Question for everyone =/

[simplyjess]

Here's a question I've been pondering over for the past week:

Some say that if it's "meant to be", that person will come back no matter what, so we should just ask for our desired relationship, and for the specific person. On the other hand, there's the belief that you can get anything, anyone you want by having faith that your desires will come to you.

Growing up people just tell me if it's meant to be, he'll come back. If not, it was never meant to be. Then my belief started to change after discovering the LOA and the Secret...because I really want to believe that my love and I will reunite. But it just seems like there are so many points of view that is confusing to me...I am so lost right now...because everything seemed to be going in the right direction and then I started doubting whether it was "correct" after reading other points of view. =/

What do you all think, (about the different takes and also about dating other people while you are trying to attract a certain person back)?

Thanks!

[def]

I think dating and loving another is fine. Because you are love. Sometimes being with someone else gives them the time to realize they want you and that it has always been you that they have wanted. I think it comes down to the where's why's and how's of the universe so as long as you are still moving you can always have what you want the universe doesn't believe in time only we as humans do. I hope I helped.

[simplyjess]

def: thanks so much for your quick reply! it makes a lot of sense, and definitely you helped! just to clarify what you said about the "where's, why's and how's"...do you mean that those are the universe's concern while our concern is the "what's or who's"?

Thanks again! =)

[def]

Yes exactly. Like I had been feeling like I had to message my specific person. I hadn't talked to him for 2 months but I was full of doubt because we are told to let them come back. Let them realize. Well I felt it even more and when I knew the time was right I did just that. Just a couple of minutes ago and I feel fantastic. I also got a shiver down my spine which I believe was him reading it and I feel great peace and elation. I think we have to remember that inspired action means anything that feels right to us. It also gave me more relization of other things I want and some other actions I can take to get other things. The answers to things are flowing more freely. Though I am still learning.

[Shockwave]

Hi Kaori,

I think that relaxation is the key here. Everybody has different views and doubts in life, but its important that you don't let them dominate you. Keep a vision of the end result in mind and then let go of attachment. that's when things will start to happen