Author Topic: Uneasiness & Desperation is back.Need Help! (Read 212 times)

Grateful Sunshine :) · « **on:** June 14, 2011, 10:18:52 AM »

hi all...

so I met my guy in person after 4 months but it was just a short meet(3 hours)...anyhow I am really grateful for that.Now he has gone to his hometown for next 9 days and will be back on 24 th post which we will stay together for 2 days(wow!)..so I think during this time he wont be able to talk to me or may be he will be..(No idea!)whats it gonna be?and I am having this little feeling of uneasiness from morning you know desperation may be..Since we broke up previously because of denial from his family and now he is back much more loving and caring..his actions and speech also suggests that he is pretty confident for us..still why am I feeling this..May be because I am fearful of not talking to him for next 9-10 days..
Guys what should I do to ease out this period..Any suggestions?

Berylac · « **Reply #1 on:** June 14, 2011, 11:12:06 AM »

Hi,

Those are your unconscious beliefs deep rooted under your subconscious mind. And because of that, Self-Doubts and negativities arise up to the surface of conscious mind.

By looking at your thread, I can simply infer that you are not too worrying about the relationship between you and your boyfriend but between you and his family. You feel confidence because he has shown you interests and positive aura that you could feel. However, you are now worrying about the rapport between you and his family, because you has a past record:

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Since we broke up previously because of denial from his family

Maybe in the next 9 to 10 days, you could actually practice some inner work like EFT or any other Control-Emotions Techniques to avoid feeling such negative and some Meditations to reset your mindset and thoughts against his family. =)

Whichever works for you.

Hope it helps,

Regards,
Berylac

Grateful Sunshine :) · « **Reply #2 on:** June 14, 2011, 12:16:37 PM »

Thanks Berylac...

Yea but I am a sort of worried also about this trip to his home which can end up manipulating his present confidence or may be its a sheer doubt of mine..
I dont like this feeling !! at all...
I would try EFT..a lot of people are here concerned with getting along with a person they love..just out of curiousity is it possible to align his family to my wish of us being together?Afterall LOA is a universal law..Do you think it will work?any advice?

I think I will have to busy myself excessively!!!