weird feeling.

[lise]

I have been trying (possibly too hard) to change the situation between myself and the guy I am in love with.

There have been many times that I have thought I should give up and try to move on but I've stopped myself. I have in the past tried to not contact him and the given in. We were I think goig round in circles. When I did stop contacting him - he gave in and contacted me. I stuck firm and he backed off a bit but said he would always love me etc etc. He wanted to remain in contact and I said I didn't think it was a good idea. I felt after I said it - instinctively that it was the wrong thing to say. A week past and I contacted him. He was glad to hear from me but I was still thinking - things will never change ect. He wanted to keep in contact so if his situation changed then he could come to me quickly but he said he realised this wasn't fair.

I saw a pic on fb and this then really stressed me out and I sent  a long message saying things will never change and it will always be this way etc etc and I have to accept that and move on . I know by saying negative things - I'm attracting more negative things.

Weirdly though - after I had sent it - I felt quite positive? A day passed and I still felt positive. He then replied and said I understand and it's up to you take care and good luck x

Now that for him is quite a "cold" email and whilst feeling positive - I was a bit taken aback and thought oh - that sounds like a final goodbye. BUT I still have a feeling that that is not the end of things. In fact more than that - I feel somethings going to happen. It's like I have a sense of anticipation and I can't explain what it is or why I have it?

I've had  feelings before that something was going to happen - but these have usually been bad feelings and sometimes but nt always I've been right.

I read somewhere that said how do you know when somethig amazing is baout to happen and the answer was you don't - it just happens.

I have from recent contact - no reason to believe things are going to change and from his last message - no reason to think he's not just got fed up of going round in circles and thought enough ad that was a godbye email.  I do tend to assume the worst about things generally but at the moment I have a weird feeling soething - I don't know what but something is going to happen.

Has anyone else experienced something like this and what did you do and what was the outcome? Anyone got any advice as to what I can do to explore or develop this feeling. The only way I can explain it is - when you're going on a night out or a date - seeing people you're really looking forward to seeing and looking forward to what you know is going to be a good night and that sense of anticipation and wanting time to pass quickly so that it's time to go - a feeling of butterflies - it's like that - except I'm not going out and have no reason to actually think something good/ big or even anything at all is going to happen.

It's weird in a good way but I want to know more..

[Love<3]

Good question Lise!
I am wondering the same thing,because I too experience that feeling in some situations:)

[Sitfab]

Lise darling, I'm feeling almost the same here too...only that when i went out last night i felt down, but got better and better by the minute as I reviewed my meet-up with my ex. I felt great minutes later, so great that I started singing. And after I came back from downtown, a weird-good kinda feeling struck me....it's been almost 12 hours since then ( w/sleeping and all ) and it still didn't go away. it's like something is in my chest, a message of some sort, but don't know what, because I've never felt like this.

I thought it's my ex. And i did ask if it was her. and the feeling got even stronger.  . Not giving myself false hope, but whoa. Still in the process of receiving, though

 

[lise]

Well it's good to know I'm not the only one who gets it - not quite so good that we don't know what it means. I could kind of understand it if things were going well because then I'd think it was all a feeling linked to things going well and a general feeling of happiness and optimism.  However, things are all to intent and purpose over - and where normally I'd feel like or be crying and wondering what I can do to change them - I just insttead feel weird!

I have checked and re checked my inbox to see if I have a message which is nothing new and as he messaged last with the goodbye one I have no reason to think I will get one.

It's doing my head in as I don't know what to do about it - I'd like to identify what's caused it? What I can do to explore it and how I can maintain it and more importantly keep feeling it when I don't get a message from him.

[Magdog, MD, Mr. Best Luck]

If you want change in your relationship and him, you have to change yourself, you are attracting this type of relationship. Meditate that you want a new fantastic, blissful relationship with this person.