True Hearts Desire: Best relationship with whoever or my ex

[Jilly]

Hi Guys
Happy new year to you!!
So I'm in a great place right now. Happy with me, detached and really getting on with life. I meditate daily, am a better centred petson and truly believe everything in life is on its way to me. I decided, as suggested by Abraham Hicks that I should go 'general' so that the person who is on their way to me could be my ex or another person entirely, either way I'll get the best possible relationship that I only ever have dreamed of. BUT there's always a BUT, my conflict comes from the fact that my true hearts desire is for my ex. How do you think the universe handles this? I'm trying to focus on general but deep down, I desire him. I do also desire a relationship based on the essence of what we had and better, but my desire is not as strong....

Any comments would be welcome..?! Am I asking too much?  I think in asking this I might have answered my own question but other opinions would clarify it for me!

Thanks x

[57angel]

I decided, as suggested by Abraham Hicks that I should go 'general' so that the person who is on their way to me could be my ex or another person entirely, either way I'll get the best possible relationship that I only ever have dreamed of. BUT there's always a BUT, my conflict comes from the fact that my true hearts desire is for my ex. How do you think the universe handles this? I'm trying to focus on general but deep down, I desire him. I do also desire a relationship based on the essence of what we had and better, but my desire is not as strong....

Any comments would be welcome..?! Am I asking too much?  I think in asking this I might have answered my own question but other opinions would clarify it for me!

Of course, you are NOT asking too much! You deserve to have only the best in life and in love - you are not here in this physical world to be punished nor to be hurt! You are here to spread love and inspirations to everyone around you, and to feel the love from everyone around you, to have all the best in life! There are a lot of those here in the forum who had attracted their exes with great success, and I am one of those also who chose not to attract my ex back for I know I am happier this way! If you do love your ex that much, then attract him back and the kind of improved relationship you want to have with him. If not, then there is one guy out there that the Universe has prepared for you - who is not that happy yet for you are not in his life yet  Ask and it will be given!