Please help me! Please ! I feel like killing myself!

[last queen]

hai..This is about getting back with my ex of three and a half years.He was wonderful and it was an amazing experience for me. I do believe that we are meant for each other and we are soul mates and all that.I just have this gut feeling.All was good and one day BAMM ! nothing was left of it. I know i am partly responsible for this. I realise my mistake and repent them and have also corrected them.

Now i know many people have successfully reunited with their ex using this amazing technique. Now in my situation i ve just recently discovered that my boyfriend is with this other girl.I do not know how serious he is about her.I think it is pretty serious. I am not sure. This news has broken me to pieces. I keep thinking of ending my life. I love him so very much.  I jus feel like we were destined to be together.

Now my actual question is can i use LOA to get back with him even though he is with someone else. I am sure only of one thing that i love him like crazy and will do so all my life. I also feel am the right girl for him. Please tell me if its possible and also how. I really feel like dying when i think of the other girl.Please please tell me how to go about this. Please

[last queen]

i jus feel like ending my life!

[lovely]

Love urself...if u dnt lov urself n thinkng of finishing ur life,how can u attract all the good things in life???

          Love is the base of LOA..if u dnt lov urself,u cant lov others..u jst want them to lov u bcoz u dnt feel good otherwise..itz nt d way,i guess..lov urself....just now write down all d good qualities in u n appreciate urself...feel tht u r complete widout him even..when u feel good abt urself,ppl will also feel good abt u..

[last queen]

hai lovely thank you so much. That made me feel bettr. Yes i will try to implement whatever you ve said. I just want to clarify if Loa will start help me in getting him back considering he is with someone else right now ?

[lovely]

My pleasure dear..n it will work even if he is wid some1 else..may be ths new relationship wil mk him realise tht u r d only one for him....well,do some prayer..pray so tht u can hav ur lov back n at d same time,pray 4 ths gal who is wid ur bf right now..pray so tht she finds her happiness in some1 else

             well,d key idea is think good abt everyone including urself..think abt u n ur bf..in case,the gal pops up in ur thot,send some good vibration of lov to her as well!!!

             n never ever forget to lov urself...

             well,i wnt to ask u something!!!do u wnt lov or ur bf??wht if some1 else comes into ur life n loves u much more than ur ex-bf??wht do u exactly wnt to attract??lov or one of d source of lov??

[Ginny]

If you are meant to be together, if you are soul mates and you believe in destiny and all that, then you will be together. There is no need to worry, or do anything. So stop fretting and get on with enjoying other aspects of your life. There is much more to appreciate and get joy from in this life than the love of a single person.

I think possibly the reason you are so despairing is that there is some part of you that does not believe that you and this other person are meant for each other. You want him, but you are afraid on some level that you do not deserve him, or that he will otherwise slip through your fingers.

If it is meant to be, it will be. If it is not, then all the worrying and agonising in the world will not change that. So, either way, there is no point to being unhappy over this situation. Keep your mind open and believe that you are worthy of the love (and everything else) that you want, and it will come to you - whether from this person, or someone else you may not have met yet.

[last queen]

hey lovely thank you so much your making me feel so much better.

I wish you all the very best in life and i hope you get whatever it is and much much more ....cheers !

yea i want 2 attract him back and the love he had for me.Because my problem is even if i come across someone who mite love me more than he did,i dont think i can love back that person the same way i love him. I dunno how to put it. I mean i d planned my whole life with this guy, in the initial days itself i knew it was him or nobody else for me. thats why i feel so devastated ! it hurts 2 know about the new gal too !

[last queen]

hai ginny thank you so much ! yes your right i should believe only what i know. I know that i love him and deserve him and we are meant to be. my belief is jus a lil shaken now coz of this other gal !

[last queen]

i also wanted to know this. my guy is with this other girl right? so when i practice this whole letting go and visualization and positive thinking etc and start being happy how will he come to realize this? I mean how would the universe let him know that he should come back to me . How will this whole breakthrough of him her and coming back happen ? how does this actually work on the other side ?

[lovely]

Thanks honey for so much lov ..

well,
       "The universe will start rearranging itself to make it happen for u"..

      u dnt hav think abt how!!jst focus on d end result..feel loved..
      "The hows r d domain of d universe.It always knws d shortest,quickest,fastest,most harmonious way between u n ur dream"

         n remember another thing,being happy is nt abt showing tht u r happy..itz all abt d inner feelings..its all abt feeling happy n loved n relaxed inside..n ths happiness wil attract more happiness n lov in ur life..it can be explained in two ways

       1.the inner positive feelings of ur subconscious mind will affect others as well..bcoz,we all r connected at d subconscious level..

       2.if u send happy signal to d universe,universe wil attract more happiness 4 u

                                                    with lots of love
                                                                  lovely

[Iron Ur]

The woman I learned LOA from was in this similar situation.

her b/f of 5 years just didn't loive her anymore and left for another girl. and so did her good friends's husband have a affair wit ha woman at work.

both of them brought their focus OFF the other person and put it on simply the thoguhts and feeling of being with their beloves.

hear is what happened wit hboth of them in time. the woman who tought me, he beloved asked her out to a movie. and her freind's husband, after a few months he came home early and asked her if she wanted to go to a movie and then told her "the other girl, i forgot about her, she is gone"

[vageesha]

PLZdont worry honey! we all have been in that very situation trust me i drank so many kinds of pills to kill myself but none of it did so i had to live and then LOA came to me LOA come to us for a reason thats what i belive so far its becouse we can correct it! and God is giving us a chance to do so.. we are very lucky to hav found LOA just think bout how many more ppl must be out there dying cuz of love? depressed? sad? and a complete disaster? cuz they dont know LOA yes!!! so think bout it here * Everyhting is possible no matter what form it has taken as long as ur willing to change it for the better* =D

[lovely]

Iron Ur,d life-stories were really inspiring..thanks..

              Vegeesha,i also believe tht we r much more luckier than others bcoz we knw LOA

                       
                                                         wid lov
                                                               lovely

[Ginny]

         n remember another thing,being happy is nt abt showing tht u r happy..itz all abt d inner feelings..

I think this is SO important - and a lot of people don't get this point. I don't know if they knew about LOA, but my family were always pushing the message that you had to be happy. But for them, it was all about acting happy, showing that you were happy and grateful, rather than actually feeling it (' You aren't happy? I'll give you something to be unhappy about!')

Don't act or be untrue to yourself, just keep trying different directions for your thoughts until you find the ones that make you feel good inside

[lovely]

Thanks Ginny for appreciating my quote ..