Signs and the law of attraction in relationships

[Sophia]

Hey everyone!

I have a question about sings and how they manifest themselves in the law of attraction...Well let me tell you my story..

2 months ago my relationship ended with my boyfriend. I was heartbroken about this... Especially because I allways thougt that we were soulmates and that we would be together forever. Around this time I discoverd the secret and saw some articles about ''getting your ex back using the law of attraction'.

I began to vizualise...not about having my ex back, but about having a new (perfect) relationship with someone I really love. With the perfect guy..

Then the signs began to appear.. Everywhere I am I get confronted with his name... At my work, when I listen to the radio..someone is always talking about someone with the same name as his..I hear, see and read his name so often...it gets annoying

So my question is...do signs appear before the manifestation of your vizualisations? Is this a sign that my ex is still this perfect love which I'm vizualising? I'm a little confused about it because he hasn't contacted me these past two months, so I don't understand why I am getting all these signs about him....

I hope someone can help me...

Sophia

[Galia]

 

Hi Sophia! And be very welcome here in our happy Universe of power attractors!

I'm very happy founding your post here, because actually your story is a success story!

Those signs are the direct result of your affirmations and visualizations, sweetie. The great news is that it does work great for you, and oh Gosh, that's so quick!

You did the best you could to attract a perfect relationship and the Universe replies immediately because you are open to receive and you didnt ask for your ex boyfriend, but you let the Universe to choose the best for you!
It seems to be your ex for the moment, but still you need to stay open so it can be completed fully.

Contunue doing what you already do, that works for you! Stay positive and PLEASE detached from the outcome!

Congratulations!

[Sophia]

Hey Galia!

Thank you so much for your reply You're such a kind and wise person! I still have one question though, and I hope you can help me with this one too...

I don't really understand my feelings right now, I don't even know if I want to get back together with my ex.. Because I believe that your true 'soulmate' will never let you go and will allways love you. My ex broke up with me because he said he wasn't in love with me anymore..
I don't understand why the universe keeps giving me signs about him, I just want to move on and find new love...But this is kind of hard when you are constant reminded about him.
What's your opinion about it? And how would you handle this situation?

Sophia

[Galia]

Sophia,

what is happening in your life, you've attracted it somehow.

The biggest problem is that we attract with our subconscious mind as well, so you may have some thoughts and conceptions that you even don't realize... That's why many books and famous authors suggest to work on your perception for life and the situations happening to you.

For example, John Kehoe while talking about the mindpower, says we need to sow new beliefs and new thoughts artificially so we learn our subconscious do what is good for us and not sabotaging our life by sending vibes we don't want.

Your subconscious mind is in a very good state, alpha level they call this, in the morning after you open your eyes and in the evening while falling asleep. That's why we always suggest doing meditation and affirmations at that time, just when your subconscious mind is open to receive.

So, to sum up, you are maybe attracting things subconsciously even if that is opposite to your conscious wishes.

You should do the list of the qualities you want in a partner and let the Universe do its work, don't pay attention on how it comes if it's not making you happy. Keep only the positive conclusions and signs in your head.

:-)

Have an amazing day and feel happiness coming into your life! Live everyday like it's your last day on this Earth!

[Sneha Kulkarni]

hi sophia!

Galina is right do make the list of the qualities you want instead of focusing on a particular person and  then end of the affirmations write down  universe this is what i want if something 10 times better i am ready for it and see the magic work.

sneha

[Sophia]

Hey!

thank you so much for your kind replies It gives me a lot to think about...
I have still one question though ( Its not really about relationships, so I'm not sure if I may put it in this topic)...

In some religions (christianity for example) they say that everyone has a path in life which they have to follow. That your whole live is allready decided for you. That it is your destiny to experience certain things. That there is no such thing as chosing your own future..

The law of attraction says you can create your own future...What is your view on this?

And what do you think about psychics? Do you think that they can see your future? Or can you change your future by using the law of attraction? And what do you think about karma in relation with the LAW?

I hope you understand my questions (english isn't my fist language )

I know its a little but off topic, but I was just curious about your opinion about this subject..

Sophia

[Galia]

Sophia, hi!

I'm also a Christian :-) so when I found out about the LoA I was asking myself a lot of questions like yours as I didn't know where to put all this stuff in my religion which I practice...

Well, yes, in the Bible you read that if you are a Christian and you serve God, you were chosen before your birth. God choose you to serve and spread the Christianity, do what Jesus told us to do... BUT  still God gave us the free will to choose what we serve and who we serve and how....but also what we think and what we desire...

Yes, He choose us to serve Him but he didn't force us to do it. What is sure is that you are chosen, so that means one day you'll accept Jesus in your heart and you'll be saved and go in Heaven but it is all up to you to accept it when you are ready.

 For example, me, I started serving God when I was 24 years old - commited into Christianity officialy, got baptised etc ( I'm  protestant) ....but my grand-father saying he was a Christian, he never did anything for Jesus and even didn't read the Bible - he was "saved" when he was dying - he prayed and asked God to forgive him and accepted Jesus in his heart....SO you see, you are chosen but you decide when to serve really God, because HE left you the choice.
Of course all along your way you will have situations and events inviting you to turn yourself to God - like sickness, death of close people, difficulties....unfortunatelly often it's a bad event that bring people to God...

So you still have the path of your life , be a Christian, and LoA fits perfectly with this, and even more, the Bible is talking about it - "ask and it will be given", "to those that have a lot, more will be given and those who have less, all will be taken away", and all about "faith" - that faith is healing you, faith is the key to receive...


    Luke 17:6 –If you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this tree, Be uprooted and planted in the sea, and it will obey you.

    Matthew 7:7 — Ask and ye shall receive.

    Mark 11:23 – For verily I say unto you, that whosoever shall say unto this mountain, be thou removed, and be thou cast into the sea; and shall not doubt in his heart, but shall believe that those things which he saith shall come to pass; he shall have whatsoever he saith.


Of course you create your future with your thoughts....because thoughts go to the heart, create the desire and that is what puts you into action...at least is what my priest used to say...

And you can't predict your future, no one can predict it...

God puts into action different things and the final result is always better than we thought.

Hope that it helps!

[chseng]

This is the first time I encountered this phenomena consciously. I believe they are the signs. So, what do you think?

Galia, thanks a lot, and I actually visualize that I am with my perfect soulmate and not my X, everyday, as I wanted to attract the perfect relationship.

These few days, I affirmed my thoughts more than I ever did in my life. I believe I am attracting her back. I no longer doubt if things will work or not. and I clearly comprehend that whether she is being with another guy or not, or whatever thing she does together with her friends, they don't affect my belief. I cleared my doubts away.

Strangely, today, when I was having my dinner, there were 2 girls passed my table. The scent was the same as the one that my X has on her hair. I believe they are using the same hair treatment. I was very happy and feel good to smell that scent once again.

Not only that,  sooner after that, the music video song program on the TV showed Jay Sean's Eye on You, it was one of the songs that she shared with me.

It felt as if she never left me. I am feeling good. Are these the signs that the Universe is actually showing me? Ha!

Hopefully we will be contacting each other soon when the right time comes. 

[Galia]

Calvin,

this is great! You're doing very very good!

Those "signs" are actually the result of your thoughts - you are receiving your affirmations and desires ;-)

Just keep going that way!

[Sophia]

Hey!

I want to thank everyone here for being so kind and helpfull!

The sings I'm receiving about my ex are getting more and more frequent. Sometimes i really don't know what to do anymore...I receive these signs so often its not funny any more... I get signs about him a couple times per hour. I don't know what to do about it. Should I contact him? I've read somewhere that sometimes if you want the law of attraction to work, you have to make the first step yourself...to receive the right outcome. Its really confusing to me...He hasn't contacted me since the break up, so why am I receiving so many sings? I also like someone else right now, so the whole situation is getting weirder every day. I just want to continue with my life but this isn't possible with all these signs...I don't wan't to get reminded of him all the time...

What do you think?

Sophia

[Sneha Kulkarni]

hi glass,
Yes law of attraction works when you act with alignment with  your inspired thought, all those hints and signs are for you to take some action and you know the best way out;). Just go for it.

sneha