weird question

[ILUVME]

I Get the whole no contact rule...no text emails phone calls but does that mean don't play friendly online games with them either?

Y'all I know its a silly question but one worth asking I think? We are supposed to move on and etc and not give energy to them so I'm just asking sorry y'all lol

[Free bird]

didn't understand ur ques

[LadyUniverse]

I suggest not to.   

[onlyhappiness]

 
 To me no contact means no contact at all..... i guess the question would be why are you using no contact? is it because you need to detach or did someone tell you that you should? If you are totally detached and happy you need not to do no contact.  If you are still attached then no game playing etc , no nothing because that will defeat the whole purpose of it which is to make you feel better and happy. Just my take though

[ILUVME]

NO YALL IM NOT FULLY DETACHED HE STILL HAS MY HEART BUT I READ SOMEWHERE YOU DO THE NO CONTACT RULE FOR YOU YES TO MOVE ON BUT TO ALSO ENSUE CONTACT FROM THE OTHER AND TO NOT DISAPPEAR COMPLETELY FROM THEIR LIFE. ITS SILLY ITS JUST A GAME BUT WHAT I READ SAID TO NOT MAKE IT LOOK LIKE YOUR ALL UPSET STILL SO I THOUGHT MAYBE BY NOT PLAYING MY LOVE WOULD THINK IM DOING IT CAUSE IM MAD. IM PROBABLY THINKING TO MUCH HERE YA'LL LOL BUT THATS WHY I HAVE YOU GUYS

THANKS SO MUCH FOR YOUR REPLIES IM SO GLAD I FOUND YOU

[BeHappy]

Indeed No Contact is only for you, its purpose is to help you heal and to get back on your feet, by removing the other person from the picture.
No Contact is not necessarily bringing your ex back. In some cases it does, in others it doesn't. Theoretically, by doing no contact, you shouldn't care if he thinks you are mad or not. I know how incredibly hard this is to do, especially when you love someone and hope to have a relationship with him in the future. But if there is any hope for your relationship, No Contact can indeed have the effect to make your ex rethink his decision.
As hard as No Contact seems to be, staying in contact can be hard as well.
Sometimes people need some space, to breathe and to think, without the pressure that a partner may put on them. Space is not necessarily a bad thing. I do not know your situation, maybe No contact is not even needed, but you should consider taking a step back. It will allow both of you to reflect on what`s going on in your lives.

You are not thinking too much, you are just scared that No contact will push him away. Stay strong.

[LadyUniverse]

great explanations here. wish i knew these things years ago. 

[lashark]

I Get the whole no contact rule...no text emails phone calls but does that mean don't play friendly online games with them either?

Y'all I know its a silly question but one worth asking I think? We are supposed to move on and etc and not give energy to them so I'm just asking sorry y'all lol

I dont see the problem in playing an online game with someone. Amiability and being social and friendly with others is a good thing I think.