Weird Situation

[Rain Raquib]

I am in no contact with my love for 3 and half months... and i wanted to continue this...
In the mean time i am trying to manifest my love by magical creation box, visualization, remote seduction...
Even sometimes i really feel down and want to talk to him but i don't want to contact him by myself anymore...
I want if he contact with me then i will talk otherwise i wont contact... I believe God will give him to me back if we are meant to be together....

But yesterday somehow in my mobile, a call was made to his number accidentally by pressing wrong place (i wanted to call my mother), and i instantly cut the call and hope that i cut before it rings at his side. BUT TODAY MORNING same thing happened again. I was in a hurry to go to my work and i put my cell in my bag (i cant remember whether my touchscreen was locked or not when i put it in bag, i dont bother to lock coz it is auto locked after some time) And later i found a call was made from my cell to his number again and this time the call was for 7 and half minutes. OMG... it was made when i was on the way to my work.... so weird... i think he did nt pick up the phone, the call went to voice mail...

what should i do now? What he is thinking? should i send him a formal sms that due to my mobile malfunction a call was made automatically to him unintentionally? i really feeling weird... i want to slap myself...

[ellebelle]

Don't worry too much about it, I've done that plenty of times and considering it was an accident, there is no attachment to the phone call. It's up to you what you want to do, I wouldn't send him anything personally.

[Tulip]

Just accept its happened and brush it off. If curiosity gets the better of him he'll be in touch- if pride gets the better of him, he wont.

Well done for sticking to your no contact, I caved in after 3 months, and just so you know, I told my ex in a recent discussion that those 3months away from him gave me clarity, and asked if he felt any peace. He laughed sarcastically and said "NO!" So NC does work. Stick with it!

[irishgirl69]

Yeah, I wouldn't worry about it nor would I send him a text explaining anything.  You didn't do it on purpose - this kind of thing happens all the time.

It will be interesting to see if this makes him contact you, though.  The Universe works in mysterious ways!   

[Rain Raquib]

Thanx all for ur response here....

Yes i know this accident happens sometimes... but i am worried coz my no contact has been broken... though i did nt do it intentionally but may be he is thinking i m disparate to contact with him, but actually i m not.

@irishgirl69, if that happens as u said, then it will be great for me... hope ur words come true....

[Shockwave]

Totally let it go- its just one of those things. By texting, your showing your attachment to the situation, which is the opposite of where u need to be.

The other guys here are right, let it go and see where it takes u!

[JustForToday]

i understand your situation very well-

i would send a short message that it happened by accident and then forget about it.
you never know, for what it is good for!!!

respect to you for staying to NC

[DannyDank]

I don't want to shut anyone down here, but part of the basis of LoA is that there are no accidents or, "coincidences", per se, but only synchronicities. In my opinion this was indeed no accident, such as accidents do not exist. It may in the end not matter either way, because after all there are an infinite amount of possible outcomes that begin from an infinite amount of starting points. However, this may play in to one where it is part of the desired outcome you are hoping to achieve. It's all in how you view it. You yourself decide whether it is good or bad, helpful or disruptive.

[JustForToday]

i agree with you danny!!! there are no accidents in life and this will definately lead to something......

she was just asking if writing him back or ignoring it would be better

[animor]

I agree that there are no accidents, this is something that could lead to something, make something happened, or simply set the wheels in motion for something bigger to happen although you can't see it yet!
About contacting him, just go with the flow and do what it feels right. Maybe your doubts and worries about what he'd think etc indicates that you shouldn't. Otherwise a simple text like 'Hi, I didn't want anything, I called you accidentally. Have a nice day!" wouldn't feel that bad! Things like this happen all the time, no need to slap yourslef!  :PBut you know yourself better. If you do what it feels good, it will take you closer to your desire.