Welcome, Guest. Please login or register.
collapse

* Project TransformZ

Great News!

We are very close to Launch "Project TransformZ".

It will not be a Public Launch in the beginning but for only Project Team Members.

We are looking for Passionate Members as Team , so if you want to be a Part of the Project Please Refer to below Link.

Click Here!!!  


Author Topic: question  (Read 1297 times)

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

Offline goosedown

  • Newbie
  • *
  • Thank You
  • -Given: 0
  • -Receive: 0
  • Posts: 8
  • Karma: 0
  • Welcome To the Wonderful World of Power Law of Attraction!
    • View Profile
question
« on: March 22, 2010, 07:06:41 PM »
Hello all, I'm new to this forum.

As I read on some websites, they say that you cannot control other's mind. Everyone has his/her free will. But here I read that if you truly love someone, that person will love you back. Then what if in his free will, he does not want to be with me? What if he's not the vibrational match? Can true love change that?

LOA states that "like attracts like". But a lot of times, I observe that opposite things attract each other. For example, magnetic poles unlikes attract. Likes repel. People also tend to find what they lack in their mates. How can you explain those contradictions?


Offline TeletubbieJellyPie

  • Growing
  • *
  • Thank You
  • -Given: 0
  • -Receive: 0
  • Posts: 39
  • Karma: -1
    • View Profile
Re: question
« Reply #1 on: March 22, 2010, 08:22:14 PM »
Honestly, very honestly, I think that people can control others' minds. Even unconsciously, we always have a certain amount of influence over the thoughts and decisions of those we interact with.

I also think that there is a substantial amount of "control", otherwise there would not exist techniques such as subliminal advertising, but even normal advertising and marketing strategies are designed to influence others' mind.
How to make a product more attractive? How to make people more likely to buy it?
etc.

I think the same happens among human beings. What makes children obey their parents, what makes them decide to rebel themselves? There are always influences which we can control.

In the realm of relationships, people use "seduction techniques" to advertise their body and persuade others to have sex with them.

Free will means being able to choose between different options, and it does exist. But it is absolutely foolish to believe that nobody can distort the appeal of each option - or even mask it - in order to influence a persons' choice.
For instance, a loose woman with bad morals could act like a saint, participate in charities and dress conservatively in order to attract wealthy males... If a man who is attracted by altruistic women had to choose between her and an honest but non-advertising woman, obviously the man would go for the deceptive woman.

However, I don't think LOA's main function is to influence others - in principle.

Unlike marketing, seduction, advertising and brainwashing, I think LOA is about transforming oneself from the INSIDE in a way that someone will like you.
However, also I do not understand whether this necessarily means that the specific person you like will like you the way you are INSIDE.
« Last Edit: March 22, 2010, 08:29:11 PM by TeletubbieJellyPie »

Offline goosedown

  • Newbie
  • *
  • Thank You
  • -Given: 0
  • -Receive: 0
  • Posts: 8
  • Karma: 0
  • Welcome To the Wonderful World of Power Law of Attraction!
    • View Profile
Re: question
« Reply #2 on: March 22, 2010, 09:23:43 PM »
I agree that you can influence people's minds by using some seducing techniques.
But I think you have a chance to succeed if they haven't made up their minds on it yet.
If they have decided they want the opposite and apply LOA consciously or unconsciously, how will the universe react to two opposite thoughts?

Offline TeletubbieJellyPie

  • Growing
  • *
  • Thank You
  • -Given: 0
  • -Receive: 0
  • Posts: 39
  • Karma: -1
    • View Profile
Re: question
« Reply #3 on: March 22, 2010, 10:27:45 PM »
I agree that you can influence people's minds by using some seducing techniques.
But I think you have a chance to succeed if they haven't made up their minds on it yet.
If they have decided they want the opposite and apply LOA consciously or unconsciously, how will the universe react to two opposite thoughts?

I would also like to know the answer and hope the LOA experts can provide us with some insight :)

However, I really do think (and hope) that LOA has nothing to do with seduction techniques, as they are truly manipulative and unfriendly. I used to apply the knowledge of "Pick up artists" and they did work very well in getting women into bed.
But that was all. Nothing to do with friendship or love.
I decided to abandon everything about seduction when I realized I want a lasting, eternal relationship, based on friendship and love.

Offline bweston

  • Newbie
  • *
  • Thank You
  • -Given: 0
  • -Receive: 0
  • Posts: 6
  • Karma: 1
    • View Profile
Re: question
« Reply #4 on: March 22, 2010, 11:36:51 PM »
There are so many common phrases out there such "like attracts like" and "opposites attract". In the case of the law of attraction, I've found that if you have the desire for a certain feeling i.e. trust, comfort, excitement, security, then you will attract more experiences, people, resources, etc. that match those feelings. If you imagine a great experience you had with a girl one night and use the law of attraction to attract more of that, you may get that girl again or you may get someone else. Either way, you will get the feeling you got from that experience.

So you are not manipulating any one person. You are bringing the person that matches your feelings/internal state.

Offline TeletubbieJellyPie

  • Growing
  • *
  • Thank You
  • -Given: 0
  • -Receive: 0
  • Posts: 39
  • Karma: -1
    • View Profile
Re: question
« Reply #5 on: March 23, 2010, 12:02:13 AM »
So you are not manipulating any one person. You are bringing the person that matches your feelings/internal state.

My initial experience with LOA was that it helped me figure out HOW TO match the feelings and internal state of the person I wanted. It brought me closer, and closer, and closer... until I started negative thinking again  :-X

Offline goosedown

  • Newbie
  • *
  • Thank You
  • -Given: 0
  • -Receive: 0
  • Posts: 8
  • Karma: 0
  • Welcome To the Wonderful World of Power Law of Attraction!
    • View Profile
Re: question
« Reply #6 on: March 23, 2010, 09:02:48 AM »
It's really hard to get rid of those negative feelings.
But since I learned LOA stuff (just about one week ago), I feel a lot better.
I was just jealous and desperate before, maybe somewhat manipulative.
As I become more forgiving and less desperate, I find it's easier to deal with the negative feelings. They come from the fear that we might lose something. I'm relaxed and less worried because I just wish the person I love all the best.

My initial experience with LOA was that it helped me figure out HOW TO match the feelings and internal state of the person I wanted. It brought me closer, and closer, and closer... until I started negative thinking again  :-X
[/quote]

Offline goosedown

  • Newbie
  • *
  • Thank You
  • -Given: 0
  • -Receive: 0
  • Posts: 8
  • Karma: 0
  • Welcome To the Wonderful World of Power Law of Attraction!
    • View Profile
Re: question
« Reply #7 on: March 23, 2010, 09:13:58 AM »
I also believe that LOA is a very positive thing. If I apply it in a correct way, is it possible to create love in a specific person's heart?
If the person is not a vibrational match, is LOA still helpful?
Why is that too often the attraction is one-sided? :(


There are so many common phrases out there such "like attracts like" and "opposites attract". In the case of the law of attraction, I've found that if you have the desire for a certain feeling i.e. trust, comfort, excitement, security, then you will attract more experiences, people, resources, etc. that match those feelings. If you imagine a great experience you had with a girl one night and use the law of attraction to attract more of that, you may get that girl again or you may get someone else. Either way, you will get the feeling you got from that experience.

So you are not manipulating any one person. You are bringing the person that matches your feelings/internal state.

Offline bweston

  • Newbie
  • *
  • Thank You
  • -Given: 0
  • -Receive: 0
  • Posts: 6
  • Karma: 1
    • View Profile
Re: question
« Reply #8 on: March 23, 2010, 08:18:48 PM »
RE: goosedown
LOA will give you the vibrational match to your intention. If you're intending a certain kind of relationship then LOA will give you exactly what you truly want!

You may consciously want a certain person but that person may not be a match for you. The only way I personally can tell whether a person is a match for me is if when I take action to pursue her, the experiences are enjoyable- albeit a little scary! I think this makes LOA extremely useful. You get the person you ARE a match for, not who you may think is.

RE: TeletubbieJellyPie
Yeah, getting rid of negative beliefs and feelings is 80% of the battle and the most difficult part. LOA will give you what you desire, if you are clear of negative and limiting beliefs. Here are my favorite resources:
1) EFT. This is one of the strangest but most effective techniques I have found. There's a free manual on it at emofree.com
2) Think of bad experiences that are holding you back. No "re-write" them in your head or on paper. Your brain can't tell the difference between what's real and what's not so give it a good memory. Take out all of the bad parts and re-write it to make it the best possible one.
3) Talk to a friend, especially one of the opposite sex, you trust about what you consider to be your character flaws that prevent you from attracting the kind of person you’ve always imagined. Saying it aloud and having someone contradict it goes a long way. To make the session even more effective, talk about your earliest memory in which this character flaw was an issue.

Other resources:
"The Work" by Byron Katie
The Lefkoe method. I think there is a free resource on it online
Re-evaluation co-counseling

The common thing amongst all these methods is knowing that YOU decide whether you want to keep those beliefs and feelings or not. The belief is just a thought you've reinforced to yourself over and over again. You can choose to release that belief. The resources I gave are meant to help you release the belief. If you want more help, please please feel free to message me. This is something I've spent a lot of time on and would love to be able to help you out with it.

Offline dawn

  • Growing
  • *
  • Thank You
  • -Given: 0
  • -Receive: 2
  • Posts: 15
  • Karma: 3
    • View Profile
Re: question
« Reply #9 on: March 24, 2010, 04:50:57 AM »
All this is so confusing....
I've been trying to apply LOA for about a month now to get my ex fiance back...we've been going back and forth for 2 years...and I was very very positive, happy and confident and almost felt like we were really back together...until a couple of days ago he told a mutual friend (I guess so he could inform me) that he's getting engaged with another girl (from abroad!)....and I was just so confused how this could come about at the time when I've been applying LOA...
At the same time, every guy that has come into my life is no where near what I'm looking for....and each time I feel more inclined to apply LOA to my ex since he was every thing that I was looking for (his character etc)....Not sure what to do now...should i stop applying LOA to him? or should i keep my hopes up?

Offline bweston

  • Newbie
  • *
  • Thank You
  • -Given: 0
  • -Receive: 0
  • Posts: 6
  • Karma: 1
    • View Profile
Re: question
« Reply #10 on: March 24, 2010, 09:09:57 AM »
Hey Dawn,

Sorry to hear about your ex. What sort of things are you looking for in your relationship? What specific feelings and kind of experiences do you want to have? Use those as your starting point for LOA and visualization.

My personal advice would be to focus on visualizing the kind of experiences and feelings you want, as opposed to a specific person. Perhaps you will attract your ex back or perhaps you'll attract someone better! Either way, visualize your ideal and know that you can have it, because you will!

Feel free to pm me if you want more specific advice or help. I would love to be able to help.

Tags:
 

Related Topics

  Subject / Started by Replies Last post
2 Replies
1027 Views
Last post March 25, 2012, 07:14:32 PM
by Marianna9351
1 Replies
747 Views
Last post February 02, 2010, 01:30:12 AM
by kristensmith
1 Replies
324 Views
Last post March 24, 2010, 06:40:21 PM
by Andrew Wilkie
3 Replies
459 Views
Last post April 13, 2010, 10:41:03 PM
by David V.


* Disclaimer

All information on the forum are members personal tips, suggestions, advise and experiences, forum administrator or Moderators can not be held liable for any damage/misuse arising from the information/education shared the forum. You take your own necessary responsibility for your own actions.

* Suggestions Please?


* You Can Chat Here!

Refresh History
  • Just For Saying HI...
  • Sneha: Congratulations to Ava !
    May 23, 2012, 04:32:13 PM
  • hainguyen99: I hope you read it and summarize for me Ms Beautiful :P
    May 23, 2012, 03:55:37 PM
  • Ms. Beautiful Smile: ya..i have to read it
    May 23, 2012, 03:49:37 PM
  • hainguyen99: Has anyone read the book named "Law of Success in sixteen lessons-Napoleon Hill"? :-s such a huge book, over 1000 pages
    May 23, 2012, 03:40:36 PM
  • A and I ARE True LOVE :): THANK YOU Sneha
    May 23, 2012, 10:13:29 AM
  • A and I ARE True LOVE :): All the best irishgirl... You WILL manifest your desire :)
    May 23, 2012, 10:12:20 AM
  • irishgirl69: Job interview tomorrow.  I don't really want to work downtown (long commute for me) but I'm hoping for an offer that I can leverage with my current company.
    May 23, 2012, 09:53:34 AM
  • xcfastdude14: Wow LOA really does work. Just have to keep faith in it. Its so funny when I'll be thinking of something, and then someone else will bring it up to me. Like today I had a craving for pineapple, and someone went up to me and told me that they wanted some pineapple, almost like they read my mind haha.
    May 23, 2012, 08:51:52 AM
  • Mariposa, (KnJ): Hi, There seems to be some confusion.  The INTENTION GROUP is for ANY AND ALL intentions, it is NOT limited to just relationship intentions.  Please keep posting your intentions so we can help your dreams come true.  :)
    May 23, 2012, 01:44:52 AM
  • Stefzilla: Super happy today, LOA works !!
    May 22, 2012, 08:01:49 PM
  • asotrab: How can I achieve what i want? please send me something to do it right
    May 22, 2012, 07:42:43 PM
  • Sneha: Congrats to ILuvme and A and I ARE True LOVE :) for their successes.So happy for you both!
    May 22, 2012, 10:12:06 AM
  • asotrab: thanks god that there's people in the world like all of you! thanks for your support! thanks for watch my video and thanks for help to make this dream true! xx
    May 22, 2012, 04:40:17 AM
  • asotrab: I've just posted for make my dream come try
    May 21, 2012, 11:40:40 PM
  • asotrab: I need all your help
    May 21, 2012, 11:40:11 PM
  • asotrab: HIII
    May 21, 2012, 11:39:52 PM
  • asotrab: hello evryone
    May 21, 2012, 11:39:23 PM
  • hainguyen99: I love you
    May 21, 2012, 12:09:23 PM
  • xcfastdude14: Hey everyone! Hope you're doing great! =D
    May 21, 2012, 08:37:07 AM
  • hainguyen99: thank you Tracey : x
    May 19, 2012, 04:34:23 PM
  • truelove: Great advice Hai! :)
    May 19, 2012, 01:08:31 PM
  • hainguyen99: don't let your pride make your lover be miserable. People want to love and be loved. If you love one and want to contact, do it immediately ;) and feel satisfied for that change.
    May 19, 2012, 10:15:05 AM
  • Ankur Sancheti: @All: We have removed the other Chat Box. It was used for other than what it was there for.
    May 19, 2012, 09:30:47 AM
  • hainguyen99: Aloha :D
    May 18, 2012, 08:23:50 PM
  • luckall4u: hello!! anybody here
    May 18, 2012, 06:59:27 PM
  • angel_star: thank you very much Grateful Sunshine :)..love you!  <3
    May 18, 2012, 05:07:59 PM
  • Grateful Sunshine :): Angel_star..ur welcome :):) anytime for you and you know that :)
    May 18, 2012, 11:10:33 AM
  • angel_star: Thank you so very much Hai :):)
    May 18, 2012, 01:44:39 AM
  • hainguyen99: welcome back my angel_star @};-- :-*
    May 18, 2012, 12:47:15 AM
  • angel_star: Hey all :) I am so sorry for being away for so long! I had a very bad patch in life for a while now. But I am back, this time permanently! I can't let anything keep me away from my family here ;) Thanks so much Bal for helping me come out of my negativity! I owe you a lot. Now it begins, my replies to each one of your PMs, my participation in discussions and my new posts! Back in full form now :) Love you all!
    May 18, 2012, 12:05:13 AM

       Registration


Back to top
SimplePortal 2.3.3 © 2008-2010, SimplePortal