Author Topic: Signs (Read 1062 times)

angelelle · « **on:** June 22, 2012, 03:32:41 PM »

Examples

Cleaned out my car a few weeks back and found in the glove compartment a memory stick which I swear was not there before. It was from over 2 years ago and what was on it? Pictures of the first night we fell in love, we were sitting in a bar with friends from work and looking lovingly at each other. I hard a really hard time dealing with finding this photos, why now? why when he has completely dropped me?

He called me last week, I was too afraid to answer it as I thought he was going to tell me something negative

Looked at his FB page today, we are not friends so I can only see what he shows the public. I scrolled down and looked at the few public posts available and one of them was when he changed his status to 'In a relationship' in 2010 saying how happy he was. I am sure this was not on public view before, well I hadn't seen it when I was stalking him (lol). I was shaking and almost sick because it made me remember what we had but I couldn't feel happy, just more sad.

We are work colleagues and a few weeks back I left a note in his office because I know he was going through a hard time. Around the same time his new GF sent him flowers at work with a note in (she knows we work together and he fully admitted to me that it was her trying to 'show me' ). Anyway, my note is propped against the wall on his desk, hers is under a pile of papers

Why, right now when I am finding it so hard to accept he has moved on am I seeing all these signs where it appears he cares and also has cared? I know it should warm my heart but I am at the stage where I am just finding it makes me sadder.

Anyone else had this problem or have thoughts on seeing signs when doing LOA:

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tereza · « **Reply #1 on:** June 22, 2012, 09:42:34 PM »

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Why, right now when I am finding it so hard to accept he has moved on am I seeing all these signs where it appears he cares and also has cared? I know it should warm my heart but I am at the stage where I am just finding it makes me sadder.

Wha???

Ok, first off, why are you forcing yourself to accept that he's moved on? Who cares what he's doing? It's so unimportant and focusing on it will only bring you more of the same nonsense. Second, who says he's moved on? I'm sorry, but if his girlfriend feels that threatened by you, that she's sending him flowers (I think it's so weird when a woman sends a guy flowers, it just seems so desperate, especially if they haven't been together for a long time) uh...she probably has a good reason to feel that way.

As for the signs, I think they appear when you finally start to detach. It's like your subconscious says...oh hey you released some of that hold on that desire of yours, now I can start working on it for you. So it starts bringing things to you.

beautifulmesss12sc · « **Reply #2 on:** June 22, 2012, 11:28:56 PM »

some days i just cant help myself and i ASK for signs .. i had quit doing that .. but sometimes i just need a little reassurance .. so today i asked to see a dove or the word dove... just as i almost got to the house i had to clean i looked up and it was lonesomedove street... i asked for the sign to know im on the right track with my guy and i got it .the lady i clean for had a necklace on her dresser with a dove on it ... was that a sign?/ YES i believe it was ty universe !!! .. again i do not make a habit of this for those of u who are gonna tell me i shouldnt be asking..LOL... but i needed it today!

over it · « **Reply #3 on:** June 22, 2012, 11:59:59 PM »

I've just started thinking signs, are little smiles from the universe to let us know our manifestations are near! It gives me even more faith.

Love4only1 · « **Reply #4 on:** June 23, 2012, 12:36:26 AM »

I like to believe in signs. I used to ask to see Butterfly's if he was thinkng of me.

Even though I am in the NC stage again, and most likely permanantly, I will even dream of butterfly's. LOL
Last night I had a dream I was standing on a deck, and all of these big beautiful multi-colored butterlys were coming up to me. The color was so brilliant (I never pay attention to color in my dreams, so this was startling) and I thought (in my dream) He is thinking of me!
Talk about messing with your sub-concious mind!

angelelle · « **Reply #5 on:** June 23, 2012, 01:43:09 AM »

Quote from: tereza on June 22, 2012, 09:42:34 PM

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Why, right now when I am finding it so hard to accept he has moved on am I seeing all these signs where it appears he cares and also has cared? I know it should warm my heart but I am at the stage where I am just finding it makes me sadder.

Wha???

Ok, first off, why are you forcing yourself to accept that he's moved on? Who cares what he's doing? It's so unimportant and focusing on it will only bring you more of the same nonsense. Second, who says he's moved on? I'm sorry, but if his girlfriend feels that threatened by you, that she's sending him flowers (I think it's so weird when a woman sends a guy flowers, it just seems so desperate, especially if they haven't been together for a long time) uh...she probably has a good reason to feel that way.

As for the signs, I think they appear when you finally start to detach. It's like your subconscious says...oh hey you released some of that hold on that desire of yours, now I can start working on it for you. So it starts bringing things to you.

Thanks for this, yes I have been working really hard on me for the past few weeks, both detaching and moving on and also thinking positively about myself and life. I sort of do feel the energy changing as I dont feel that desperation anymore. I am still human and have my downmoments (see my last post) but the majority of me is feeling good and positive and I am trying to look at these signs as wonderful memories of how much we once loved each other, making me more determined to keep focusing on getting him back...but in the loa way, to detach and not need.

And you are not the first person to say that about the flowers, lol. Two friends said he probably sent them to himself as he wants to draw a line between us right now as he can't handle the situation.

Love4only1 · « **Reply #6 on:** June 26, 2012, 05:49:30 AM »

I wanted to comment on this post again, because something very strange happened today. As you recall, I had asked for signs of 'butterfly's' whenever he was thinking of me...now I see butterfly's all the time. In pictures, on the walls, T-Shirts, you name it. I'm still in NC with him, so I started to figure that I was really looking for these signs and I could no longer really consider him thinking of me each time I saw one.
Today, I was thinking about him and the car next to me had a butterfly sticker. I said outloud "you know, sometimes a Butterfly is just a Butterfly. It doesn't mean anything to me anymore. Please give me something else." My mind drifted onto other matters in my life when a song came on the radio. I had never heard it before...but the words struck me. I looked at the playlist and it was a band that "he" had commented on once and that VERY song that he liked!
Even when he mentioned it (this was several months ago) I told him I had never heard of the song before....and there it was on the very radio station I was listening to!
So, Yup, sometimes butterfly's are just butterfly's, and sometimes the Universe wants to let you know it hears you.
does it mean anything? Probably not, but I did feel a little better that the Universe does pay attention, if only I would.

over it · « **Reply #7 on:** June 26, 2012, 09:35:01 PM »

Today I asked for a sign to let me know if I'm manifesting in the right direction, so to speak, for me and my guy to reconnect. I wanted to know that I was open to "receiving", staying positive, non-attached, and focusing on myself. I got my sign in the form of a t-shirt that a patient was wearing. Love LOA!!! just a little encouragement for me today!!! Thank you God/Universe!!!

beautifulmesss12sc · « **Reply #8 on:** June 27, 2012, 04:11:56 AM »

these are all great signs.. i was at work today and when i walked out to my car .. i thought wow i havent thought about him alll day.. well abt 2 min later a truck went by me and on the back window it said ...( his last name) .. painting.. i was like geesh...lol. i love those little signs .. and you r right ,, it does give u hope and helps to know the universe IS listening!

FindDivineTogether · « **Reply #9 on:** June 27, 2012, 07:53:02 AM »

Tereza....

As for the signs, I think they appear when you finally start to detach. It's like your subconscious says...oh hey you released some of that hold on that desire of yours, now I can start working on it for you. So it starts bringing things to you.

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR RESPONDING THIS WAY..IT REALLY GAVE ME A NEW WAY TO LOOK AT SIGNS..I NEVER REALLY THOUGHT OF IT THAT WAY..BUT LOOKING BACK JUST IN THE PAST FEW DAYS..ITS EXACTLY WHAT HAS HAPPENED TO ME!!!! I ACTUALLY BECAME ALITTLE IRRITATED..AND EVEN CHUCKLED A BIT..BECAUSE I WAS SO READY TO MOVE ON WITH SUCH AN ATTITUDE TO BOOT..LOL..AND THEN ONE SIGN AFTER ANOTHER CAME SO I CALMED MYSELF..IT WAS LIKE GOD SAYING TO ME...''OHHHH JUST RELAX ALREADY!!!!'' LOOOOOOOOOOL

GOD BLESS YOU!

angelelle · « **Reply #10 on:** June 27, 2012, 07:37:51 PM »

I like that idea too, although sometimes I feel way from detaching, lol. But the signs that I mentioned below were pretty incredible, especially the memory stick one. It was soooo strange finding it exactly that day with all those old pictures on. Also forgot to mention another strange thing. Since we broke up I have not seen any of his friends, so almost a year since I saw his friends even though we all live in the same fair sized town.

So the other day I bumped into not one but two of his friends within an hour of each other and stopped and chatted quite a lot to both of them. Just so bizarre that it should go a year and then two of them turn up at once, lol

andygolay · « **Reply #11 on:** June 27, 2012, 09:52:44 PM »

It's so amazing how signs can show up. That he put your note on display like that seems very meaningful, and also that he called you, whether it was on the surface positive or negative, he's reaching out to you. As a guy, i can tell you i only call a woman i haven't seen in a while if i'm motivated to see her.

For signs in general, i used to have frogs and dragonflies as pretty major signs. more recently it has been black-and-white turkey feathers, and the numbers 707 and 11... i am not sure exactly what they mean, but they do give me a sense of synchronicity, like i'm plugged into something bigger than myself.

angelelle · « **Reply #12 on:** June 28, 2012, 02:13:45 AM »

Hey Andy. I see your post as à sign

thanks.

kjkitt · « **Reply #13 on:** June 28, 2012, 02:14:47 AM »

Perhaps the universe put the thought in your mind to make the call?! LOA!!

tina_attract · « **Reply #14 on:** June 28, 2012, 04:06:03 AM »

I'm wondering if this is a sign. I listen to music in different languages, and usually I don't really care of translations, but I had this one particular song stuck in my head today so I was playing it on my ipod, and then I suddenly felt like reading the translation because I was like 'this sounds so pretty, I want to know what he's saying.' But I happened to be on the bus, but when I got to school, I still had this weird urge to look up the translation. When I did, it turns out it's a song about a guy asking what he can do to get a girl back because she's all he thinks about and whatnot. I was really taken aback LOL, seems like a sign but maybe not??