Author Topic: To everyone who wants thier love/ex back(PART 2) (Read 88369 times)

ava · « **Reply #960 on:** June 20, 2012, 04:24:17 PM »

@sayo,yes it took me more than 2 years to move on..i believed that he was my soulmate,and i wanted him back seriously...i have been single for more than 2 years!!!!!!!i didn't have date with others...cause i thought i just want my man back....i tried all the stuffs but they didn't help me...i don't mean it is impossible,cause we all have seen people could get back with their exes..just like Dhayness/priestess/Katie..... but i personally could not attract him back..maybe i could not let it all go completely....i don't know what was the reason!!! after 2 years and 8 months finally i dated with a guy who had proposed me last year,but i didn't accept his proposal,just because of my ex..i thought if i accept it,i will send mixed signals to universe....anyway after 1 year,i saw him again and he proposed me again and this time i accepted...now,he is my boyfriend and i love him,he loves me and cares about me...chek this please:
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/success-stories-3/a-different-kind-of-success-story!!!!!!/

ava · « **Reply #961 on:** June 20, 2012, 04:43:13 PM »

2 days ago was my ex's birthday...but for the first time i didn't send him a text for his birthday......why should i do that while he forgets my birthdays and never has said Ava happy birthday to you.NEVER!!!!!why should i waste my time for someone who even doesn't know if i am alive or not?!!!!!!

Sayo · « **Reply #962 on:** June 20, 2012, 07:54:16 PM »

@ava-did he ever give you any signs that maybe he still liked you? i guess what you're trying to say is that regardless of what we want, moving on is the most plausible thing to do.....but you're happy now so thats the main thing

you've attracted someone who's actually a vibrational match for you and if i dont get my ex back, i atleast hope i'll find a good and fulfilling relationship

i read the stories and i guess loa is all about attracting happiness not really a specific goal...but nonetheless, i'm young and its just 6 months...there's still hope right? >.<
if your ex asks you out today, would you go back to him? or atleast think about it?
I'm glad about your last reply though-it's all about the power and now you've it fully in you <3
~lots of love!

Mariposa, (KnJ) · « **Reply #963 on:** June 20, 2012, 08:56:38 PM »

Wow Sayo, that was a great question for Ava. If her ex came back today or tomorrow and was the man she dreamed he would be, would she take him back?

That is a question Ava should ask herself, I say this because due to your (Ava) last post you are obviously still attached to him, it still upsets you that he never contacted you on your birthday and the truth is, if you were so entirely happy and in love with this new man that a year ago wasn't good enough for you, you wouldn't care one bit if your ex contacted you before, you would FORGET all about him.

Sorry sweet heart, I do love you but I believe you are settling on this current man. You have convinced yourself that you need to be with someone and he is better than no one. If you can't have the man you desire than at least you can have a man that desires you.

I wish you the best but you need to seriously check yourself. I would hate to be the man some woman settled for just because they couldn't have the man they REALLY DESIRED. That would be an awful life to live, with a woman I love pretending to love me back but really the entire time she was still thinking of the real man of her dreams.

Just saying! Maybe you don't think you can get him back, I do hear a lot of doubt in your posts......it's really all about what you believe and if you don't believe, truly believe you can attract him back then you won't ever be able to.

I am at just about the 2 year mark but I can't give up now, my soul won't let me.

I wish you well.

Lots of Love.

Mr Brightside · « **Reply #964 on:** June 20, 2012, 09:11:24 PM »

That was also the vibe I was getting from the posts, but didn’t really want to say anything. I agree maybe some personal soul searching is required, not to say its easy to be single. I’m getting to the one year mark myself and trust me I have my down days, so I’m not insensitive to the situation.

ava · « **Reply #965 on:** June 21, 2012, 02:56:15 AM »

@sayo and mariposa,if my ex,today comes back to me and wants to be with me,i doubt to chose him again!cause when I compare this guy with him,i can see obviousely that this guy loves me much more than him...i have had a lot of brilliant days with my ex that I can't forget.but he left me and proved that he didn't want to be with me.Ok,that's right..he has choices..i love this new guy.he is the man who any woman in the world wants to be with him.maybe he is my soulmate.maybe my ex wasn't my soulmate.i guess the universe knows better than us.dear friends,it is up to you,you can wait for years to attract your ex back or you can move on.and I should say I am not with this guy,cause I didn't want to be single anymore.i had 2 dates before this guy,but I accepted this guy,cause I love his personality.

Mariposa, (KnJ) · « **Reply #966 on:** June 21, 2012, 05:09:22 AM »

I am happy for you if you are happy but I still feel you are settling for this new guy. If you really loved him so much more and appreciated him so much more you would have recognized that the 1st time. You are lucky he GAVE YOU another chance.

I do wish you happiness with whomever you choose.

ava · « **Reply #967 on:** June 21, 2012, 10:21:29 AM »

Thank you..mariposa,last year I thought,i am trying to attract my ex back and I should not date with others.i was not ready for dates!!thas was the reason mariposa.not because He was not good for me..he is my frind's friend and she(my friend)had told me last year about him and his qualities and personality,but I didn't even want to talk to another guy!!!he is uniqe..i just had seen his picture,he was handsome.but he had seen me somewhere,whitout me knowing him! Don't get me wrong.last year I had limited myself just to my ex and didn't want to think about others and I knew that this guy was right for me,but I just wanted to focus my attention to my ex!that was the reason I had not accepted this guy last year,not because he was not good...and still I love my ex.i can't forget that part of my life with him.but mariposa,i have done all the stuffs,we are human,we want respect,we want love,we want to feel that we are alive...maybe the universe knows what is best for us.i don't know what is my future with this guy,who knows,maybe one day we breake up,may be my ex comes back,maybe I get married to this guy,or maybe one day I recogonize that he was not right for me.but today I am happy and this is important...

Sayo · « **Reply #968 on:** June 21, 2012, 10:31:34 AM »

@ava-i'm happy for you

i hope everything turns out well for you and everyone here, as well, who's trying so hard to get their ex back.
all's well that ends well. For some of us, we've got our happy ending and for some others of us, its not the end yet. <3

breakstyle · « **Reply #969 on:** June 21, 2012, 06:14:45 PM »

I am happy and grateful that Charlene will contact me first and we will keep working our wonderful love to have perfect relationship.

Katie · « **Reply #970 on:** June 21, 2012, 11:17:01 PM »

Dearest Ava, my heart is with you. Wishing you all the happiness you deserve

ava · « **Reply #971 on:** June 22, 2012, 12:31:00 AM »

Thank you dear katie:-* I could not attract him back...i did all the stuffs and then I moved on with my life...still I love him.he is in my heart..some people can attract and others can't...maybe I could not let it all go completely,i don't know.but I know this guy loves me even much more than my ex and he has attracted me after 1 year!!! I don't know what will be the future...

alliswell · « **Reply #972 on:** June 23, 2012, 09:08:30 AM »

Today i am feeling like i have lost all hope....reading all these stories...
my heart is sinking as i have been wishing for just a realisation on his part for what he did to me and how badly he broke my heart....i guess mine breakup was not a usual one...everyones heart gets broken but along with my heart, my self respect , my trust...everything has been crushed,,,,just asking the universe to relieve me of this pain....

I dont know whether LOA can just make him feel what he did to me....he cheated me and just broke the relationship as such...

glee619 · « **Reply #973 on:** June 23, 2012, 09:34:12 AM »

alliswell-unfortunately, you have to remember that whatever you send out you receive back. so if youre constantly wanting revenge and wanting him to feel the hurt he did to you, well its going to come back to you (and usually worse).
I suggest that instead you start a no contact commitment and get off all social networks that you guys might share and really focus on healing yourself. You're going to have to eventually forgive him or youre always going to have resent towards men and even yourself. cheer up and i know things will start shifting for the better. :]

Sayo · « **Reply #974 on:** June 23, 2012, 11:18:26 AM »

I agree with glee619, let go of all these distractions and negative thoughts and focus on yourself.
also, it might help, if you right down a list of what you want and what you dont in life, in your relationships and other such fields. then you put your head to it and align yourself with your desires.
Dont lose hope, all of us are here for support and love