Using the Law of attraction to get my ex back

[Autumn]

I really should try noticing numbers a little more. I never pay attention to them unless it's an exceptionally striking or pretty number combination. But given I check my phone every ten minutes, it shouldn't really come as a surprise. Maybe I'll try noticing the times when I feel really happy and positive.

Exercising really helps. I went on a 8 mile bike ride today and then walked about 2.75 miles. Everything hurts, but I feel so good. It helps take my mind off everything for a while so I can just enjoy being alive and healthy.

[RichL]

So this week, I feel it has been a test for me. There have been times when I have been unhappy. I can't deny that. There have been times that I have felt the loss of Emma more than ever. But every time I feel that loss I remember that we are coming back together. But I think this week has been a test of faith and I feel like I have come through it. I truly believe in the LOA. Every time this week I have performed any LOA exercises I feel a wave of comfort and joy over me.

So what this week has established is that I will not give up, I will attract Emma back. I'm looking forward to the weekend. I am. I have no idea what it’s going to bring and as mentioned last weekend was a combination of drunken calls and feeling sorry for myself. This weekend will be a positive one and whatever happens as these 3 days go past they will be 3 days closer to bringing me back to Emma.

[RichL]

So I thought I would let everyone know how my weekend was. While I have heard nothing from Emma over both nights I ran into friends of hers. Friday I was out for my best friends sisters birthday. I met a girl who went to uni with Emma. Which I thought was a strange coincidence as by rights there shouldn't have been anyone there who knew her. Then on Saturday I saw another friend of hers. Although I didn't speak to her as she was with her boyfriend and I don't think she's too keen on Me.

As for me personally once again I have found it a bit of a struggle. To the point my friends have commented on missing the old me, they also tried to force me into chatting to other women. But this is a stage I'm just not into yet. I know I'm meant to stay postive and I never doubt what's coming in the end. It's just the middle I'm struggling with. I feel fine when I'm affirming or other exercises. It's just when I'm not I find myself a little sad at my current situation.

[RichL]

Ok so today I'm feeling at peace with everything. Not because I have given up on Emma, or in fact have heard from Emma, no because for the first time in a while thanks to the LOA I really feel that Emma is coming back to me. I feel very detached from everything as well. Not sure how long it will last. But I felt like I had to share. I will also say that the more I practice exercises the more I feel it’s going to go my way!

[ChuckS]

RichL,
I am reading through the last 3 post you made and have some suggestions based on what I have read of Abraham.

>>So this week, I feel it has been a test for me. There have been times when I have been unhappy. I can't deny that

This statement tells me you are outside your vortex a lot.

>> But every time I feel that loss I remember that we are coming back together

This statement tells me you are outside your vortex and your comment "we are coming back" is still to distant and indicates you are reaching. With the law of attraction you have to FEEL and BE in it 3D image/and feeling in your head. Imagine being with her and feel it, smell it ... Take the image/feeling and live it. "coming back" means you are reaching and will always be reaching .. believe it, feel it ... appreciate that your source is serving you. The more in tune with that image/feeling you are and the accepticance of it the faster it manifests. Like attracts like. Remember the wonderful feeling that you felt then. Feel them now. Its not conditional on her presence. You can feel that way now.

>> I have no idea what it’s going to bring and as mentioned last weekend was a combination of drunken calls and feeling sorry for myself.

This statement tells me you are way out of vibration with your source and that you do not trust your own guidance. You need to be in tune with yourself before you can attract. Making effort to call and coherse your Emma is far far from the LOA methods. You need to see and feel your 3d world with her in it. you need to BE HAPPY with this image and let part 2 (the universe take care of its part) going after Emma outside you vortex is absolutely fruitless. You need to learn to be happy with you. listen to your guidance system. your feelings.  what does your feelings tell you when you hear or do something. listen to your feeling. I can tell you you CANNOT feel when drinking and are likely to do things that pull you away from your vortex where you Emma is.

>>While I have heard nothing from Emma over both nights

Your entire focus is on Emma , I would recommend you start focusing inward and not outward. start living your thoughts with feeling and then appricate  they are going out to the universe. You know anything you do, your stuggle, your wondering what she is doing only brings more wonder. Your dought only brings more dought. You need to be positive happy accepting. Your approach to LOA needs some tuning. I would encourage you to listen to Abraham on you tube, maybe even get the CDs or Book "The Vortex" ... it will guide you to the better place.

>> test for me,unhappy, loss of Emma,feeling sorry for myself, heard nothing from Emma, I didn't speak to her,bit of a struggle,I'm meant to stay postive, little sad ,peace with everything,very detached from everything,Not sure how long it will last.

These are your words, the LOA is a genie who grants you every wish and these are the word you are handing to the genie. You will draw more of these words. I would work hard on tring to change what you are asking for ... I would also try to make it something that is VERY present instead of future or past. Use the ideas suggested above.

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Conclusion: be kind to yourself, be happy with you, once you can accept the situation and appreciate it. The faster you will be in the vortex. Make your self feel the things you felt when you were with her. Remember the places her voice the smiles the wonderful feeling. Go get a coke and goto a place where you two spent time and appricate the wonderful time as if it was happening at the moment. do this for 20 minutes in your head and heart before you fall asleep each day. Let her go and trust the universe. Remember its your tuning to the feelings you have that draw you two together. like attracts like. bring the feelings and thoughts back. the vibration will draw her. CALLING her does not.

Best of Luck

[RichL]

Hi ChuckS thank you for your response it is greatly received. I have a few questions based on what you have written.

What is the vortex and how do I get inside it?

Maybe coming back together is a bit too distant. But I do know that me and Emma are going to be a couple again, I truly feel it and believe it. In the last couple of days I have had a sense of calmness come over me and I feel this stems from the fact that I'm working my way back to Emma. I do feel in tune with everything for the first time in a while. Do you have any hints or tips with how to feel it and how to work with the source?

I do have trouble with my own guidance I'll give you that, I know this isn’t a process that is going to happen overnight and I have to be patient, but sometimes it’s hard. I agree with the drinking part.

I think this is the hardest thing of all. I agree a lot of my focus has been on Emma. I can't help that sometimes. I wouldn't be human if I didn't miss her. I don't sit there thinking oh man I wonder if she is with another guy. No I sit there thinking I'm surrounded by people, people who matter and who don't. But I want to be sitting next to Emma on her sofa watching shit TV and eating pizza. That’s where I want to be. That’s where I will be again. But I'm trying to eliminate the doubt.

I agree and I know LOA is working with me to attract Emma back to me. I have no doubt that this is my present.

Thank you ChuckS I will take all of what you said on board and start to improve and grow.

[ChuckS]

The vortex is your source or the genie or some say god it is what moves things for you. Watch Abraham Hicks on youtube. You will learn this by watching the videos. Also get/read "The Vortex" or listen to the Cds

"coming back together" is an image in the future. "But I do know that me and Emma are going to be a couple again" this is also future.

With the law of attraction you have to see and feel these images are present. you see her here now you are on the sofa and eating pizza. You hear her laughing and see her smiling. That is the image and the feelings you repeat and feel.
The above statement only makes what your saying a future event that keeps you away. Its a subtle difference but a BIG one.

~Chuck

[RichL]

Thanks for your reply Chuck. I will try and watch some Abraham Hicks on YouTube. I have been practicing the 68 second theory of his as well.

Ok I will try and forget that terminology and focus more on the present. Me and Emma are a couple!

Thanks again Chuck I will keep all of what you said in mind.

[true_love]

My progress so far -

Today I went to the gym for the first time i was nervous yet excited at the same time, it heped me ease my mind and i am feeling much better about myself in general.

I am currently going through the no contact/no checking her facebook and so on like that, only contact that we have at the moment is to do with rent and housing situation. I went 9 days without contacting her and barely even thought of her at all - she messaged and wanted to see me, i said yes but changed it for another day - it didn't dawn on me until after the meeting that i made that happen and for her to be interested in seeing me. I have not initiated contact since. I feel so much better about myself when I don't as I know that I am working on myself and going forward.

Today I was going through old photos before our relationship and feeling how happy i was prior to the relationship and knowing that I can get back to that stage of happiness. I stumbled across of photos of us. I however laughed and remembered all the good times we shared. All happy thoughts, I am making progress. I feel as if going to the gym has helped out alot in this case.

I have learnt in this situation I am learning to love myself again, put myself before others and make myself happy, because i will attract more

I love my life
I am power
I am strength
I am courage
I am beautiful
I am love
I am money
I am a job that i enjoy that pays my bills and leaves me lots of money to play with
I love my friends and family dearly
I am support
I am pure
I am whole
I am content
I am radiant
I am centered

[RichL]

Well I'm glad you seem happy true_love. I have to say that I am also feeling a lot better about myself. Under the advice of Chuck I am now picturing us together and to be honest it makes me happy. As mentioned before this is the most at ease I have felt about things.

We are well into the no contact process. I have thought about calling her a couple of times this week to see if she fancied meeting me for a coffee. But I have resisted thus far. I think it needs more time. Sometimes I worry that she might be with someone else (She has a profile on POF) but I'm trying to fight that. I know we are meant for each other.

Yes I find the gym and exercise helps. Do you still want to attract her back and did you go to the meeting?

I love me
Emma Loves me
We are a couple

[ChuckS]

Well I'm glad you seem happy true_love. I have to say that I am also feeling a lot better about myself. Under the advice of Chuck I am now picturing us together and to be honest it makes me happy. As mentioned before this is the most at ease I have felt about things.

Good to see, feel really good leave it there. Know that that vibaration is going out and is attracting. trust in source. never dought.
Awesome ... keep it up ! This is exactly what you do in LOA .. great job RichL. Feel it, let that wave of love you felt run through you. That is your vibration and what is being sent ...