Author Topic: Sending loving thoughts to ex? (Read 17271 times)

sh-boom · « **Reply #90 on:** March 22, 2012, 11:37:14 PM »

Quote from: crazysoul on March 22, 2012, 04:52:27 AM

thank you for sharing, that is awesome!!!

yes, love is the essence of all, love can do miracles and sending love is such a good act and you can never fail by doing it.

how often did you remote seduction may i ask?

you are welcome! i only did it the two times. afterwards i was kinda expecting something to happen quickly, when it didnt i just thought oh well no big deal and kind of forgot about it. then about 3-4 days later i got the txt. so i think that was detachment at work! it was really nice to catch up with my friend and we are now playing games via our iPhones

littlemisshopeful · « **Reply #91 on:** November 22, 2012, 06:52:42 AM »

Is this true?

http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/telepathic_love

JustForToday · « **Reply #92 on:** November 22, 2012, 06:17:02 PM »

i think this could be true....

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They will only feel a difference when you close the portal to your heart, soul and mind. A kind of panic will set in the “other”. They will feel as if they are losing you. There will be no explanation why, and often they do not understand why suddenly they aggressively need to reach you by phone, email or a visit. You have closed off your heart. They feel abandoned; and then they take action.

that could explain why, as soon as you REALLY close your door (giving a damn), they pop out of nowhere....

just happened to me, but i decided to close this door for good!

excel · « **Reply #93 on:** November 22, 2012, 09:23:38 PM »

This sounds interesting. How do you close the telepathic door? Like literally what do you do?

JustForToday · « **Reply #94 on:** November 22, 2012, 09:29:45 PM »

it happened naturally, as soon as you think "F....Y...." and REALLY REALLY are serious about it. i couldnt control it, i guess it will come when the glass is full

excel · « **Reply #95 on:** November 22, 2012, 09:33:32 PM »

Quote from: JustForToday on November 22, 2012, 09:29:45 PM

it happened naturally, as soon as you think "F....Y...." and REALLY REALLY are serious about it. i couldnt control it, i guess it will come when the glass if full

Doesn't this contradict with LOA, like negative feelings etc. and all of those things that teach you to actually dream of the one you love and imagine being with them?

satty · « **Reply #96 on:** November 22, 2012, 09:35:51 PM »

Quote from: JustForToday on November 22, 2012, 06:17:02 PM

i think this could be true....

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They will only feel a difference when you close the portal to your heart, soul and mind. A kind of panic will set in the “other”. They will feel as if they are losing you. There will be no explanation why, and often they do not understand why suddenly they aggressively need to reach you by phone, email or a visit. You have closed off your heart. They feel abandoned; and then they take action.

that could explain why, as soon as you REALLY close your door (giving a damn), they pop out of nowhere....
just happened to me, but i decided to close this door for good!

closing the door and doing RS at the same time... bit difficult to grasp this concept...

JustForToday · « **Reply #97 on:** November 22, 2012, 09:39:34 PM »

of course you wont do RS when youre about to close a door.
and i didnt close that door to reach something, i was just tired. as i said, its nothing i had control over, it just happened.
thats why i think anyway, that love has to come freely and i am not a big fan of RS anymore. i dont want to put any effort in making someone thinking of me. why should we anyway?

JustForToday · « **Reply #98 on:** November 22, 2012, 09:43:22 PM »

Quote from: excel on November 22, 2012, 09:33:32 PM

Quote from: JustForToday on November 22, 2012, 09:29:45 PM
it happened naturally, as soon as you think "F....Y...." and REALLY REALLY are serious about it. i couldnt control it, i guess it will come when the glass if full

Doesn't this contradict with LOA, like negative feelings etc. and all of those things that teach you to actually dream of the one you love and imagine being with them?

almost all my manifestations came when i stopped even caring about it.
thats when you really let go.
i am not into visualizing anymore as i think cosmic ordering is the best way to handle loa and to get what we desire.
ask, believe and receive.
i set my intention and forget about it. thats it.

but everyone has his own way to apply loa. thats just mine.

satty · « **Reply #99 on:** November 22, 2012, 09:53:28 PM »

well... i guess it all comes down to one thing...... we being happy...

of course being with our s will make us happy.... but when things begin to feel tiresome in order to get them back... we naturally let go...

this is the exact feeling i am going through today...

i have done so much tapping in last of couple pf days... i am in relief ... much much relief... all those feelings of betrayal, lost love, missing her, she with someone else, guilt, anger, sadness.... none of them are surfacing up... even if they do... just for few seconds... and then fade away... i dont even need to tap them anymore.....

my mind seems to be free... YES I WANT HER BACK!!!... but when she comes back happy, full of love for both of us...

LET UNIVERSE TAKE CARE OF IT!!!!

AND yes i am feeling happy today... never had this feeling in last 6 months... all because of this forum...
hope i will write my success story soon

irishgirl69 · « **Reply #100 on:** November 22, 2012, 10:11:56 PM »

It is possible to do RS and then close the telepathic door. All that does is stop that energy flowing. So you are in control of sending your energy. It is important to close that door - continually allowing your energy to go to anyone else (even someone you are in a loving relationship with) is unhealthy - it depletes your energy from you.

When you are doing with your RS or telepathic session, simply visualize a door closing between you and them or you can also visualize a cord connecting the two of you being severed. This does not need to be permanent - you are simply telling the universe that you are done giving them your energy at that time and to keep all of your energy for yourself.

Keep in mind, though, that doing anything in the hopes of making something happen usually does not work because there is always going to be a tinge of desperation attached to it. So don't send energy telepathically and close the door in the hopes of them feeling panicky, etc. Send them energy if you feel it's the right thing to do for you and close the door because it is definitely the right thing to do. Then let it go.

JustForToday · « **Reply #101 on:** November 22, 2012, 10:48:29 PM »

Quote from: irishgirl69 on November 22, 2012, 10:11:56 PM

When you are doing with your RS or telepathic session, simply visualize a door closing between you and them or you can also visualize a cord connecting the two of you being severed. This does not need to be permanent - you are simply telling the universe that you are done giving them your energy at that time and to keep all of your energy for yourself.

thank you irish, very interesting.
so that means, if the thoughts of someone only keeps making you sick and out of order so to say, you can just end this by closing this door?
not with the intention to make something happen though, just if you really want to stop thinking about this person for your own sake?
woow, wish i had known that before, haha.
but its closed now anyway, it just happened.
thanks for the input, very interesting and useful indeed

irishgirl69 · « **Reply #102 on:** November 22, 2012, 11:35:30 PM »

Well, I was referring more to your energies connecting. I've had to learn to do this since I am an empath and often take other's energies on. I had to learn how to protect myself with a force field so that I can see and appreciate the emotions and energies of others, but not absorb them myself. When you do things like RS, telepathy, etc., you are opening yourself up energetically to someone so it's important that you don't allow that connection to remain open indefinitely.

But you can certainly make the decision to stop thinking about someone if it's not making you happy. It's not always easy to do, but if you set your mind to it, you can.

littlemisshopeful · « **Reply #103 on:** November 23, 2012, 06:52:36 AM »

Is it really necessary to do this 'cause I've read you should let the universe take control? Isn't sending them love or RS contradicts the purpose of loa?

excel · « **Reply #104 on:** November 23, 2012, 05:16:05 PM »

Well I tried the locking thing just out of curiosity. I just woke up after 9 hours of sleep, extremely exhausted. Don't know how that affects anything, but hey, I've got the symptoms