Author Topic: Shall I call??? (Read 124 times)

Chantal · « **on:** November 15, 2011, 04:05:14 AM »

Hi there,

haha, this is the 3th post in only 3 days, but I suppose I am feeling welcome here

Thanks so much you people for all the information and stories! It is really helpfull and cheers me up! I am new to the LOA and learning as hell, but trying to just ASK BELIEVE LET GO RECEIVE. Only, the letting go part is a tricky one. In my first post I already explained my ex BF lives 3 hours away right now (we used to live together, emigrated from Netherlands to Belgium). Now I am at my parents their place who do only live 30 minutes away from him. Not this Sunday, but the Sunday before he called me and we talked for 30 minutes.

Last Saturday I sent him an email and said perhaps I would come around some time, because at the phone he said that I was in the neighbourhood, I was welcome to visit him. Well, that is the dilemma. He did not respond to my mail from Saturday (yeah, perhaps he is busy or so, dont know), but I am only half an hour away from him right now. Shall I text him shall I visit you, or do I try to manipulate the LOA and still act to needy? I didnot saw him for almost 4 wks and the last time I saw him was just a few minutes and he was very angry, he wanted to leave immediately.

ps: Also, is it silly if I am thinking about emigrating back to the place he lives in now? I lived there 10 months, do know the place for a bit, dont know people really, expect from him. The thing is, that I can follow an parttime education for a little money in Belgium, witch is more expensive in the Netherlands and I can follow free drivers lessons at my parents their place (different drivers lessons law in comparison to the Netherlands). Thanks a lot for reading! And hope you guys can advice me.

Mr positive · « **Reply #1 on:** November 15, 2011, 04:26:37 AM »

Well idk about your moving there, im sure some one can tell you better than me but for calling him, does it feel good thinking about it? If your going to call him make sure your in a good state of mind and feel comfortable making that call! Id say if all matches up well, call him but i wouldnt do it if you feel anything negative can come from it! Stay positive my friend and welcome to the forum!

Nice people on here!