found myself too Hehe

[pachacuti]

Awesome Bubbles.  I am so happy for you.

Mark

[seabear]

I do agree with the idea that you have to "let go" in a way. But the meaning of that is not so much let go of the dream of being back together, but rather let go of the need, the desperation, the control.

Hear, hear!! 

[Sweet Spirit]

Yes Spirit Crafter!!

We need to "let go" of the idea that our exes are the ones that will make us happy! Only we ourselves can do that, and once we find it in ourselves to be happy we can spread that joy to our lost lovers.

I woke up and fell back asleep three times since last night, and every time I fell back asleep, I had dreams of my boyfriend. I have never been able to "will" my subconscious mind to dream like that before, but what I was telling myself before falling asleep was that I wanted to see him in my dreams because that is the only way I can see him again, and I have been dreaming of him every time I have fallen asleep for the past 4 days!! That has never happened before now!! The last one was very vivid where he was leaving me and saying goodbye. We talked and I cried and we held each other and I did not want to let go of him but he finally pulled away and said, "It's time for me to go now. I have to go and do my own thing." He did not say whether he was coming back in the dream.

In reality (not in my dream,) He talked many times before leaving me that he wanted to go and just wander the world and live off the land. He is certain that 2012 is going to be the year that many won't survive and he was serious about having a survival plan in the mountains somewhere. That was one of the things that was causing me to fear that he was eventually going to leave me. Most of you know from reading my posts that the final straw was when he decided he didn't want to have anything to do with my son and I told him that our relationship was not worth it to him. I was hurt that he was not willing to compromise even a little for our relationship when I was doing everything I could to change into the person who would make him happy.

 I am hoping that his "own thing" is getting his life together, getting positive, and getting a job and home of his own, where he feels like more of a man. He was depressed because he had nothing to offer me and it wasn't because he didn't love me that he left, it was because he knew he could not offer me anything more, and he knew that I felt that my son was more important than a man who would eventually go away. I truly believe he is never again going to find a woman who loved and cared for him as much as I did. I do not worry that he will end up in a long term relationship with anyone else because he did not want to be attached (even to me.)

My son even says my boyfriend is coming back one day! My son loves and forgives this man as much as I do!

I am letting go of the desperation, but holding on to the hope that we will be together again in the most beautiful relationship ever!! Now I have to focus on myself and getting my life ready for his glorious return!

I am so grateful for all of you! And I am grateful that God led me to this forum. If not for all of you, I would be wallowing in self pity right now! Instead, I am finding more and more reasons to enjoy my life!


So....Thank you! Thank you Thank you!!!!   

[spiritcrafter]

@Sweet Spirit: You are focusing too much on what WENT WRONG.
I feel like you need to change your focus a lot more into WHAT YOU WANT.

Please check out this video:

Bob Newhart-Stop It!!

I hope you find it funny too.
But sometimes we just overwhelm ourselves over stuff we think is important (barriers, constrains, buts, etc.) when there are really not there.

[pachacuti]

Thanks, spiritcrafter, that was funny.  I needed that. (Well, I always need to laugh, even when I am laughing.)

Mark