updates and new questions--> long distance ex

[David V.]

@Ms. Kristen - Yes, you are perfectly welcome!
This little experiment worked even better than I thought possible, I dare say!

There is nothing absolutely that can stop us now!!

[twirlgirl]

Yes, I will try not texting him and calling him. It has been a couple of weeks since I have contacted him. David, do you have any advice for me? I posted my story on the main "Relationships" page. Thanks.

[David V.]

I have posted there, I really hope it helps you, Ms. Twirlgirl!

[seb913]

so far, so good. he's still texting me. I think you get better results when you don't worry about it; KNOW that your desires are on their way, and let go and work on yourself. that's one of the key things =]

[twirlgirl]

That is wonderful that he is still texting you.  You are doing the best and right things, keep it up, it is working!!! Positive vibes straight to you!

[seb913]

hey guys! it's been awhile since I've been on here =/, BUT I have updates!!

so lately I've been focusing more on myself, and less on my significant. I mean, I still visualize us together and feel the feelings of having him back, but I've also went out with friends more and didn't think about it AS much. I think this is because I've convinced my subconscious that we're already back together, and I'm just ready to receive it =].

a couple nights ago, I was on facebook, and he had a post on which him and his girlfriend were talking. she was obviously flirting and giggly with him, but he wasn't at all. he was giving her very blunt and unexcited responses without any emotion at all. then I commented his post, and he immediately starting replying back to me, with much more enthusiastic responses that he was giving her. and then she sent him a comment saying "sooo what are you doing tomorrow? because that's when I get back in town and get to see youuu ;]", and he TOTALLY blew her off. like he didn't respond to it at all, and just kept responding to the comments I was sending him. and I know for a fact that he saw her comment because it was so large, you couldn't miss it. so it wasn't just because he didn't see it that he didn't respond. is this a sign??? I think it is.

then that same night, he called me when it was 12:30 at night over there and talked to me till past 1:00 in the morning. and during our whole conversation we both sounded sooo happy and content, and he started bringing up memories from when we were dating each other, and we were both talking the way we used to when we were dating. it was like he never left. =]

I'm going to keep doing what I'm doing. I think I'm making AMAZING progress. my desires ARE manifesting! =D

and when I told him I was going to the east coast this summer, he was so happy and kept saying I should visit him, and that he'd visit me when I was there and we could meet up.

ohmygosh! I loveee the law of attraction! I'm so grateful!

[stevelewis]

Good luck seb, it seems you are doing very very well! I am so pleased to read stories like this, as it improves my faith too, and everyone elses here. Yes all our situations vary slightly, but we have our own goals, and together we're getting there! I will post a little about mine later. It just takes all this working on ourselves, and in the last 48 hours I've made again massive steps (as I do each week), once we get there, and let go of the result it manifests physically... It's amazing Well done, and let nothing knock you back, and keep working on yourself!

[David V.]

:O!!!!!!!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS, MS SEB!!!!

I have to admit....I am having a hard time just letting go of the result. My subconscious believes that for it to "work", I have to be visualizing it 24/7, as what it grasped was the "concentrate with your fullest attention" part.

But seeing you let go and it WORKING.....it is what I have to do as well!

[seb913]

thanks everyone! =]. especially YOU, david, as you're part of my "unstoppable force" XD. and yes, I'm a firm believer that once you let go of the attachment to the outcome, it will start to manifest physically, because by letting go of the attachment, you're basically making your subconscious and your mind know that your desires are on their way (and/or you already have it), and it has no reasons to fret or worry about it.

for example, I've noticed that more of my desires have manifested physically when I didn't think about my situation 24/7. I used to think about my significant almost every few minutes, and I didn't see as much progress. but once I started focusing on me and living out my own life and boosting my self confidence (and focused a tad less on him), many things started happening that I noticed. and letting go or not thinking about him as much isn't saying that I gave up on him. I still visualize us together, use affirmations, etc..

I'm sure you've heard this soo many times before, but I can't emphasize it enough: http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship/bible-of-getting-your-ex-back-dns-post/

this is one of the greatest articles that gives advice to people with situations like mine and all of ours. I've used the method advised in the article, and it's working magnificently! =].

check it out if you haven't!!! but I will keep you guys updated ;]


and david, trust me, you've got this!!! =D

[ava]

Hi seb913 I don't know you will see my post or not,but your story was so amazing for me,i want to know what are you doing now?and did you get your boyfriend back eventually?