Question

[inara]

How would you feel if your ex came back today. (as they are now) and asked you to marry him/her?

What would your reaction be? Would you accept the proposal?

[judasentinel]

Inara, you are too good and I think I know where you are going with it.....
 
....smart cookie.
 
Let's see who says what.

[lise]

Yes, without a shadow of a doubt. No hesitation, no doubt. 100% yes.

[57angel]

After the separation with my ex, I realized that he doesnt have all the qualities I am looking for in man. If the separation made him a better me in as much as it made me a better and happier me, then i will say YES:-)

[loveofabundance]

Why ask this question?  You know that you're suggesting a fairy tale.  But, in answer to your fairy tale question, yes.  If Chris walked through my door asking me to marry him, I would say yes. 
 
Mind you, I've turned down seven proposals so I'm not some wedding happy fool.  Chris is the only man that I feel drawn to in that way.
 
Why do you ask this question?
 
And more importantly my friend, who i was just thinking about btw, if someone tries to kill you; you try to kill 'em right back!
 
Peace, Love and Xingfu,
 
LofA

[judasentinel]

Yes.....if she has gotten better for her own good.

Inara, do you believe in the Law of Attraction?

[Magdog, MD, Mr. Best Luck]

I would marry her most definitely. 

[Timesquarelights29]

yes.

I lost him once. I can't imagine my life without him.

[Mergirl]

I would say YES too. We had discussed marriage many times before the BU and jokingly he had asked many times to marry him. This time around I would leave everything behind to make it work. No doubt about it.

[bravelioness]

Of course I'd gladly marry him & have a happy family with him.I want us to start a new & better romantic relationship.We lost each other once.It's time that we have each other back & this time for good!

[Thumbelina :)]

ONLY only and only if i get the respect and dignity i deserve.. and he's a changed man.. then, defiantly yes!!   

[inara]

There were a few reasons for asking this question:

1.Do you really believe they will come back? If you question their return, you need to address your doubts, .
2. Do you want them back as they are or the way the current situation is? If not, focus on what you do want.
3. Are you ready to receive? Most of us our more afraid of success than failure.

[LeyLine]

1) yes

2) sure i want him like he is. Im not trying to turn the man into a Transformer. Spirituality and LOA are meant to change oneself for the better, not other ppl. You simply cant focus on changing anyone else except yourself. However, ive noticed that when i started to change, he started to change too, like a mirror reflecting a different image. Me and my ex...we used to fight all the time, for the most unimportant reasons. It was a control thing. Since i started applying LOA and the principles of spirituality in general, ive noticed a HUGE change in me...and he has followed. We havent fought in 2 months He tried to pick a fight once or twice (thats his drama control), but i didnt give in. I told him *fighting with you seems like an unholy thing to me..so maybe we should stop talking now, and talk again under different circumastances* The result was that he apologized to me . After all, ppl do only what u expect them to do..

3) You bet im ready to receive!

As for your marriage question....marriage is a very serious issue, and i cant think of it right now. Ill think about it when the time comes.

Peace

[judasentinel]

1. Is it possible for a person not have a belief about something at all? I am confused about whether I believe she will come back or I dont. I actually have a belief that right now, I dont have a belief that she wont or that she will. Its kind of a laissez faire for now. All that is needed is a slight SHIFT and then I will believe one way or the other.

2. One of the things that I desire in my partner is that she be free of addictions to alcohol and drugs. I am proud to say that she has achieved it (can we please have a round of applause and appreciation for my Bella?). I also agree with euphrosyne here that I have a LOT to learn and improve in myself. And so change in me has to happen before I expect anyone else to change. Besides, I think it is also valid that her state and behavior towards me are quite reflective of my own state and behavior towards myself. Since I am constantly evolving, I believe she is too, and for the better. Personally, I am staying away from putting certain conditions, while knowing that when we are perfectly aligned, we come together. I think, Inara, that on some profound level, our desire for a specific person has something to do with either their desire FOR us, or a very strong focus on NOT wanting us (so they are getting what they are putting out). Granted, I am not giving up on her out of my own choice, but maybe that is just as illusory as our exes' thinking that when they come back, they did so out of their own volition without influence.

3. Oh yes I am. I am standing there with my arms wide open.

[UpnDown]

Heck Yes!!!I would be doing flips and cartwheels. I would know he still has some things inside of him that I wouldn't like but at least this would show me he's for real and I wouldn't be so jealous because I would know I'm the one he wants to be with. So yes I would accept and be dang proud of it. 



That question made me happy!!!!!