Visualizing trust and open communication

[UpLOAding]

I am calm and am focusing a lot on visualizing trust and open communication - one of my most important wishes.

Hoping that I understood the Universe correctly, this is what it tells me: take it easy and have no hard feelings about whatever might be an issue that needs to be talked about.

In other words:
I should start with humor and joke about an issue, showing that it is not an issue to me and that I already forgive that. If the person I love is feeling guilty about something, she would feel less so and more free to talk about it - knowing that I will not react negatively.

Is a good channel to trust and open communication?

Am I back on track?

[anamarie74]

Do you think the person you love is feeling guilty about something? Do you think she's scared of the way you'll react?

[UpLOAding]

Apparently, that's what everyone here told me she would be if I ask her directly "For what reason didn't you invite me to your trip and why haven't you shared with me so many details from your personal life in the past few weeks. What can I do to regain your trust and get our communication going again?"
 
So the positive alternative would be something like
"I can understand if you feel bad or etc. about me, but I'm fine with it etc."

[lashark]

Why are you assuming she feels bad?

[anamarie74]

It could be that she simply didn't want to tell you. I think she'll feel awkward if you ask her. Maybe because there's so much emotion behind this you should let it go.

[UpLOAding]

Why are you assuming she feels bad?

Wasn't that what everyone said here in the previous topics?

And, if she didn't want  to tell = she feels bad about telling me?

[lashark]

whoaa, no, I never said that and that never even crossed my mind,



you having such a belief in your vibration though, of course you might feel as if you are struggling or not manifesting what you desire.

You are holding in your vibration that she feels bad about something related to you. If that is what you currently hold in your vibration how can you then attract her through those same vibrations?


your energy is split. when you notice something you dont like or dont want, focus on what you do want through your mind and FEEL it emotionally then you will begin to vibrate and the LOA follows and serves to the vibrations people give out. so if you are thinking she feels bad and it has something to do with you, instead think that she feels good and especially when it comes to you and dont worry so much about having to do things, things will unfold for you.

[UpLOAding]

Do you think the negative energy might be caused by the belief:
"In a successful romantic relationship, partners tells each other everything and clarify any problems."
or also "Good friends always tell each other everthing and clarify any problems." ?
 
Based on that belief, what I want, what I try to attract is "clarify [positive] any problems [negative] ".
 
Are you saying I should instead try to attract "have no sort of problems at all"?

[lashark]

I dont think you HAVE to tell eachother everything to be in a successful romantic relationship or even friendship but people who are in them, most fell so COMFORTABLE with one another that they just happen to want to tell eachother everything and do.

I dont think you should want to clarify the problems, that is bringing light to them, when you shine a light on something you make it bigger,

Try to attract love and happiness, so BE love and happiness because LOA states that attracts itself unto which it is like.
You cant attract love if youre focusing on your problems with love
you cant attract wealth if you are focusing on being broke.