Author Topic: Relationship Question (Read 486 times)

Paris :) · « **on:** May 27, 2010, 11:14:58 PM »

This is a question for all those who have successfully attracted a happy relationship. I've never had a boyfriend before. After years of doubting that I could get a boyfriend, I'm finally starting to see that getting a boyfriend really isn't such a farfetched idea. I'm seeing now that I have things to offer for a relationship and that makes me really excited. I feel I've had the universe bring me a couple of opportunities but it's hard for me to tell. I have a tendency to go back-and-forth as to whether I like a particular person and due to my lack of experience, I'm not really sure what I want. And I guess I might be a little afraid to try still. There is one guy I met at church whom I was attracted to but I felt nervous around him so I wasn't able to allow hiim into my life. He rarely comes to church but I would like to find a way to attract him back and maybe start a friendship with him. What do u guys think I could do to make this happen?

Paris :) · « **Reply #1 on:** May 28, 2010, 05:20:45 AM »

This video helped me. Maybe it will help some other people too.

http://www.youtube.com/user/abrahamhicks?blend=2&ob=4#p/a/u/1/Ju9fBHe5tdk

Andrew Wilkie · « **Reply #2 on:** May 28, 2010, 10:05:03 AM »

GroovyParis89

Focus on the end result. Don't make being at church a condition of meeting this chap. Just imagine talking to him somewhere, anywhere. If you have the church in the background, so be it. Yet I'm sure you and him go to many places without even knowing it.

Paris :) · « **Reply #3 on:** May 28, 2010, 09:49:32 PM »

Do you think I should imaging just imagine talking to him and thats it or should expand into this elaborate visualization? I enjoy visualizing but I'm never quite sure how much would be better for me to visualize. I try to avoid thinking to much about this person being the one whos going to make my life better because that's what makes me nervous when I get face-to-face with guys. I want to be able to just have fun and enjoy myself when I'm around them.