No contact, your opinion

[lilly]

Hello everyone,

So after a bad argument me and my guy have fell out of touch and have been on no contact for a few months now and he has decided to get back with his ex in the meantime, to sum up things.
I have been trying to stay positive and apply loa for a reconcilliation first because I believe that's the first step to take..
So far I've seen no progress until yesterday, as for some reason he has not removed me from social networks including facebook..he changed his cover picture to a picture he took during his holidays with me in my country so i feel it is kind of symbolic. But still he is still currently with the ex and they seem to be on good terms, even though nothing is official on facebook so I don't know what to think of the whole thing..

It has been months now and i haven't seen much progress towards reconcilliation, do you guys think this could be a sign that he misses me in some way. I've never used loa in case of no contact and so it kinds of feels hopeless..

Any advice will be appreciated, thank you!

[Free bird]

Hey Lily,

No contact is for u to know whether he is the one for u or not..........and even if he is then Let go is an equally important step as much as staying positive is caus e when u let go u r telling the universe that u trust universe completely...........and even if the universe does not respond, then it is clearly telling u, right now is not the time for u to be with him..........that more work needs to be done on urself............u have many things to learn, u have to learn to be more open, u have to learn to stop looking for signs, to have learn to be secure in our own space, learn to be happy with urself and most importantly love urself.......

And if u truly believe he is the one, then keep that faith with u and trust universe............u will get him

Hope that helps

Wish u best of LOA

[lilly]

Thank you Free bird..I do believe he is the one but because it is the first time we haven't talked for such a long period of time  which is already tough in itself and I've never used the loa in this situation i tend to doubt.
I've had many successes but every time doubts creeps in it comes to my mind: maybe in this situation loa won't work etc etc..It is just a matter of patience and trust I suppose, we left each other on very bad term and I have no idea how he feels right now..i don't know why he would keep me on social networks or even put that picture up when he is clearly reconnecting with someone else..maybe I'm just reading too much into it haha..

But i agree with you on one thing in particular, if it is no manifesting it is because we are not ready yet to reconnect.

Hey Lily,

No contact is for u to know whether he is the one for u or not..........and even if he is then Let go is an equally important step as much as staying positive is caus e when u let go u r telling the universe that u trust universe completely...........and even if the universe does not respond, then it is clearly telling u, right now is not the time for u to be with him..........that more work needs to be done on urself............u have many things to learn, u have to learn to be more open, u have to learn to stop looking for signs, to have learn to be secure in our own space, learn to be happy with urself and most importantly love urself.......

And if u truly believe he is the one, then keep that faith with u and trust universe............u will get him

Hope that helps

Wish u best of LOA

[emilylb]

I feel like the "no contact" rule can only go so far but it does depend on the situation. You should fully let go though before you contact him, or you may just attract a negative response (this happend to me). Also make sure that if he responds negatively that you respond calmy. It really is all about how you handle it

Don't look for reasons why he shouldn't keep you on social networks, he did and that's all that matters Be thankful for that, and that you can still connect with him if you would like.

[beautifuldreamer]

No contact works if you are tying to detach from the person. Personally, I don't think it is a good idea to keep in contact with an ex if you want to get back together with them and they are with another person, because it is disrespectful to their relationship.

[jtut21]

Typically you will use no contact until your ex hints at wanting you back or you don’t want them back anymore. The universe has an infinite number of ways to manifest a happy relationship for you and I would think that anything that you see as a sign could be exactly that. Avoid getting caught up in the how's of getting back with your ex. Focus on being happy and grateful when you see things that are aligned with what you want in a relationship to put LOA into practice. Allow the infinite power of the universe to align circumstances, events and manifest your dream relationship by being clear with what you want and allowing it by not trying to figure out how it will manifest.

All the best,

Josh
Get Your Ex Back www.romance-beacon.com

[lilly]

I totally agree with you and it is because he decided to get back with his ex that I don't want to be in contact. He didn't want to part ways initially. the thing is we have been friends for many years before it got more serious between us, then last year he was supposed to move in with me but because of difficulties he just gave up. As to the ex, she's there and I'm not, that's the difference..it is just easier I guess.

He would probably answer if i made the first step but if I did our relationship wouldn't change for the best and so there is no point. I don't want to talk unless he is no longer with someone else because I share your views on this and he's done and said things I don't deem right either.

No contact works if you are tying to detach from the person. Personally, I don't think it is a good idea to keep in contact with an ex if you want to get back together with them and they are with another person, because it is disrespectful to their relationship.