Author Topic: physical attraction (Read 1424 times)

dreamland · « **on:** June 26, 2012, 12:42:15 AM »

Hey guys!

I am new to the forum but I have been reading you all for awhile and I think you are great supportive community, so I decided to join you!

I already learned a lot from all your experiences but I wonder about one topic particularly and I am not sure I know the right answer, so here you jump in!

I would be very grateful if you could give me some advice/perspective... other point of view...

Ok, here is the question!

Do you think that you can create physical attraction someone toward you and you toward someone by law of attraction?
My logic says that you can't.
But everything I know about loa says that EVERYTHING is possible....

But how would you do it? What steps would you guys take?
How would you pretend it is already there with a particular person?

I would really appreciate all of your answers... thank you very much!

dreamland · « **Reply #1 on:** June 27, 2012, 01:26:16 AM »

Anyone?

Coquette · « **Reply #2 on:** June 27, 2012, 04:13:05 AM »

You can create physical attraction in general, not just from one person. Simply affirm "I am physical attraction" or "I am physically attractive"

glee619 · « **Reply #3 on:** June 27, 2012, 04:15:01 AM »

I absolutly believe that you can attract someone using the LoA.
I read someone say this on the forum and it make perfect sense to me...but they stated that if you are set on attracting a certain someone then in some way its because they are subconsiously "attracting" you. (this was more geared towards ex's).
The first thing that you have to do is believe from the depth of your soul that you can manifest a relationship with this person. If there are any doubts then it will just put up resistance around your intent.
then do what a lot of people here on the forum do to attract a certain person. RS (Remote Seduction), Binural Beats, EFT, Telepathic Love Vibrations, Meditations, Switch Words/Energy Circles and most important giving Gratitude and loving life. :]

beautifulmesss12sc · « **Reply #4 on:** June 27, 2012, 04:36:29 AM »

Dreamland as far as how to act like its already there with another person ... all it is is make believe..pretend... and feel like it would feel if it was actually happening .. i can attest that this works .. it will make you smile for hours which will raise your vibration... and thats a good thing! and being grateful for all you have and be grateful for things you dont have have yet... EX: i am so happy and grateful that *** and i are in a happy loving fulfilling realtionship and we are happier than we ever thought possible. and FEEL IT!

dreamland · « **Reply #5 on:** June 27, 2012, 11:11:51 AM »

Thanks guys a lot!

I don't know what to do... I ''created'' my dream man when writing it down EVERYTHING about him and when the guy after few months showed up in my life it was scary how accurate everything was. I mean, I put some details just for the sake of fun and that was mind blowing....
The connection and understanding we have is simply amazing, beyond my imagination because I have NEVER had that with anyone.
Deep down I am scared that I won't find such a man again, not in all these details at least... because there aren't two persons who are the same...

But the physical attraction is simply mild on both sides and I don't know would it be forcing it to try to make it work or should I just ''pretend'' and create the relationship..

Thank you sooo, sooo much for your responses!

beautifulmesss12sc · « **Reply #6 on:** June 27, 2012, 05:42:06 PM »

No dont force it .. create it in your mind.. and it will come to you, send love , make believe.. imagine it as if it were real imagine a DEEP attraction between you

Marianna9351 · « **Reply #7 on:** July 04, 2012, 06:18:54 AM »

deamland....I tried 2 respond 2 ur email but ur inbox is full..

dreamland · « **Reply #8 on:** July 04, 2012, 08:51:58 AM »

Oh, so you got the message? I think I can't recieve messages, my inbox is empty, but I don't see the option recieved messages...

Omg, sorry for bothering you... if you have time and will you can shortly respond here... I don't mind... sorrry once again, I am so embarrassed now, I was in a terrible place yesterday...

Marianna9351 · « **Reply #9 on:** July 04, 2012, 11:29:42 AM »

hey dreamland,
u were not bothering me at all. I am happy 2 respond. I would rather send the message to u privately. It is kinda long and detailed. Perhaps u could email Ankur to help rectify the email situation or if u feel comfortable with sending me ur email address via personal message......
(HUGS)

jtut21 · « **Reply #10 on:** July 04, 2012, 11:39:56 AM »

You can certainly influence someone being physically attracted to you. However, getting detailed about exactly who that is violates the law because you cannot control another person with the law of attraction. Start by getting detailed about what you want to experience when someone is physically attracted to you. For example how would it feel to have someone giving you that kind of attention? What happens as a result of this physical attraction that this person has toward you. When you get detailed about what you want it sends a message to the Universe that you have placed and order and it is time to start bringing this into your life. Getting detailed about exactly who it is that has the physical attraction toward you can create doubt and takes away the freedom of choice that person has which violates law.

Hope this helps,

Josh
Get Your Ex Back www.romance-beacon.com

dreamland · « **Reply #11 on:** July 04, 2012, 04:34:16 PM »

Marianna, I sent to you my email adress!

Josh, thanks a lot! I was kinda feeling that was the case...
I mean, in my case it is about a specific person and physical attraction would have to be created on both sides, actually.
It is there, but it is mild, we are not each other's ideal partners by physical features.
I know how ridiculous this might sound, it sounds to me like that when I read it now (why would you go for someone you are not attracted to enough??), but in my whole life I have never felt such a connection with someone and it is extremely hard to let that go. It is the same on his part.
I am afraid I won't find sth like that again and I am more than aware that it is a bad idea to work with loa coming from a place of fear.
I guess I want to find out where did I go wrong when manifesting this person, I did visualize us being together and being crazy for each other, but only that part didn't manifest.

tereza · « **Reply #12 on:** July 06, 2012, 03:57:09 AM »

Quote from: jtut21 on July 04, 2012, 11:39:56 AM

You can certainly influence someone being physically attracted to you. However, getting detailed about exactly who that is violates the law because you cannot control another person with the law of attraction.

Huh? I work with a lot of guys. I wear my hair straight for one week, I get the attention of a certain set of guys. I wear my hair curly, it's a different set of guys. I dress a certain way, I get hit on by a certain group of guys. Dress a different way, I get hit on by a different group. I can do all of that without using the law of attraction. So shouldn't it be easier to use the LoA to attract a specific person then?

Quote from: dreamland on July 04, 2012, 04:34:16 PM

I mean, in my case it is about a specific person and physical attraction would have to be created on both sides, actually.
It is there, but it is mild, we are not each other's ideal partners by physical features.

Ok, I think your problem is that your making this physical attraction thing to be bigger than it needs to be. If who he is as a person is what you love, then focus on that. He'll grow more attractive to you every day and the same will happen for him. Also, my first boyfriend was fugly, but when I focused on the things I liked about him, he grew attractive to me. Unfortunately, he was very insecure and that caused a lot of problems and made him even less attractive.

57angel · « **Reply #13 on:** July 06, 2012, 11:36:59 AM »

Dreamland, the moment I fall in love with myself, everything about me, it is when that I noticed that men noticed me with compliments like beautiful and sexy. Of course, it took me a while to do my affirmations, my gratitude, my Sedona, meditation, Subliminal Blaster to let "I am noticeably and incredibly beautiful. I am noticeably sexy" sink in my subconscious mind

Now, even though I am at home and wear clothes like a rug, everyone else around me still think that I am beautiful. If we truly believe from within that we are attractive, everyone else can not disagree any less

dreamland · « **Reply #14 on:** July 06, 2012, 07:33:16 PM »

Awwww.... guys thank you so much for your responses, you are so kind and supportive it's incredible! I LOVE this place and energy around it...

I know now that problem lies in me actually... and I will work on it...
I mean, there were many guys that wanted to date me and found me cute but I do have some insecurities with my looks, I know it all comes from within and all, and I know I am cute but I guess I deep down have a belief that no one could REALLY fall in love with me if I didn't look EXTREMELY beautiful and perfect... I realized that few days ago... sad but true...
His ex girlfriends looked like models and I don't, so maybe that had affect on me too...

I decided to let go of this guy although it is kinda hard because I know I manifested him and we have great connection... but I also have self esteem, I won't try to MAKE someone fall in love with me and force things...
I decided I will work on myself, clean my limiting beliefs, get into the vortex and manifest another guy...

I do subliminal, gratitude, ordinary affirmations, binaural beats and eft... will look for Sedona method

I noticed that Abraham Hichks videos on youtube do wonders for me!

I even considered doing a remote seduction but I don't want to control him and when I think of that it just makes me feel bad...
I deserve that someone falls in love with me naturally and effortlessly, I don't want to run after someone.. it just feels bad to me... I wanna be someone's number one and not just a person they settled for...
I think it hurts my ''failure'', this was my biggest manifestation ever when thinking in details and everything seemed so perfect but this one part didn't manifest... so I did sth wrong... I would just like to know what exactly...

As some of you said, the key is in me, I have to fall in love with myself first... it does sound hard, lol, but I will keep trying...

The last couple of days were kinda hard but I know I have to let this go and start all over again...

I still think mostly of him and us but I read a lot of materials to distract myself...

Thank you so much for your responses, they mean a world to me! They really do, you are all great people and I wish you manifest all your deepest desires!