Author Topic: Negative towards Current Guy (Read 392 times)

Inspired · « **on:** August 08, 2010, 02:21:42 AM »

I attracted my ex back in my life recently and now we're back together ( we were not together for about maybe 3 weeks). The thing is I had such positive feelings for him and I decided to keep in my mind that he was a good man and that he only wants me but I get extremely jealous sometimes and even over small things and have recently gotten into an argument with him and he thinks I am acting the same as an insecure girl. I wanted to know how can I remain positive and no matter what keep the thoughts in that he is a good man and try to build the relationship up because I keep making head way but then go back down accusing him of things and then we get into a huge fight.

Mr positive · « **Reply #1 on:** August 08, 2010, 03:02:22 AM »

It has to do with you! You need to realize that no one is better than you! You have to stay positive no matter what and dont think he is doing anything behind your back! People in general focus to much on the negatives which is not good at all and if you keep up your positive attitude nothing can go wrong with you guys! You need to keep focusing on you no matter what because the moment you stop focusing on you, you go right back to putting some one else on a pedastool and you never want that! Well good luck hope you guys keep strong!

Inspired · « **Reply #2 on:** August 08, 2010, 04:24:13 AM »

Quote from: Mr positive on August 08, 2010, 03:02:22 AM

It has to do with you! You need to realize that no one is better than you! You have to stay positive no matter what and dont think he is doing anything behind your back! People in general focus to much on the negatives which is not good at all and if you keep up your positive attitude nothing can go wrong with you guys! You need to keep focusing on you no matter what because the moment you stop focusing on you, you go right back to putting some one else on a pedastool and you never want that! Well good luck hope you guys keep strong!

This makes so much sense. I like the part about no one being better then me.

loveofabundance · « **Reply #3 on:** August 08, 2010, 09:56:42 PM »

The way you describe yourself in the first post is not favorable. So, in addition to valuing yourself, say some positive affirmations about yourself. You take the time to do it for your boyfriend so do it for yourself, too! Just as you affirm that he is a good man, also affirm that you are a good woman.