I know what I want now!

[Mr positive]

I realized I was not putting any emmotion into my visualizations but I found out that I really want my ex back or some one just like her! I visualized her being with me and all the great things we would do together! I could feel every emmotion when I visualized this and it felt so alive! I could feel touching her again and hugging and so much more! I know for sure that she is the one for me! This was my first love but I mean when we were together I could accomplish anything, but now that I worked on myself a whole bunch and grew as a individual, I feel like I have much more to offer to her! I am going to keep improving and keep thinking positive no matter how long it takes! The longer the better I say because it gives me and her more time to fix our issues and find out what we really want in the future! I will wait decades if I have to but in the mean time im going to stay focused on other dreams to and live my life to the fullest! Enjoy the day every one, the universe loves us all!

[bravelioness]

i admired your attitude.right now, i'm getting bothered because of our distance.sometimes i would think that he doesn't want anything to do with me as he ignores my messages in ym, text and in facebook and he even deleted me.i sent a message to you.hope you respond to it asap.we haven't been in contact for like more than 2 months.please help.thanks!

[Detached&Allowing]

Sometimes I feel like a broken record.  I am not sure if I have shared this with the two of you or not.  However, the best way to manage the Law of Attraction is to maintain an Attitude of Gratitude.  Mr.  Positive, you did it with the misunderstanding with your mom and you can do it with your ex.  There are two ways to view what is happening.  One - The Universe gives you EXACTLY what you ask for.  So, if this ex does not have EVERY quality that you desire in a mate, you will not be together again.  The Universe will NOT let you settle.

The second is this, if you feel this person IS everything you desire and you know this to be true, then you MUST be grateful for them as though they are already with you.  I have already seen this work in this forum.  Be grateful for the person as though he/she is already by your side.  Be grateful for his/her love and support.  Feel the warmth, the passion.  Frustration, feeling lack of, etc will only attract more frustration and feelings of lack.

The transition doesn't occur overnight.  Many times "events" need to take place in order for this person to show up as you desire in your reality.  The Universe will make the changes you just need to sit and be grateful. 

Hope that helps!

[Mr positive]

Yea very true! I am starting to get the whole attitude of grattitude! I visualize every mourning when I first awake and before I fall asleep! I am going to start a grattitude journal because I think that will deff help me when I lose hope or feel down! One thing I hate is how I procrastinate all the time and dont do what I say im going to do and I still need work on that subject! But all in all, I get how that would help me out alot! Thanks again for the replies!

[bravelioness]

I think I have the same problem with Mr. Positive. I don't put emotions with my gratitude thing/visualizations/affirmations.I'm trying really hard to put myself into feeling as if it's already there.Oh well.I need more exercise when it comes to that.Any suggestions for exercise?

[Detached&Allowing]

Getting the feeling can be challenging.  You may want to visualize something that already exists that makes you happy when you read aloud your gratitude statements.  Sometimes I think of something funny.  Then you will start to associate that feeling with your statements. Let me know if that helps!!