Author Topic: Will I ever be happy? :( / Positive Uptade! (Read 804 times)

inessa19 · « **on:** April 18, 2012, 04:58:48 AM »

I'm just tired of all of this..
I'm almost 20 and I never had a boyfriend... I was in love for a few times, but when I thought that some guy is interested in me too, everything started to collapse..
I think I'm not ugly, I'm just a normal girl... But, yeah, I know appearance is not everything, more important is what person you are..
I'm pretty shy, quiet and I don't go to parties. I rarely meet new people.
For last copule of years I really believed that everything is possible, that I deserve the best, my dreams will come true. But how long can I wait?

It's sometims hard for me when I see happy couples on the street, it reminds me of my unfullfiled love

LoA works for me very well with EVERYTHING that I want. But for example not with guy that I still love and I thought he's interested in me too

I initated a conversation with him after a few months of no contact, no seeing.. He was really nice, I was very happy after that conversation.
But if he was interested in me he would also contact me first if he only want. Month Later i contacted him again, but he gave me a hint that he's busy and he can't talk. OK, I understand that sometimes people are busy and they really can't talk.. but it was midnight, and if he was that busy, why he was available on messenger:(
I don't know. Maybe it's not my destiny to be happy in this life..;(

Mr Brightside · « **Reply #1 on:** April 18, 2012, 05:16:52 AM »

You are focusing on all the wrong things, that's why they are not improving for you. You need to work on your self esteem and worthiness issues, before anything else can make a change in your life. If you know LOA works, and it has in other things, than the only natural reason for not working in the relationship section is because of something you are doing differently. Once you love yourself, feel confident, the transition will be so fast that it would be shocking to you.

hellokiki · « **Reply #2 on:** April 18, 2012, 06:55:17 AM »

I agree with Stefzilla, you are now putting your focus on "the lack of love" in your life. If you keep focusing on the lack of something, you will get more of it. So shift your focus to loving yourself, be happy and positive, and LOA will also work in your love life as other areas of your life. Good luck!

jtut21 · « **Reply #3 on:** April 18, 2012, 09:11:49 AM »

I understand your frustration! It's easy to get discouraged when you are looking at where you are and where you want to be. Seeing the gap can create a whole series of negative emotion. The negative emotion is your vibrational point of attraction. So as previously commented you are focusing on the lack end of things. The easiest way to begin making change in regards to your perception is to find gratitude. Here are some suggestions to begin making gratitude a part of your vibration.

1- Get clear on the exact details of your ideal relationship
2- Sit down and make a written list of ten things you're grateful for about the relationship details you have chosen.
3- Become aware of relationships that have aspects of the ideal relationship you want and be grateful.

As you notice these things in other relationships you are training your vibration to be in alignment with your ideal relationship and than as you are grateful for them you will attract what you want.

To Your Happiness,

Josh
Get Your Ex Back FREE Resources www.romance-beacon.com

inessa19 · « **Reply #4 on:** April 18, 2012, 10:08:09 AM »

Thank you all for replies, I understand what your saying. But it seems so hard for me to really love myself. I realised that I probably don't know what is loving myself and high self esteem.... I thought that I got to that point and now I know, I'm improving myself, loving etc. but I see it's not true:( I had so low self esteem for years, I hated myself many times, felt worse than other girls, that I don't know if I ever be able to improve that;( I'm scared that it's too hard for me and now I see that I really didn't changed. And that thought this guy just showed non-interest in me is so painful. I feel right now like I don't want to live.

chrissy8907 · « **Reply #5 on:** April 18, 2012, 10:10:47 AM »

I can understand but you have to focus on the good things!! One thing that has really opened my life to positive love is letting go!! BE happy with yourself, complete yourself and everything will come to you. Especially love. Write down everyday " I am loved by everyone" it will make your day so much better!! Sometimes I need to take my own advice but I truly believe you will find love and be so so happy once you are content being in love with yourself

57angel · « **Reply #6 on:** April 18, 2012, 11:27:28 AM »

Inessa, I can see myself in you, but that has changed when LOA came into my life. I was so bitter and didn't even know that I will be happy again, but when I started loving myself more, everything else changed! Hmmm who else should love us first then, but ourselves. We need to be complete, fulfilled from within before anyone else will come into our life. It will be so hard for you to find happiness and love in others, just to complete you. It is both so exhausting for you if he will not meet your expectations, him for trying as much as he can to make you happy. Try as much as you can to reach to a point wherein you are completely happy and fulfilled with yourself, with or without a man in your life. Start it by loving yourself

honey · « **Reply #7 on:** April 18, 2012, 03:27:25 PM »

Hi Inessa!!!! I am sure you will be happy.. I believe in you! I know you can do it!!! I know you will be happy always.
Trust me!!!! The Loa does work whether you want it or not.... If you are happy, you will attract more happy things and same goes the other way round..

Try this.... ask yourself wouldn't it be nice if I have .... ( state your dreams.. any desire )? would it be nice if ......
wonder everything you want, feel it, feel the happiness when you have it...... Believe me!!! You will help u a lot...

The other thing is Gratitude!!! Have you been grateful to everything?? ask yourself this.... if yes! I am very happy for you because you are on the way there... if you haven't, do practice it.... write the things that you are grateful about everyday... write it every single day... feel it.. at first you will find it a bit hard but believe me as day by day goes by.. you will feel a lot better & happier..

I do understand how you feel... I do know how you feel... coz I've been there before.
I've tried a lot of things, you name it... but I am grateful now for being myself...

It doesn't matter what people think of you, it doesn't matter who you are or how you look like....
You deserve to be Happy!!! You will be Happy.... You are Happy! tell this to yourself over & over again.
And remember this... your happiness is in your hand... my dear..

I am here for you if you need me....

Purple_Ray · « **Reply #8 on:** April 18, 2012, 04:58:59 PM »

Hello Inessa! You can also try to listen subliminals before you go to sleep...you might fall asleep while you are listening, but your unconscious will absorb the messages.
I have listened these and I can say that even after 1 week I felt some changes...I even noticed myself smiling on the street without any reason and people being more kind with me


Attract Love- Subliminals, Theta Waves & Piano part 1


Attract Love- Subliminals, Theta Waves & Piano Part 2 Master-brainpower.com


Attract Love- Subliminals, Theta Waves & Piano Part 3 Master-BrainPower.com

Try to listen them in a row, because they part 1, 2 and 3 of the same song.
I hope it will help you!

57angel · « **Reply #9 on:** April 19, 2012, 07:47:55 AM »

Daniela, thank you for sharing these videos! Hmmmm videos and books and meditations for attracting soulmate keep coming to me wow!

inessa19 · « **Reply #10 on:** May 15, 2012, 12:32:03 AM »

Hi guys, on the beginning, thank You all for such kind replies to me and sorry for not writing to you but I had to sort out things in my head.

I think it's time to make some uptade. Binaural beats shared by Daniela interested me very much, but I was a bit sceptical at the beginning of listening to them.

I listen to them from time to time. On the beginning I was doing it every day (1-2 weeks). After that time I started to observe some changes.. I don't know why, but I'm feeling now more confident, happy, calm and attractive! I think more positively. I see man looking at me on the street, feel them noticing me!! :O And the most important - some very strange thing happened to me a few days ago...

When I was coming back home, some guy accosted me on the street.. I just saw him for the first time in my life. He asked me: "Hey, are you.. (my name here)? I often see you around this place, are you living here?" And we started talking for a while, and... he told me he likes me and asked if I give him my number and go for a date with him.. ;O I'm just shocked, I don't know from where he knows my name, he came just out of nowhere

I've never thought that someone can be able to start talk to some stranger and take number from him just because he find that person attractive.. It's very nice and interesting experience for me! Like in the film or some book! It was like a science fiction for me, I thought that people can meet only on school, work, parties, but.. on the street?

I'm gonna meet him ofc and see how it's gonna be later.

It's just unbelieavable what happened, why?! Just because fo listening to those binaural beats?? Is it possible? :O I'm still very impressed.. Now I believe that EVERYTHING is possible in our lives!
Just stay POSITIVE and feel that you are worth the best!

JustForToday · « **Reply #11 on:** May 15, 2012, 04:01:28 AM »

hey, i manifested your post, just in the right time, since i am very much into binaural beats as well and i am strongly convinced about it effects.

just found another great one you might like.

its free on youtube. ( the full lenght of 1 hour!!!.... the secret of the universal mind from brainsync.... awesome and just read the reviews on the website:

http://www.brainsync.com/shop/the-secret-universal-mind-meditation.html#customer_reviews

GOOD LUCK AND MANY MORE AMAZING THINGS HAPPENING TO YOU!!!

i will take the challenge now to listen to it each night 6 weeks and i will def update.
very interesting stuff!!!!

and hey- change your topic.... happy after binaural beats

Free bird · « **Reply #12 on:** May 15, 2012, 10:50:14 AM »

Its not just the beats, it was u............u felt positive and at peace with urself.........that is wat all of us will suggest, being positive, calm in love with urself is the key..........that positivity attracted more positive and that is how it will work...........and i wanna congratulate on ur date...........just keep that positive attitude going and let love find a way