Need some advise please

[onlyhappiness]

Hi all ,

 I really need some advice ....
My Ex is also my horse shoer , he has done my horses feet for over 5 years now and they are due to be done in the next 2 weeks. I honestly don't know whether to call him or have some one else just do them. I guess this is the problem when you mix business eh?
 We have other than one balckberry messanger a few weeks ago when he was looking for something had no contact for a month now. To be honest i don't even know if i want to speak to him ( working on total forgiveness but not there yet ) Any advice would be appreciated though.

[onlyhappiness]

 Hey again..

 Okay i thought about it and decided that no i really don't want to contact him in anyway shape or form right now.. So thanks anyway lol but guess i will be scouting a new horse shoer .

[JustForToday]

Hey again..

 Okay i thought about it and decided that no i really don't want to contact him in anyway shape or form right now.. So thanks anyway lol but guess i will be scouting a new horse shoer .

i just keep it short---- i wouldnt contact him, it just feels not right and you decided already and its the best thing i am sure.... no contact

[onlyhappiness]

 Thanks...yes i am really finally ready i think to let go and let the past be the past. So onward to the beautiful future and whatever it may hold!! Whether it be him or someone else , in all honesty though just want to continue to work on me for awhile

[JustForToday]

yep and i think it would break the flow.... better is not to contact him anymore.
like ankur mentioned already in his bible on getting your ex back