so i think im gonna make a call

[2thetop]

well, the time has come to stick my neck out there.  for the last few days it has been eating at me to call her.  i have done other things to take my mind off of it and it keeps coming back up.  yesterday i saw something that i have come to recognize as a sort of sign non stop.  today some how me and an older customer of mine ended up on the subject and with out prompting or asking about anything, she said i should call her.  this is pretty much the first time i have tried to actually call her to contact her during the last 6 months or so.  my last email was about 2 months ago.  i will admit i had a few times wehre i called from a blocked number and hung up to hear her voice.  twice to be exact.  i wont say that it doesn't make me a lil nervous, but i am not worried as to how the convo goes.  i would of course like it to go well and us have a nice convo, but if i dont get to talk to her i wont turn around and cry about it. 
so with all that being said.  i suck with words and what i say which is what is making me a lil nervous.  so i am wondering if the women might be so kind as to clue a guy in as to what to avoid saying and what to touch on if the opportunity presents itself.  kinda posting this last minute, as i am planning to call her tonight, but i figured i would see what responses i get.

thanks a ton!

[irishgirl69]

Well, I personally appreciate honesty above all else, so just tell her that you've been thinking a lot about her and felt the need to call her.  Then I would say just let the conversation flow from there - I think you'll know what to say and what to ask based on how it goes.

I think this is great!  Can't wait to hear how it goes.

[RealCrimsonDynamo]

I am affirming that you will have a great conversation with her.  Of course ..this lessens the chance of me marrying you..but that's ok..I'm willing to let you go..LOL..

Ok..to get serious.  I'd advise you to keep it light and breezy.  Don't even mention that you miss her.  You are calling her so that will tell her.  Let her steer the conversation.  If she asks you questions then be truthful and maybe you can open up more to her but for now just keep it happy ..happy...happy.  At this point if she wants to discuss your break up I'd advise you to not really get into it.  Avoid rehashing things that you have discussed before because you are looking for a complete brand new start.  If she pushes then listen to what she says...don't argue etc...and just say you hear what she says and if you don't agree with it just say I view it differently.  But really ..really ..really try to avoid talking about the relationship and the break up.  This is a new start.  You are a new person and that baggage does not belong to you.  It belongs to someone who disappeared a long time ago.  Don't own it by trying to rehash it.

[2thetop]

thanks you two.  lol rcd nice loa joke there  .  well see how things go.  im not in a rush to call per say so i may not even call at this point.  something tells me i should so who knows where it goes.  im just kinda lettin it sit and tryin to not think.  good info tho rcd.  and youre right i am a new person.  it actually shocks me when people say ive changed, but hey it goes to show i have 

[Mel90]

Cant wait to read your success story !!!!! 

[2thetop]

thanks mel! well i called and no answer.  so it be what it be.  back on with my life

[lashark]

Maybe shes working or something, did you leave a VM? Or a text?

[Sailorsalem]

Yeah shes probally busy. But i guarentee your on her mind! Manifesting that she calls you back with a great convo and catching up!

[Sneha]

2the top - yeah good , just forget that u called her be it any reason, dont think about the reasons..just let go and u will see wonders ...

-Sneha

[2thetop]

thanks guys!  ya im not too concerned over it.  to be honest if she wants to go on and do her thing then so be it.  her loss.  there arent many guys out there like me.  im told this by people i meet, and personally just know it .  i honestly didnt stop to think too much about it.  she coulda been at the gym, she coulda been shocked i called, hell she coulda been getting ready to blast off to the moon for all i know, its not my issue.  like i told soemone else here, if i cant have faith that love will pull through, then this all is pointless.  loa and the universal laws will then be total bs, or atleast what everyone is making money on saying they are, and thats that.  not saying it is, just saying, if i cant base this all on the strongest emotion and vibration, then what can i base it on.  so for now i move on with my life and i wont worry about it.  i think i might have checked the phone once to see if anyone called, and it wasnt even to see if she called.  i love the woman to death, but like i said, her loss.  i hope she is happy in whatever she is doing and i look forward to the day when we will be reunited.

thank you again for all your guys support.  it really means a lot to me 

[Vicki Christina]

I love that attitude, Shawn!   Only good things can happen if you continue to feel that way most of every day!