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Author Topic: ...the reason why I want myself and her back.  (Read 521 times)

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Offline David V.

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...the reason why I want myself and her back.
« on: February 23, 2010, 10:12:46 AM »
I think I would do good outwardly voicing my motives, my original motives I was able to restore, before I became weak enough to let them overtake me with pessimism and negative energy.

I come from a family so dysfunctional it could not be called one anymore. Father and mother hating each other. Relatives too physically distant, or neglectful, or incompatible, or deceased.

As such, I took it upon myself to start from scratch, wanting to forge my own destiny with my own family with which to live a prosperous and happy life. Then I met this woman, who was all for it. We made our respective vows to forever be together.

But there was this breakup, and needless to say, it accounted for a setback in that matter.

Yet, now, I am able to see the light through this matter. I see myself able to emerge stronger from it. I do not depend on her anymore. I do not need her anymore. It is not right to give her all the power or responsibility.

But I decided, from the bottom of my heart, that I want to preserve this dream. I love this woman so much. It is my most fervent desire to fulfill that dream of a happy and prosperous self-made man, and it would make me happiest for it to be with her at my side, as true, understanding equals.

This is why.
Your continued breathing is the very sign you are a wonderful being who still can add value.
I hope that takes away doubts about your selfworth.

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Re: ...the reason why I want myself and her back.
« Reply #1 on: February 23, 2010, 01:44:58 PM »
Hey David, I think not needing her and relying on her to make u happy is a great stage to be at! It's so important that we love and make ourselves happy inside because we r the only ones who can. There is a big differance between need and want as I've rightly pointed out.

As they say, "let God and let go".

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Re: ...the reason why I want myself and her back.
« Reply #2 on: February 23, 2010, 04:47:14 PM »
Yes....I can tell I am growing stronger because I am less and less depressed while thinking or talking about it. I am in a good position to not need it anymore. I can now survive through the night without talking to her. Which to me is wonders, now that I have read quotes like..

“If you have to capability to be apart from your Ex, You have the Power of being a Part of Ex too.” – Ankur Sancheti

I have already forgiven her for breaking up the way she did. I have even forgiven myself for the whole matter.

And when asked how badly I want it......very, very badly. More than I have ever wanted anything.

http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/law-of-attraction-in-action/relationship/get-your-ex-back-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-1967

It was this article I read as well, which brings me to my earlier points.

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