Remote Seduction - it worked!! (maybe too well!)

[SodaPony]

Happy Independence Day to all the Americans here, and Happy Wednesday to everyone else!   

So I began remote seduction on my ex (husband - separated several months - not divorced) about 3 weeks ago. There was little to no communication between us (at his insistence, and I respected his boundaries), and things did not look promising at all. I used the below link, I think it is by hypnotherapist "Wendi" but I'm not totally sure. I used this about 5-6 times - some of the times I felt I wasn't doing it right and once I even think I fell asleep, but I kept persisting. On days that I don't use the mp3, I get myself really relaxed, put on calming music (the Yoga station on Pandora is awesome ) and send him loving thoughts. Mostly thoughts about love/caring/positivity/safety etc, but I definitely used 'seduction'-type thoughts and visualizations too. It's kind of like me just talking to him, but psychically. I do this every night before I go to sleep for about 10-20 mins.

WELL. A week and a half ago, out of the clear blue, my husband asked me to come over to where he's staying and stay the night!! This was totally out of the blue - the weekend prior, he actually told me (calmly and nicely as possible given the subject matter) that unless there's a 'miracle,' he thinks the relationship is over and after all the tough times we've been through, he's not interested in pursuing it anymore - only a miracle would make him change his mind. Interesting that he used that terminology, since he has no idea how I'm into LOA now! Then the very next weekend he texted me to come over! I am SO grateful everyday that this door has been opened.

That was about a week and a half ago and we've been texting almost everyday - the problem is, it's almost always about sex & nothing else! He was open in saying that the reason he asked me over was because of sex - I mean he wanted it to be with me & not someone else so that's a start - and I was happy about it because I figured once we had that physical connection again it might lead to more. I still think it will, but do you think that RS is backfiring on me, maybe because of the whole "RS is unethical" argument? Don't get me wrong, I love the attention and I did love being able to physically connect with him again, but I guess maybe I'm a little impatient for him to seem a little more interested in other facets of me. He was very nice, made dinner & drinks for me on the night. The sex was loving and compassionate, and we hung out & chatted the next day & I didn't leave until early afternoon. But I'd be lying if I said I don't feel a teeny bit degraded/used bc he hasn't seemed interested in doing anything non-sex like going to the movies or whatever. It's only been not even two weeks so I'll relax & not worry about it. in a way i think using sex as a way back to the relationship is his macho ego being like, oh I'm not giving in, but I can still see her for sex (he's a little immature, but he's also very hurt by the breakup). This was also an area where our relationship was majorly lacking before the breakup, so I guess it's a positive sign that chemistry is alive again between us after years of us not 'jiving' in that area.

Long story short, RS DOES work, just be careful what you wish for! I should say also, this was also around the time that I was starting to finally be able to detach. I am really trying hard to be present in my own life, enjoying time with family & friends and searching for new interests. I joined a bunch of Meetups, started yoga, and I'm looking at taking French lessons in the fall. I booked a trip to see friends on the west coast. It's not easy but everyday I do my best to have a sense of humor and see the bright side.

If anyone is interested, message me for the link, or you can just google remote seduction mp3.

Good luck & love to everyone!!

[Ginny]

Wow, that's a pretty amazing turn-around. I always love hearing success stories (okay, maybe this isn't 100% what you wanted, but it sounds like it's 100% what you asked for )

I hope you bring all areas of the relationship to the state you'd like them to be in

[ellebelle]

SodaPony, it looks like you have a really great attitude towards the break up and you seem to be doing everything possible to focus on you. Considering it's only been a short space of time since you and your husband's seperation, you've picked yourself back up excellently. RS is obviously working for you quite well and I advise you to keep at it though maybe in future try to avoid communicating any sexual thoughts/feelings.

Think of what you've manifested already as a test. You've tried RS and it worked. But I would advise you to try not to sleep with him next time. I know he is still your husband and it's great that he still chooses you. I'm guessing there might be a part of you that's afraid that if you don't sleep with him, he'll look elsewhere for sex but I doubt he would. You still clearly have a strong hold over him and considering you were/are married, I doubt he's just using for sex. Next time he asks to see you, politely say that you already have plans with friends or something. Try not to answer his calls/texts all the time. It will be difficult to turn him down and you'll REALLY want to speak/see him, but you need to make sure he doesn't start taking you for granted and that you are always available to him. If you pull away from him a little, it won't be what he's expecting and will more likely bring him closer to you.

[AS & I ARE HAPPY MARRIAGE NOW :)]

SodaPony,

CONGRATS on your success...

All you need to do is VISUALIZE and FEEL romantic and loving scenarios with the same intensity that you did the other ones... Read this book... Please read the case-histories first and then read the whole book... http://www.mindserpent.com/library/goddard/The_Power_Of_Awareness.pdf

Cear your doubts... Get rid of your fears... They will only pull you back...

Raise your vibrations... Send him LOVE... And EXPECT him to fall in LOVE with you again... 

LOVE & GOD BLESS,
NS

[lilly]

@Soda pony,

Remote seduction does work, I have had success with it before even knowing it was a technique of sort..but I agree with AS&I you need to focus on romantic scenario and on a stable relationship if it is what you want because you'll only get what you visualize through remote seduction!

@AS&I..thank you for the link to the book!! I didn't know this one and had a look it is really great and fits my view on remote seduction as well as my own experience. The part about free will and that we choose what we want to experience ( the vision) but that we do not control the how is particularly interesting. Also the fact that what you want has to feel natural and that when it happens it has become so natural that it almost feels like a coicidence, it is totally my experience with loa. It is when things seem to unfold naturally that your wish is about to manifest.

[tereza]

I don't think remote seduction is unethical and somewhere out there on the internet some woman explained it perfectly but I can't remember the quote, but basically it was..you can't help it if someone catches the scent of a bacon sandwich and now wants one. 
You're just sending your energy out there and he's free to accept it or reject it. You're not forcing him to do anything.

As for sleeping with him or not, I'm not sure. I think that's something that depends on the person and the relationship. Anyway good luck and thanks for sharing your experience. Kind of makes me want to give that mp3 another shot as I find myself cracking up every time I try to listen to it.