Hello my like minded friends,
First off all you need to understand this concept: YOU DON"T KNOW WHAT YOU DON"T KNOW!
So, when you meet a Mary or Joe don't automatic assume he/she is the love of your life. Remember you don't know what you don't know.
The best way is to be general and the universe will give you your soul mate.
This is what you should say and it will work for anyone:
"I want a wife that makes me so incredible happy and that I will make her so incredible happy, that we are madly in love with each other, we laugh together, we have great sex, we enjoy many of the same things, we enjoy each others company, and we live life, long, happy, fulfilling, satisfying, adventurous, loving, committed, secure, safe relationship. That's what I want. It may be with (i.e Mary) or it may not be with (i.e Mary) that's what I want.
When you put this out onto the Universe the first thing that gets attracted are
Matching Thoughts.
Remember this other concept: 99% of creating anything you want is your THOUGHTS. You may thing it's your looks, how smart you are, how well you talk, this and that. It's NOT, it's what your vibrating.
And remember with all this said, the universe will bring you circumstances, events, and situations but it will be up to you to go with your feeling and
take actionUntil Later
Walter D.