Author Topic: I can do this! [update] (Read 4130 times)

LOVE_is_mine · « **Reply #30 on:** March 07, 2011, 07:30:44 AM »

So today I feel much better. I really think there was something in the air yesterday that
was making people feel bummed, including me. Today I went on my run and felt great and even
the air smelled better than usual. Everywhere I went I saw couples, which idk why but that
made me happy. Maybe that's a sign of what's
to come? Lol.

57angel · « **Reply #31 on:** March 07, 2011, 07:47:15 AM »

Quote from: xcfastdude on March 07, 2011, 07:30:44 AM

Everywhere I went I saw couples, which idk why but that
made me happy. Maybe that's a sign of what's
to come? Lol.

Yes, definitely! When the time comes that you are happy for the success in others, it means that your resistance is completely gone and this only means that success will then pour you in

Just continue making a happier you

LOVE_is_mine · « **Reply #32 on:** March 13, 2011, 05:21:56 AM »

So another update, STILL haven't talked to my girl yet. Haven't been texting her or anything till
today, and just sent her a good luck text since she has a game today. She didn't respond.
I've been feeling pretty good and have kept up with my affirmations and gratitude journal. Started
doing the binary beats. However, I accidentally clicked on her facebook and turns out she's still having problems
with her previous ex, who won't leave her alone even though she wants nothing to do with him. What should I do next?

Detached&Allowing · « **Reply #33 on:** March 15, 2011, 12:03:24 AM »

forgive her ex for his behavior in your heart and recognize that everything happens for a reason. (quite possibly this may need to happen in order to bring her closer to you.)

57angel · « **Reply #34 on:** March 15, 2011, 01:56:27 PM »

She needs to be completely healed before you and her will have a truly fulfilling relationship. Just let her do her share first to contribute to a very happy relationship you and her will have in the future, as you also continue being happy and making a stronger you. She is coming to your life Xcfastdude sooner than you expected, a completely healed woman

Enjoy your LOA journey

WILBERT · « **Reply #35 on:** March 15, 2011, 06:26:54 PM »

Hey xcfastdude you need to talk with her about the ambiguity that you have in your. You must not hide any question now . I hope you will solve your problem . Thanks

LOVE_is_mine · « **Reply #36 on:** March 18, 2011, 07:06:47 AM »

Sooo it turns out the ex is kinda outta the way but she's still in a relationship
with someone. I thought I was doing this right?

57angel · « **Reply #37 on:** March 18, 2011, 07:38:20 AM »

I read a quote, "True love is choosing to go back to someone who let go"

Yes, you are loving yourself and doing that is always right for you. Learn to let go of her, she will go back at the right time as you also continue loving yourself more and more each day

Detached&Allowing · « **Reply #38 on:** March 18, 2011, 08:45:06 AM »

You are doing right! Sometimes things happen that, at the moment, we don't understand. However, in the end we can see exactly why it all happened.

Keep doing what you are doing!

lots of love!!

LOVE_is_mine · « **Reply #39 on:** March 18, 2011, 08:46:47 AM »

Yeah I'm gonna have to let go of her. Its just that wow I really thought she was gonna be mine
already but some guy just came out of nowhere and just snatched her from me. But yeah she still is
dealing with her ex somewhat (they aren't the same guy). But idk, I don't want to hold on to false
hope that she'll be mine. But at the same time, she's the only one I want, am I'm completely sure of it.
I just need more of a chance with her Lol.

Detached&Allowing · « **Reply #40 on:** March 18, 2011, 09:11:20 AM »

I think you are misunderstanding what "letting go" means. One of the members provided a very good analogy.

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Many people say you should not be attached to the outcome, and yet you will get excited as the day gets nearer if you put a time frame to it.
The thing is to remember the difference between attachment and expectation.
Here's an example:
If you order a meal in a restaurant you wait expectantly for it to arrive and sit and talk until it does - that's expectation. You don't sit there worrying if it will arrive, or when it will arrive, or if it will be ok, or if it will be what you wanted - that's attachment.
Do you see the difference?
Of course you should expect to get what you ask for. But if you worry or wonder if it will arrive or when it will arrive, etc. then the message you are sending out is that you don't really believe it - so what will you get? Proof of your disbelief!

Does this make sense?

LOVE_is_mine · « **Reply #41 on:** March 18, 2011, 09:16:03 AM »

Yeah it makes sense. Just its hard when she's already in a relationship with someone else, ya know?

Detached&Allowing · « **Reply #42 on:** March 18, 2011, 09:26:20 AM »

I do. However, sometimes "events" need to take place to bring you to the result you wish. Any thoughts?

LOVE_is_mine · « **Reply #43 on:** March 18, 2011, 09:32:08 AM »

Well I'm willing to do whatever it takes to get her. Maybe she does need to date that guy
for a bit before being with me, cuz like she's still dealing with her ex that's giving her problems and
maybe that'll help her sort things out. Cuz I know she's still not completely over that.

57angel · « **Reply #44 on:** March 18, 2011, 11:33:24 AM »

Knowing that she is still not completely over with her past, she will not appreciate it that much when you and her are in a relationship now. Let her deal her issues first, by being in a relationship with another guy, she needs to grow in love, she needs to know from the heart what is it that she really want in a relationship with so much clarity. In time, when you are both ready to start a happy and very loving relationship, everything will fall into place. Always know that everything that the Universe gives you is for your favor, for as long as you are always in alignment with your Source. Cheer up! Do the things that you love, prepare yourself for such a very meaningful relationship in the future that you deserve