progress???

[Lovelife]

hey everyone!
so for a while i was feeling down about my situation, we kept arguing and being rude to each other and i knew it wasnt helping to attract him back. over a week ago we were arguing, and i apologized to him and we ended on a decent note, not good or bad.
i didnt text him for about 9 days and then the other day i got a text from him apologizing for the way he was talking to me. it was a very sincere apology and i appreciated it a lot. we ended up seeing each other (he suggested it) and we had a really really great time! we were talking, nothing felt weird or tense and we were getting along great and laughing, and we ended up kissing towards the end of the night. i can tell he still has feelings for me. he told me how he missed me. it felt so great and i was so happy we were having such a great time and i really enjoy all my time with him.
im going to see how things go for a while. he told me he doesnt want to go back on his decision to break up though :S
i know things take time and its a process but im not sure what to do. i really enjoy all our time spent together, and i dont want to see him every few weeks i want him around often, i want us together again.
one of my friend says i shouldnt be there for him, because then he gets to be single, yet still enjoy the benefits of me. (having his cake and eat it too)
my sister said i should keep in contact with him, not too much. but just be friendly, and hang out with him every so often, because she thinks hell miss me more once he sees how well were getting along.
the thing is i know people cant tell us what is right, but i dont know what to do! i dont want him to feel like he can have me whenever he wants and then forget me whenever he wants, but at the same time when were together it feels so good and so right, and i enjoy our time together. i dont want him out of my life completely.
any advice?

[loveofabundance]

I agree with your sister and, you wrote, yourself, that you don't want him out of your life completely.  How do you feel?  what vibe are you getting from the present situation?  That will guide you.

[Lovelife]

i feel really good when im with him. i feel excited and happy.
when im not with him i start worrying about if hes doing it just to have me there or not. im trying to not let worry and doubt slip in,
like i said i know its a process.
but i still feel like this is really good progress, at least i know he still has feelings for me. and even if he doesnt want a relationship right now TODAY, the universe is working. so that could change in time