To EVERYONE who wants someone (ex) back- shall we try this?

[kirua0212]

MY DESIRE....

I am grateful and happy that Stella realized that we both belong together and we love each other so very much. I am grateful that she forgave and forgot everything in the past and started a new leaf with me. I am grateful that she called me, telling her that she misses me and loves me so much that she wanted me to be back together with her. I am grateful that we got back together and loves each other strongly, deeply and sincerely and more and more each and everyday, like never before...

I am grateful that she is here for me, right now, right here....

[true_love]

I am grateful that my partner and I are in a long term loving relationship. We are in a radiant, accpeting, loving and respecting relationship. We live together and share blissfull moments together. We continionously blossum and cherish life to its fullest with each other. We are pure in our thoughts and actions towards life. We roll around in bed each morning with laughter and shower each other with love. We are abundant and are thankful to be in each others life. We continue to grow graciously together. We communicate with love and passion and desire. We plan on travelling to many places together. Our smiles bring happiness to each others lives. Our eyes show the love we have for each other. The way we kiss nourishes my heart and gives me butterflies and sends me aflight each time. Our hugs are filled with warmth and desire. We are connected in many ways and we are appreciative of each other. We feed ourselves healthy and treat each other with high respect. When we communicate we focus our attention on each other. We are playfull, silly, deep and driven. We have a healthy stable long term relationship. We are open to recieve. Happy, exciting, compassionate, abundant, attractive, loving, beautiful, connecting, affectionate, passion, sensitive, encouraging, ambition, trust, cheeky, loyal, spontaneous, sincere, positive, fulfilled, warmth, fun, easy going, quirky, lust, adventure, we are on the same vibration and are balanced.

[Queen Of Light]

I found this yesterday and thought it was helpful... it raised my vibration and gave me some hope that things will work out:

101 Tips - Get Your Ex Back

1. Do NOT call him.
2. Do NOT text him.
3. Do Not e-mail him.
4. Do Not visit his Facebook or MySpace.
5. REMEMBER YOU HOLD THE POWER TO WIN HIM BACK!
6. Don't ask his family about him.
7. Don't ask his friends about him.
8. Don't 'accidentally' show up where he is going to be.
9. Cut Off All Contact - (trust me, this really is how to get him back)
10. REMEMBER YOU HOLD THE POWER TO GET YOUR EX BOYFRIEND BACK!
11. Don't Act Jealous.
12. Don't Be Insecure.
13. Don't Engage in any arguments.
14. Don't Be Desperate.
15. REMEMBER YOU HOLD THE POWER TO WIN LOVE BACK!
16. Be Confident
17. Be Self Sufficient
18. Go on with Your Life
19. Get a new hobby.
20. REMEMBER YOU CAN LEARN HOW TO GET HIM BACK!
21. Spend this time on yourself.
22. Figure out why he was attracted to you in the beginning and find that person again.
23. Act like you did when he first met you.
24. Think about if you made him feel special and adored
25. REMEMBER YOU HAVE THE POWER TO SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP
26. Did you let him be the leader and take care of you.
27. Reflect on what made you fall in love with him
28. Decide if your life is better with him or without him.
29. Understand Male psychology and what they REALLY want - this one will surprise you!
30. REMEMBER YOU HOLD THE KEY TO HIS HEART - You can learn how to get him back.
31. Learn how to 'let go'
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32. Don't smother him
33. Understand the true meaning of forgiveness
34. Don't feel sorry for yourself
35. REMEMBER YOU HOLD THE POWER TO LEARN HOW TO GET HIM BACK!
36. Reconnect with family and friends
37. Exercise or join a gym
38. Find a new hobby
39. Get your hair or nails done - visit a spa
40. REMEMBER YOU HAVE THE POWER TO SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP!
41. Don't say things you will regret
42. Don't sulk
43. Don't try to do anything sneaky - like drive by his house
44. Be, feel and act attractive
45. REMEMBER YOU CAN DO THIS!
46. Have a girls night out
47. Take a vacation
48. Work on improving yourself
49. Give him something to miss
50. YOU HOLD THE FORMULA ON HOW TO GET HIM BACK
51. Don't show neediness
52. Don't show desperation
53. Be what he wants - but can't have
54. If you must have contact because of children - keep conversation light
55. YOU OWN THE POWER TO BRING HIM BACK TO YOU
56. Don't let them know how much you care or how much you hurt (not right now)
57. Prepare your mind for the challenge ahead in learning how to get him back.
58. Build your self esteem
59. Get rid of any bad habits that caused problems in your relationship
60. YOU CAN GET HIM BACK!
61. Don't cause fights
62. Spend time reading relationship books - The Magic of Making Up
63. Have respect for yourself
64. Throw your focus into something positive
65. YOU ARE HALF WAY TO BEING IN HIS ARMS AGAIN!
66. Don't ever give in to being 'friends with benefits'
67. Don't try to make him feel guilty
68. Don't feel guilty yourself
69. Be able to accept an apology and truly forgive
70. Don't change who you are - but maybe 'how you react to situations'
71. Don't try to spy on him - this is not how to get him back
72. Understand what your weaknesses are
73. Understand his weaknesses
74. Learn how to be happy with yourself
75. Learn how to communicate effectively without anger
76. Be able to admit your mistakes
77. Know what 'fighting fair' means
78. Be friendly and nice if you run into him somewhere - don't go overboard
79. Avoid arguments at this stage
80. Don't fear loss - let him be the one in fear of losing you
81. Don't fear loneliness - embrace it to discover who you are
82. Know that YOU make your life what it is
83. Be able to admit your mistakes
84. Don't point blame - it took both of you to do this
85. Don't let the fact of him being with another woman upset you
86. Know the break up has nothing to do with the other woman
87. Know he is not looking for a younger, prettier girl
88. You HAVE what he wants - he just doesn't know it yet.
89. No matter what he says - he misses you - if you have had any kind of long relationship
90. YOU ARE THE ONE HE WILL START THINKING ABOUT
91. Human nature doesn't change
92. People want to know - He will want to know why you stopped contact
93. He will start to wonder if YOU have found someone new
94. Curiosity will get the best of him
95. Give it time and he will call
96. Be Open to unconventional methods on how to get him back
97. We are going to start at the beginning again - these last four steps are CRUCIAL!
98. Do NOT call
99. Do NOT text or e-mail
100. Do NOT ask his family or friends about him
101. Cut off ALL contact immediately - this is the FIRST step on how to get him back.

[andreasValerius]

My Desire,

I'm so grateful that this year things finally fell into place. I got an email from Pelin wondering how I was doing and saying how much she missed me. It feels good to recollect how we started talking again and she finally accepts that we are for each other and that together we can co-create something beautiful. The circumstances for us are just perfect to start something new and both me and her are ready to start something new together. We meet up again and we get to feel each other and it feels great to be hugging her. We are very happy together, in good health and are enjoying each other's company. From there on we carry on with life happily together

[Autumn]

This is such a beautiful thread, I thought I'd love to participate too. I send my love and energy all of you and I know you will be reunited with your partners soon.

My desire:

My boyfriend and I are back together. We are a perfect match for each other. We love each other with all our hearts and are looking forward to creating a beautiful future and life together. We are emotionally at the perfect place to bring all our dreams true and are respectful, affectionate and very much in love. He accepts that I am the woman he's always loved and we both know that this is the perfect relationship for us. We enjoy the time spent together, we're financially very comfortable, healthy and happy. It feels good to be in his arms again and to hold him close and shower all the love I have for him.

[RichL]

My Desire:

That Emma has contacted me to meet up, that we have met up for a coffee and that this has lead me and Emma reuniting as a couple. That me and Emma spend the rest of our lives together. It feels amazing to be back together with Emma and I am truly happy now that me and Emma are back together.

[ohhhdarling]

I LOVE this! I will be sending only positive vibrations your way(s)

My desire:

Mike and I are together in California making amazing memories together. I am fully supportive of his career aspirations and he of mine; he wants me to write my book. Together we aren't anything but happy. Deliriously happy to be with one another and to spend the evenings on the beach. We travel together and find places we both love. We laugh together always. We solve all of our problems using the method we have both agreed on. We are in love. We are together. We are happy.

[faithalways]

My desire

C has contacted me says he misses me so much, time apart has made him love me and miss me more. He wants to be with me for the rest of his life. We are dating again and slowly working through all the issues that we had before. This time, we are more open-minded about stuff and other people. My ex, now current boyfriend/future husband says he will never leave me again, we are made for each other regardless what will happen in the future. We are always happy together and are ready to take a further step in our relationship.

[Lv]

Thank you for this beautiful thread.

Michael has contacted me after realizing that I am all he has ever wanted in a woman and more. He says thst i am his dream girl. That i am perfect for him and that we are perfect for one another. That we are meant to be together forever. He is telling me that these two weeks without me have been the worst he's ever been through. He is telling me that he is madly in love with me and that we should get married. He is saying that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and wants to grow old with me. He tells me that we should try for children but he will be just as happy and fulfilled and in love with just us. We agree to always be in harmony and work towards goals and dreams together. We are best friends, lovers, spouses, and soul mates.

[Sayo]

Thank you so much for this amazing thread! I send all of you lots of love and light 
My desire:
               He (SR) feels it in his gut and knows and wants to be with me in a new, more fulfilling relationship.  H calls me up, tells me that he wants me to be his and he wants to be mine. We love each other, forgive each other truly and leave past, petty issues, ego behind us. We're deeply in love, support each other and now we are sure, in our hearts and our minds, that we want to spend the rest of our lives with each other, so both of us word hard at our relationship to make it grow from strength to strength.

[theoneandonly]

Take your desires to the creator..
Bow down and ask for forgiveness..
Ask him to bring THE light within you..
Glow with His love and a shadow of His majesty..
The light will bring your loved one to you..
She/he will stay with you.. cherishing every moment with you..
As long as your light shines bright..

[jl]

He and me are back together..we are happy, smiling with eyes full of tears in love..we are in love more than before. He says m his best frnd and his soulmate. we are soooo much in love.. he hugs me tightly we snuggle while watching movie .. he makes me sleep in his arms...we are madly in love..our families are proud of us and have not just accepted us they adore and respect us. i ll get married to him in 2013. m sooooo excited yeyeyyeye 

[sh-boom]

congratulations jl

[Wllm]

Wishing all love for everybody!

my desire (althoug a bit shy to use his name )

Me becoming conscious to understand what I have to do and let go to get him back, Me believing fully in the lao and yielding it positively to get my ex back, to reunite with lost friends and to get a phd , finding a solution for my pain in the past and healing myself

Diederik becoming conscious of his part in the relationship and that I've done a lot for him, confronting the trauma's he's been fledding for, getting back a job, refinding a good self-image,  finding a solution for his pain in the past and healing himself

Us, understanding the depth we are feeling, finding each other in the circumstances of destiny (I hope very soon), becoming very happy in love together, finding encouragement of friends who firstly dissaproved, and living together our lives as a beatiful couple

(and afterwards: me telling my successtory on this forum hehe )

[Free bird]

My desire

My desire is tht my ex comes back in my arms..........and our love has become more deeper and stronger, v share a very loving relationship, our families hve accepted us and our with us and v r getting married in this December.