Author Topic: I can do this! [update] (Read 4128 times)

LOVE_is_mine · « **Reply #15 on:** March 04, 2011, 03:22:43 AM »

So not too much has happened the last few days. But I've really been focusing on myself
and on just letting go on the attachment of the outcome. I've been faithfully writing in my
gratitude journal every morning and at night before I go to bed. I feel really good right now! I just
know that very soon I'm gonna be sharing a success story with you all. She's MINE and I'm grateful
for her!

Detached&Allowing · « **Reply #16 on:** March 04, 2011, 04:14:03 AM »

You may want to consider listening to the following video. Plug in your headphones, sit back relax and enjoy. I have heard from some members that their manifestations seem to be increasing speed and this is the only thing they have added to their regimen.


Binaural Beats - Pure Alpha

LOVE_is_mine · « **Reply #17 on:** March 04, 2011, 10:35:45 AM »

schenderson, how often should I listen to the video? And are there any other videos or programs
that are similar? I really like it!

Detached&Allowing · « **Reply #18 on:** March 04, 2011, 10:40:44 AM »

Right click on the video and then choose "watch on Youtube". There you will find several videos that display different frequencies and explain what they are for. The alpha waves seem to be really working for people. I have tried Delta, theta and alpha for different reasons. I like them too. Thanks!!

I listen to one or two a day.

LOVE_is_mine · « **Reply #19 on:** March 05, 2011, 12:38:19 AM »

Kay well I've still been feeling good. Texted her today wishing her luck for her game tonight and she did
not reply. But on facebook she replied to everyone who wished her luck, so idk. That kinda felt like a
bummer. And she keeps flirting with the
other guy who is after her. What should I do?
Just leave her alone and focus on myself or what? Any input would be appreciated.

Detached&Allowing · « **Reply #20 on:** March 05, 2011, 01:02:53 AM »

If I may, it seems as though you are doing everything right but detaching yourself from the outcome. People keep saying "how do I do that?". This is the analogy I have been giving and it seems to be making sense to people. Imagine going to a party with her. As soon as you get there, you go one way, she goes another. Separately, you visit with friends and have fun. At no point are you concerned about "what she is doing or who she is talking to" because you KNOW for a FACT that she is going home with you. THAT is detaching yourself from outcome. You already know the outcome. The Universe controls the "how" and the "when" so keep focusing on you, love you! Listen to the binaural beats every day. Read your gratitude statements, say your affirmations with your vibration starts to drop. You will be okay!!

LOVE_is_mine · « **Reply #21 on:** March 05, 2011, 01:17:43 AM »

Its just hard though cuz like she keeps flirting with that dude but she ignores me.
Like we haven't even talked since sunday I think. So its like, what the heck. He wished her
luck and she replied right away. Do you think I should just stay away from facebook?

Christy Michelle · « **Reply #22 on:** March 05, 2011, 03:04:30 AM »

If it hurts you and gives you doubtful thoughts, yes, stay away from FB. After the breakup, my ex and I chatted for a few weeks on FB, but then it was hurting me seeing he was keeping on with his life, so I deactivated it. That helps with the healing process and also with the dettachment. Btw, Sche, nice analogy!! Made me think of when my ex and I were together, we did sports (the same one), so on each competition he would go do his things with his people and I would go my way with mines and that worked great for us.

Detached&Allowing · « **Reply #23 on:** March 05, 2011, 03:24:09 AM »

like I said you are too attached. It is imperative you let go of your attachment to the outcome. I agree with CM. LOA is about feeling good. If it doesn't feel good, don't do it.

Vicki Christina · « **Reply #24 on:** March 05, 2011, 03:27:42 AM »

Do not read her FB!

LOVE_is_mine · « **Reply #25 on:** March 05, 2011, 05:24:02 AM »

Haha makes sense. Okay I'm gonna stop starting right now Lol.

57angel · « **Reply #26 on:** March 05, 2011, 07:48:56 AM »

It is just amazing Xcfastdude, when you love yourself more, you will take care to do things that will make you upset. I rarely go to FB when my ex opened up his account in there. His gf even sent me an email but I chose not to reply to her, and until the time that they both posted nasty and rude comments in there, though they didn't put any names on it, but I know that those comments were meant for me - as they know my officemate (who accidentally added my ex gf when she added her) will surely let me know. I really heard enough from them, but I then chose to forgive them and I didn't feel any lighter

until recently, they both emailed to my officemate telling her to tell a woman to stop annoying them hehehe they are suspecting that it was who did that

but that is okay, I forgive them for thinking that it was me, because I know what is the truth. It doesn't matter to me now what are their feelings and their actions, what is important for me now is Me, I and Me - because I love, forgive and accept myself much much much more now.

Love, love and love yourself, first and foremost! You deserve all the love in the world and if FB will bring you down and all other negative feelings, then stay away from FB. What matters now is your feeling good. Your staying away from FB and all others that will make you feel bad is your gift to yourself - a gift to yourself that will lead her back to you. Wow, its me who is sooo very excited for you

LOVE_is_mine · « **Reply #27 on:** March 06, 2011, 06:39:30 AM »

Idk why but today I feel kinda blahh. Did some exercise and everything
but like everything I do seems to bring up something that reminds me of her, which
bums me out cuz I still miss her a lot and want her back. Nobody can replace
her in my mind. Maybe its just one of those days Idk.
Been doing the binaural beats and gratitude lists and it helps but just temporary.

LOVE_is_mine · « **Reply #28 on:** March 06, 2011, 10:56:02 AM »

So now she is listed as in a relationship with the other guy

Wow. How did this happen?

57angel · « **Reply #29 on:** March 06, 2011, 05:32:08 PM »

Then let her to be in a relationship with the other guy. I know how is it to feel in this situation, but always know and believe from your heart that there is something good that will happen out of this situation and it is always for your best. Continue making yourself the best that you can be. She will then know what she misses, she will then know with clarity what she wants and what she doesn't want. She needs to learn her lessons, as you continue loving yourself, this is a requirement for you and her to have a happy and fulfilling relationship in the future

Just keep on believing that she will be yours, as to how and when, let the Universe do that for you - because you deserve to be loved