Trying to attract in my life my bf of 4 years. Any advice?

[animor]

Hello everyone!

As the title suggests, I was in a wonderful relationship with a wonderful man for 4 years. One day he told me he wants to be alone because he wants to sort things out in his life, focus on his career, that our relationship distracted him from his problems. But I did nothing wrong, I was the perfect gf, he just wants to be alone without caring or thinking of anyone else. That was out of the blue. I know for sure there was no other person, ans there still isn't, 2 and a half months later.
I am in a good place right now, I don't have any negative feeling for him, I really feel grateful for the wonderful relationship we had, he was all I could ask for during the whole 4 years.
I haven't seen him since then, we only exchanged some typical wishes on birthdays and holidays via text. I have only learnt that he changed, he started smoking and drinking and he rarely goes out.

I know about the LOA the last couple of years, I am aware that I could have attracted what happened as I suspected that he had commitment issues and he started feeling anxious watching all his friends getting engaged or married (he is 31) and I had the fear he would never want.

Any advice on how to attract him back? I  keep moving on with my life, my work, my studies, I can tell a few success stories on these, I didn't try to talk to him again and try to change his mind. But I feel that we are not over yet, I know it will be for our best to get back together.

I have tried to visualize things, I keep listening to songs about ex lovers who left and regreted it and came back and I have this feeling.

[marioska]

I think you're on the right path, but I'll suggest to try remote seduction. Have you heard? You can find some posts about it here. If you need help, don't doubt in contacting me Lots of love!

[crazysoul]

 i also think that youre on the right path...

my love has exactly the same problem.

send him healing through your thoughts.... you can do it also with this ball sending which was mentioned before.

do you script?

[animor]

Thank you!
thanks to this forum and many people here I have learnt a lot. I am trying the remote seduction, I did a search trying to find out what is the best for me, I think I have found it so I will be doing this, it also makes me feel good.

I don't know about the script, maybe I have done it wrong, it made me really frustrated especially when I wrote a whole script describing a specific day weeks earlier.
I manifested everything, the most amazing things, I was abroad, I spent the day at the place I had written about it without knowing or planning that I'll be there because I won a free ticket! Everything happened except from what had to do with my guy.

I tried to be less specific next time. It was better. If you have any tips to share about the script or anything...

[Stefzilla]

Im in the same place, we were together 5 years. I posted this link before but i really have to say it made a huge difference since i started this meditation.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RltgopATeSM

. Not only has my ex called me but she wants to see me next week. Also i wanted to test this yesterday, i was in the car feeling good listening to songs, i said i really want to hear this song. Today i turned on the radio and there it was... this song is 20 years old so its not like its getting radio play