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Offline Wj-How

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Something so share : How To Get Your Ex Back[Short Article]
« on: February 26, 2010, 04:02:12 PM »
This is not an ideal place to be in life I know. Wanting to know how to get your ex back, you must be feeling very much alone and confused. Not understand exactly where you went wrong in the relationship. Remember, everyone has gone through this before and while it may not be of much comfort to you now, these people did survive it. Everyone does.

The good news is though, it is possible to get your ex back. I am a bit of an expert unfortunately on how to get your ex back. In this article I'm going to show you a few things that will work wonders in getting your ex back.

First off, here are a few things not to do....

* Do not call them or message them constantly
* Do not stalk them
* Do not stay at home and cry and be sad
* Do not go to a bar and try and pick up
* Do not become depressed

Here are a few things you should be doing....

* Go out with friends
* Get into better shape
* Give them space to be alone
* Go out in the sun and read a book
* DO go out and meet new people and make new friends

The one thing that will push an ex even further away is clingyness. Give them room to breathe. If they do not want to hear from you, do not call them! Leave them alone. I love this saying and it is something I use often.... Give them the best gift of all.....

Give them the gift of missing you!

Powerful stuff isnt it. When someone cannot have something, they want it more. It's simply the law of attraction. Also, if that someone see's that person being enjoyed by another, that also makes them want that person more and this is where not being available, not sitting by the phone and going out makes a big difference.

I know you do not feel like going out, but do it! It is the best way to get your ex back I promise you. Who knows, you might even find someone else while you are out who is even more what you wanted in life.

Nothing turns any person on this planet off more then desperation. No one wants to be with someone who is desperate to be with them. It's not romantic, it's scary.

Stay positive and positive things will happen in your life.

Cheers. Hope it helps!

Source : http://www.getyourexbacknow.com/how_to_get_your_ex_back_now.html

Love,
How & BJ.

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Re: Something so share : How To Get Your Ex Back[Short Article]
« Reply #1 on: April 21, 2010, 11:56:53 AM »
I did every single DO NOTs on this Note.... is it too late? It's been a whole month....

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Re: Something so share : How To Get Your Ex Back[Short Article]
« Reply #2 on: April 21, 2010, 01:52:20 PM »
Bibine... It could take months, years. 1 month is nothing, and yes you are feeling low right now (I know how you feel!) Im 2/3 months into it, and things are looking a lot better (although I still have the down days, like everyone does in a good relationship or not!)

I am so pleased you found this place, it WILL help. Read round the forums, search for the bible on getting your ex back. It takes minimum 3 - 6 months with NO contact to get them back. Crikey I read a success story yesterday who took 12 years (although enjoy life in those 12 years, don't mope!)

Concentrate on the things you WANT from a partner, not a specific person. It IS hard but remember they're not perfect (neither are you, or me...), they're not special, you HAD something special, and yes it could come back, but in your current situation they're NOT special, and you DONT have something special there. There may be a connection, but DO focus on yourself... Hope this helps a little! Keep smiling, keep changing negative thoughts into positive ones! It gets a lot easier!

:) Love and peace

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Re: Something so share : How To Get Your Ex Back[Short Article]
« Reply #3 on: April 23, 2010, 10:49:35 AM »
wj-how,

thanks for your post!  i have been trying my best to go on with my life (except maybe for the stalking part because i still keep viewing his profile on FB. hehe.. i'll avoid that from now on).  i used to just stay home, sitting in front of a computer, which just made me miss him more because that's where we met (online).  now i'm doing salsa classes, i've started dating again (altho my date turned out to be my friend now.  but it's ok that's what i need for now).  i went for my first skydive last week.  this weekend i'm planning to get a new hairdo or something.  it's all about loving myself this time! 

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Re: Something so share : How To Get Your Ex Back[Short Article]
« Reply #4 on: April 23, 2010, 11:55:33 AM »
That is just the right spirit, miss ph!

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Re: Something so share : How To Get Your Ex Back[Short Article]
« Reply #5 on: May 30, 2010, 12:37:00 PM »
i am not sure if i should give up my vision to be with this person again. i have been maintaining this vision board which i put right in front of my bed, so i can see it every morning when i wake up and before i go to sleep at night. i put pictures of us together and a note of affirmation saying "i am happy now because x and i are together again. we are happy and very much in love. blah blah blah".  before things changed between us, he was planning to return to dubai to visit me.  he was supposed to come back here after the semester is over (which should be this week).  i printed an itinerary of his visit, etc.  i have packed my things like he's already coming over.  so last week we communicated through email.  apparently he's still seeing this woman (he never mentioned "my girlfriend" in his email.  he just said "the girl i'm seeing" so i'm not sure if the relationship is getting serious or whatever) and they're going to paris together next week.  yes he is going for a vacation as per the dates i have written on my diary) but with another woman.  i am sad but i'm trying to fight it with all the positivity i can muster.  we have been chatting for 2 months before he came to see me in person.  i was with him for only a few days but it felt different being with him.  for some unknown reason i  just knew he is the one.  so is it correct to keep my vision board that way?  i feel happy when i look at them and they give me hope that someday it's going to happen. 

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Re: Something so share : How To Get Your Ex Back[Short Article]
« Reply #6 on: April 18, 2013, 10:52:36 PM »
I know this is an old topic but very useful ;D

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Re: Something so share : How To Get Your Ex Back[Short Article]
« Reply #7 on: April 18, 2013, 11:38:22 PM »
In my personal experience I wish I woukd have known all of this when I was younger. Now that I am older I can say I have some say on this.

It is actually basic psychological behavior. Sometimes when we end a relationship if you are the one who was dumped, the other person in a way may feel like it has the upper hand per say. In other words the one who dumped you feels she/he has more value than you do for one reason or another.

Now if you had feelings for each other, that person in a sense wants to see you in pain I believe, because it lets them know you care or something. Anyway, if that person sees you having fun, improving and so on, now you are the one with more value than the other. So now you are more desireable and so on. Realistically speaking that person begins to feel that maybe they made a mistake. It is important that you actually do gain more value as far as self improvement because lets be honest, if you are fakin the funk when and if you do get back together and your attitude has not changed, you run the risk of reminding thay person why they dumped you in the first place.

Now here is a tricku portion, if that person has second thoughts and reaches out to you, you have to make sure that you do not bring up the break up and the reasons behind it because then you run the risk of reminding them why they left you as well. In other words you are in damage control for a while. Eventually, if you did improve on yourself dramatically, the break up may come up but it will be irrelevant I think, because by that point you are sort of a different person. A more positive and desireable new you. This is why your ex hates that say other women are paying attention to you because they will think wth! Why do all these women want him and the same goes for women and you see her with friends and other guys.

If you think any of these isnt true, consider how you feel when you look a their FB and see them having fun and going out and suddenly they seem improved. It makes yiu want them more. So the smart thing to do would be to sort of do the same back. Not only will you be happy with your results as an individual, your other half will be greatful for it.

Again this is just how i see it and have seen it done. It works but it is not a sure thing. Nothing is. All it is, is a tool in your tool box. Hope that made sense and helps.

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