could this be the universe paving the way!

[SSS]

Hi everyone!

I am new here and happy to have found this amazing place filled with positivetly. I would do with some advice on how to progress from where i am. my husband who i have been with for 8 years left me a year and a half ago for his colleague. he had an affair with her and told me he didnt love me anymore. shortly after she divorced her husband too and i guess they were a couple. Meanwhile, i begged, pleaded with my husband to take me back and every time he resented me even more, until i learnt about loa and decided to use that instead.

my  husband was so much in love with me until she came into the picture and a part of me always knew that she was the main reason he refused to give our marriage a second chance so i kind of knew he wont come back to me as long as she is still there and along with doing my affirmations and gratitude lists to get him back, i also asked for the universe to remove her from the picture and guess what! a couple of days ago she posted on her facebook complaining about him refusing to stay friends with her because she doesnt want to sleep with him anymore! seems like she doesnt want to be romantically involved with him but only wants him as a friend and he is finding that hard to accept, she also mentioned that he told her that is the end and he doesnt want to see her anymore.

i have gotten to the point of letting go as far as he is concerned and although i know i want him back and i know the universe is paving the way for him to come back but i am starting to get anxious about my reaction when he does! am i going to be able to be happy with him again knowing what he has done, i know this will highly depend on how he comes back, on whether he will show remorse or just come back because she damped him! i am confused and dont know what i am thinking or saying and need some direction.

thank you

[tereza]

i have gotten to the point of letting go as far as he is concerned and although i know i want him back and i know the universe is paving the way for him to come back but i am starting to get anxious about my reaction when he does! am i going to be able to be happy with him again knowing what he has done, i know this will highly depend on how he comes back, on whether he will show remorse or just come back because she damped him! i am confused and dont know what i am thinking or saying and need some direction.

Perhaps you need to work on being able to forgive him? I think the reason for him coming back is sort of irrelevant because well, whichever reason you focus on the most is the one you'll get. 

Also, that's pretty awesome that you were able to manifest what you did.

[ToMeAndOnlyMe]

Evidently it is what Tereza says, forgiveness is key to this situation. I will also add that your own spiritual growth will be crucial in this situation. Currently you're in a period of waiting before the inevitable happens, so things such as letting go, working on yourself and working on what you want will aid you.

[Mariposa, (KnJ)]

SSS,

I am in the exact same place as you.  If you want we can probably support each other but I don't like posting about my situation on the board anymore because I feel sometimes it inhibits progress.  Feel free to PM me though.  I would love to chat with you.