Where do I go from here?

[beautifuldreamer]

Ok. Everything is falling into place. I feel closer to him and he seems less tense around me. We have been communicating solely through text message, though all we talk about right now is achieving our career goals. But that's something. I don't know if he still has a girlfriend, because I get a flirty vibe from him.

Where do I go from here? I want him to start contacting me on his own and I would love to see him more often in person. I'm not sure where to go from here. I don't want to be pushy as I believe things will happen in their own time.

Any advice?

[schenderson22]

You may want to consider listening to following before bed each night or when you feel low. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d7dEkWvqrlA&list=FLnBDT1ODm-LCip0Iym6RogQ&index=9&feature=plpp_video

You may also want to adopt the following affirmation " I am already enjoying a healthy, loving and committed relationship with (insert his name) at the true level of my being and enjoying this healthy, loving and committed relationship with (insert his name) NOW manifests in my physical world.

I would also recommend that you forgive him in your heart.  Literally say to yourself "I forgive him, I forgive him, I forgive him" for any unpleasant feelings he may cause.  Does that make sense?

[beautifuldreamer]

What is the video supposed to do ?

[schenderson22]

It isn't so much a video as it is an audio.  It raises your vibration.   

[crazysoul]

You may want to consider listening to following before bed each night or when you feel low. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d7dEkWvqrlA&list=FLnBDT1ODm-LCip0Iym6RogQ&index=9&feature=plpp_video

You may also want to adopt the following affirmation " I am already enjoying a healthy, loving and committed relationship with (insert his name) at the true level of my being and enjoying this healthy, loving and committed relationship with (insert his name) NOW manifests in my physical world.

I would also recommend that you forgive him in your heart.  Literally say to yourself "I forgive him, I forgive him, I forgive him" for any unpleasant feelings he may cause.  Does that make sense?

you gave me this affirmation a few days ago and i really do love it!!!
i use it daily, its on my visionboard and its very very helpful.
thank you again 

[beautifuldreamer]

Crazysoul how are you progressing on your journey?

Last couple times I spoke to my ex, I sensed he was flirting with me and I instantly started analyzing everything. I finally gave in even though I know I should not have and asked him point blank if he was. He didn't reply until the next day saying he didn't see my message and then said no he was not, he was just being overly nice to me, which could have been interpreted that way.

I feel like I am sabotaging myself in some way and ruining my chances with him even more. I am not completely detached from him and now I feel like I should just go back to no contact, because I don't feel good anymore and I am having unsure feelings.

[animor]

I don't think I am on a better position to give you advice, just sending you my positive vibes as I have a lot lately!

If you feel unsure or insecurity, do not rush things. Do nothing for a while until you are in the right place again.
Personally I don't see detachment as not caring about the outcome or feeling indifferent whether it will happen or not. I have manifested things having a strong desire for the outcome all the time, being very excited about it etc, knowing that I will be happy having it.
But I had no worries, I was completely sure it will happen. This is how I see detachment. It had worked for me.

[crazysoul]

Crazysoul how are you progressing on your journey?

Last couple times I spoke to my ex, I sensed he was flirting with me and I instantly started analyzing everything. I finally gave in even though I know I should not have and asked him point blank if he was. He didn't reply until the next day saying he didn't see my message and then said no he was not, he was just being overly nice to me, which could have been interpreted that way.

I feel like I am sabotaging myself in some way and ruining my chances with him even more. I am not completely detached from him and now I feel like I should just go back to no contact, because I don't feel good anymore and I am having unsure feelings.

oh i am sorry for you----  yeah- you shouldnd have asked him.
try to get detached more, i know its hard but dont think on the outcome.
get a step back and let him come....and take care of your life!!!

i am sending positve vibes

[beautifuldreamer]

Thanks for the positive vibes guys. I don't sense his response was negative. I'm more upset that I asked, but in the grand scheme of things its not the worst thing I could have done.

Let him come to me. WOW that is a hard one for me.

[crazysoul]

Thanks for the positive vibes guys. I don't sense his response was negative. I'm more upset that I asked, but in the grand scheme of things its not the worst thing I could have done.

Let him come to me. WOW that is a hard one for me.

excatly- let him come- very important.... it is hard i know.

you will make it.... believe that its going to make things better and your dreams come true!!!

we have to talk more once.... pm or so:)