Author Topic: STOP trying to get Him/Her back or Attract that 'specific' person ... (Read 10169 times)

lise · « **Reply #15 on:** April 16, 2011, 11:11:50 PM »

Quote from: vpsean on April 16, 2011, 05:05:31 PM

Hey Bravelioness,

I'm confused where you're getting that I'm suggesting the LOA cares whether it's good or bad for people, or the idea that only the person knows what's best for him/her?

I agree with all those points.

What part of my post gave the impression to you otherwise? Perhaps I miscommunicated something ...

With Love & Gratitude,
--Sean Patrick Simpson
www.AdventuresInManifesting.org

@Vpean

I thought your original comment

"It can be a very dangerous line however for people to get so intent on getting one specific person while not considering all the many angles. What if it's not for the best and highest good for you to have that person in your life? What if it's not for the best and highest good for THAT person. What if it's not for the best and highest good for that persons GIRLFRIEND or boyfriend? " Implied the loa cares if something is good or bad for you. It may not be the for the best or highest good for you but if you are trying to attract someone or something specific then you believe in the main it's good or the best for you otherwise why try and attract it - so I read your comment to be the universe/ loa is stopping it due it not being for the highest good.

One of the main ideas I have taken from loa is to be absolutely as specific as possible. I do think not being too specific probably leads to quicker success though.

Magdog, MD, Mr. Best Luck · « **Reply #16 on:** April 16, 2011, 11:13:22 PM »

Quote from: bravelioness on April 16, 2011, 10:02:34 AM

@vpsean-LOA doesn't care whether something is good or bad for you.If it did,then people wouldn't get sick,meet accidents,or simply have bad things happening to them.It is very obedient.It's just like a photocopying machine.It copies exactly what you project in the universe.

Only the person knows what's best for him/her.

I agree with SCh and also Brave, the title of your thread says it all, STOP, well then you are saying no, and it was a nice backpedal on your part with I did not say that, but you did. I would recommend you stop at least convincing people that they cannot do this, because many have therefore you are wrong, and to kill or try to kill others wants, beliefs, or vibration for money is also a low vibration state. Be grateful that you may be getting a sign today from me and others.

MD, Mr. Best Luck, Grateful and Humble

lise · « **Reply #17 on:** April 17, 2011, 12:35:05 AM »

Quote from: Magdog, MD, Mr. Best Luck on April 16, 2011, 11:13:22 PM

Quote from: bravelioness on April 16, 2011, 10:02:34 AM
@vpsean-LOA doesn't care whether something is good or bad for you.If it did,then people wouldn't get sick,meet accidents,or simply have bad things happening to them.It is very obedient.It's just like a photocopying machine.It copies exactly what you project in the universe.

Only the person knows what's best for him/her.

I agree with SCh and also Brave, the title of your thread says it all, STOP, well then you are saying no, and it was a nice backpedal on your part with I did not say that, but you did. I would recommend you stop at least convincing people that they cannot do this, because many have therefore you are wrong, and to kill or try to kill others wants, beliefs, or vibration for money is also a low vibration state. Be grateful that you may be getting a sign today from me and others.

MD, Mr. Best Luck, Grateful and Humble

Maddog - where does money come into it? I looked at the website link and it is free info. I actually thought it looked ok actually as certainly the email I received whilst not containing anything particularly new to me - did have tips and info for people to work through and certainly for someone new to loa really quite useful rather than just vague notions as to wha it is. I thik had I found it earlier it would have saved me some time in finding info on the subject.

boomergirl · « **Reply #18 on:** April 17, 2011, 03:40:39 AM »

I think you just keep yourself at a good feeling place

as much as possible, ask for what you want, believe it with all your heart that you will receive it, let go and trust that it's well on it's way.

The Universe will solve the situations for you which will be for your highest good. Just keep spreading your love and positive vibes to all whom you know and meet.

I agree, I think having an attitude of gratitude for all that is now and is on it's way is important as well.

Magdog, MD, Mr. Best Luck · « **Reply #19 on:** April 17, 2011, 04:48:32 AM »

I believe they are selling books, that particular link no, but upon further investigation I believe that products are being sold and coaching, I will look again, if I am mistaken I will apologize, I have been wrong in the past. Also, the author of this thread did backpedal, STOP, is pretty specific.

MD, Mr. Best Luck, Humble and Grateful

Magdog, MD, Mr. Best Luck · « **Reply #20 on:** April 17, 2011, 04:55:36 AM »

http://sarahprout.com/the-power-of-influence/

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1742469752/sarahprcom-20a

here you go, it ultimately leads to a sale, my point is that the contradicted themselves and yes they are teaching things and they all may be of well intent for LOA, but in terms of relationships because they are such an emotionally charged issue most LOA authors and teachers keep away from the subject or spin it to this or something better, or spin you received here. As the author said they welcome discussion, so here is my input.

DH4-everhappyinlove · « **Reply #21 on:** April 17, 2011, 05:16:56 AM »

@Magdog Md..

Thanks for that before I even looked at the website I new what this particular thread was about...and it is true that most LOA authors and teachers keep away from the subject ...they know that it is a fact but don't want to say it out...but what the heck we are not LOA teachers or authors here we are real people that are searching for answer as to how to apply LOA in our situation and some of us have gain tremendous success some are still on our way.....so we keep on keeping on and our belief is our reality LOA is not bias...and that's my two cent.

Believing Love · « **Reply #22 on:** April 17, 2011, 06:31:11 AM »

LOA is simple

Make a wish... demand what you want ... and LET GO
well we all stuck in LET GO part ..
so we always seek for a better answer .. a better way to be in Receiving Part

boomergirl · « **Reply #23 on:** April 17, 2011, 08:03:25 AM »

Okay, now I'm a little confused about where this thread has gone.

Magdog?

Magdog, MD, Mr. Best Luck · « **Reply #24 on:** April 18, 2011, 02:35:49 AM »

Quote from: boomergirl on April 17, 2011, 08:03:25 AM

Okay, now I'm a little confused about where this thread has gone.

Magdog?

Why, I simply stated my opinion, reread the points, from the STOP for specific person, to that being incorrect to the fact that the author of this thread is selling LOA to people. Where do you think it has gone?

tereza · « **Reply #25 on:** April 18, 2011, 03:02:38 AM »

Yeah this thread is a bit confusing. In the original post, I thought the guy was saying...stop trying to attract your ex because by focusing on them obsessively you're not letting go".

Which, ok. I agree with that. Obsession/neediness is a form of lack and will cause you to attract more lack. But then a few posts later, he basically says, that the people who did attract their exes back were lucky and that it is more important to be concerned about the greater good for everyone. I disagree with that for two reasons. One, those that were successful weren't just lucky. Two, something about that being concerned about the greater good thing sounds a little off. I can't quite explain why though. It just seems like a mindset centered around lack. We wouldn't tell people to try to manifest less money because someone else needs more. So why would we tell one person that they should give up on their ex because they've just started dating someone else? If their ex was married or engaged, I could understand backing off as that person has made a commitment and decision to be with that person...but dating? I don't know.

Besides, I've noticed that if deep down inside you really don't want to be back with your ex, it usually doesn't happen. You can affirm all you want, but if your subconscious isn't on board, it just won't happen.

Magdog, MD, Mr. Best Luck · « **Reply #26 on:** April 18, 2011, 05:29:52 AM »

bottom line, is that if we are doing things our of love, and unconditional that to me is the greatest good. I honestly believe that these posts are here to give free popcorn at the car dealership, and ultimately entice a sale. Another member stated that this is a fear post, the wording alone, and I somewhat agree with that. I was in sales for years and you always handle objections with I understand, I see your point of view, yes, yes, yes, but do you see mine. Find a common ground. I am no longer going to waste my energy on this thread. Its obvious that many do not agree and have experience results contrary to the authors. Maybe the author will learn from this.