What do you want in your perfect relationship?

[Peace]

I wanted to share with you what I most wish to have in a perfect relationship with the perfect person. Eventually, I'd like to ask you whether I might be asking for too much, since until now, the more I ask, the worse it's getting, especially with one person who is fitting nearly all parts of what I wish. Could it be that I am also expressing the wish with the wrong vibrations?

Everyone is invited to share their ideas on their perfect relationship

- commitment and faithfulness, with an explicit expression of our exclusive bond, which will last until end of time;
- friendship: I want my wife to be my best friend and my best friend to be my wife.
- straightforwardness: clear and honest communication. No hidden doubts, no fake happiness, no white lies. We should feel free to tell each other everything, including criticism, with the aim of improving our relationship. No feeling pressured, no guilt, nothing hidden. No obligation except mutual disclosure (unless there's a truly genuine reason)
- development, change and growth shall be integrated in our relationship: empowering both of us as free individuals and as a couple, throughout time;
- this also involves sacrifice and dedication to each other when needed;
- synergy: we are like two independent managers in different departments of the same company, our company we collaborate as two leaders of the same team, wherever we may be;
- admiration: I want to admire my wife for her achievements or personality, as well as learn from her. And have a reason to work for her admiration as well.
- we pursue our love even throughout the greatest differences society may impose on us, we may have extremely different ideas, opinions, even values, and yet happily walk on the same path.
(to put it in different words: debates and discussions shall deepen and empower our interactions, and help us learn from each other!)
- and therefore our worlds shall collide into one: my world is her world and hers is mine, my friends are hers, and hers are mine. My history shall be hers, and hers mine.
- very important: our love shall not have enemies; nobody should be jealous of us being together, and nobody should try to induce us into infidelity.

It's your turn now!

[sonalee]

I know this is old.. but i guess, this is what i was looking for.
I think, I want my perfect love and relationship the same as you mentioned.

[UpLOAding]

I think some of the most important things I am looking for in a partner and relationship is:

- having many extremely different ideas and mentality from each other, but developing a strong understanding for each other.

- the sense of building something together

- and in general, being together a lot.

[LadyUniverse]

i want all you guys wisely stated and also more fulfilling intimacy.

i want a cute album on facebook with our pictures together and all our friends commenting on how we make for the perfect couple.

[yondaime109]

very interesting.