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Need advice pleaseeee! to get ex husband back
« on: January 02, 2011, 04:42:07 PM »
hi all,
this is my first post and i am delighted that i have the opportunity to connect with people who can help me so i am thanking the universe for this.
Well i got introduced to the law of attraction last week after months of browsing the net for solutions, i read every self-help book on relationships, spoke to psychics...you name it, i did it. I want to get back with my husband who i have been with for 7 years. he has filed for divorce, we live in different countries and although i am sure he has filed but the divorce papers never reached me, they got lost in transition! weird but true. since the beginning i refused the divorce, i didnt want it, i kept arguing with him, begging him for a second chance. deep down in my heart i know we are not over, i know we are meant to be together! he insists that he doesnt love me, but i know he does! i know he is saying this because of the problems we have had recently. what is keeping me positive is this strong feeling inside of me that he does love me and that we are meant to be together. family and friends are not helping, they say that i am mad if i go back to him after he said he doesnt want me. but i know that he is a good person, i know his true self. i have been reading on loa and started implementing it. the positive thing is i dont feel the need to contact him as much as i use to, 1 week ago i would text him more than 10 times a day and it would just get him angry. he was the only thing i thought about. in the past week i texted him once only and saying i hope he is happy and doing well. i actually find it hard to text him, as if the universe is telling me not to!

i have created a vision board of things i want like material things and on it i have put a photo of us together and wrote an affirmation saying i have a loving, caring, flexible, generous husband. i dont know if it is the right way of doing it. i am basically focusing on his positives, i have completely forgiven him for the past, i know i have.

the problem is when i am awake i am in control of my thoughts but i cant explain the dreams whilst i am sleeping, last night i had a dream of us together, of him resisting, being angry and not wanting to see me.  i cant explain this! although i know i am not worried about anything but why am i dreaming this? and how can i control this.

bottom line is i am positive that things will work out, i am just wondering of i am doing this the right way and what about the dreams?

his focus is he doesnt want to be married, he wants a divorce, isnt that what he is going to get! we both want opposite things, how is it going to work then?

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Re: Need advice pleaseeee! to get ex husband back
« Reply #1 on: January 03, 2011, 07:43:47 AM »
Hi, I can relate as I had a husband leave quite a few years ago because he was confused.  I did not know about LOA or use the laws of the universe and we did not reunite.   I have had LOA help me with a more recent relationship and I know it can work.  You are on the right path with the visions and affirmations.   Keep working on you and sending love at the same time.  You have to follow your heart and not the advice of friends and family in these matters.  People do reunite with their spouses!  Keep reading stories and search here for a link to the bible for getting your ex back. 

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Re: Need advice pleaseeee! to get ex husband back
« Reply #3 on: January 03, 2011, 08:00:36 AM »
Get the Letting Go MP3, I promise I am not selling it, it will work wonders to clear you plus if you read the script it also has the correct affirmations to get your goal.

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« Reply #4 on: January 03, 2011, 08:28:47 AM »
MD,  I know you have posted the link in the past, but I do not remember where.....  Hope you are still having great discussions! ;D ;D ;D

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Re: Need advice pleaseeee! to get ex husband back
« Reply #5 on: January 04, 2011, 02:18:11 AM »
We helped a woman on this sight a few months ago.  Similar situation, her husband loved her but after years of her being sick and her final recovery, he was done.  Through positive affirmations and unwavering he returned to her.

The vision board is a great place to start. 

Your dreams are reflecting your fears, don't get caught up in that.

An exercise this woman also performed was creating a gratitude list.  Making a list of five things she is grateful for.  At then end of that list include the things you are grateful for as though they already exist.  For instance, "I am grateful for my good health""I am grateful for my home", etc.  Then add "I am grateful for {insert name}'s unconditional love""I am grateful for our healthy marriage""I am grateful my sense of peace""I am grateful for the ease of our relationship""I am grateful for the support of our friends and family" etc.  These are just examples.

Read the list each night aloud before bed inhaling and exhaling through your nose between each statement.  Then FORGET about EVERYTHING for the next 24 hours.  You WILL HAVE all that you desire.

Best of LOA!!  We are here to help.

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Re: Need advice pleaseeee! to get ex husband back
« Reply #6 on: January 04, 2011, 02:57:30 AM »
thanks alot for your advice! i appreciate it. do you advice me to cut contact with him all together!

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Re: Need advice pleaseeee! to get ex husband back
« Reply #7 on: January 04, 2011, 03:01:19 AM »
get the letting go mp3 it will help with the release and also your health, if that is an issue, stress causes most health problems. Send me your email, and I will send you the Sedona book for free, that goes for anyone.

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« Reply #8 on: January 04, 2011, 04:04:47 AM »
I think you may want to consider allowing him to make the next move in your communication.

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« Reply #9 on: January 05, 2011, 02:22:53 PM »
@kitten, it's possible that his focus isn't so much on wanting a divorce, as it is to ending the pain he perceives is caused by remaining in the marriage as it is currently.
 
If you sense that he's still in love with you, he is.  He's probably simply unhappy with the way things are currently.  it seems as if you feel that way, too.  Why not focus, not on fighting the divorce, but on building the marriage.  Envision a marriage in which both of your needs are met.  He'll come around!  He's searching for happiness right now.  He may rather be happy with someone else than unhappy with you but it's highly unlikely that, after seven years, he'd rather be happy with someone else when he could be happy with you, his beautiful wife.  I hope that makes sense.  simply put, focus on having a loving relationship with him and it will come.  I

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« Reply #10 on: January 06, 2011, 12:03:17 AM »
I completely agree with LoveOfAbundance.

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An exercise this woman also performed was creating a gratitude list.  Making a list of five things she is grateful for.  At then end of that list include the things you are grateful for as though they already exist.  For instance, "I am grateful for my good health""I am grateful for my home", etc.  Then add "I am grateful for {insert name}'s unconditional love""I am grateful for our healthy marriage""I am grateful my sense of peace""I am grateful for the ease of our relationship""I am grateful for the support of our friends and family" etc.  These are just examples.

Read the list each night aloud before bed inhaling and exhaling through your nose between each statement.  Then FORGET about EVERYTHING for the next 24 hours.  You WILL HAVE all that you desire.


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« Reply #12 on: January 07, 2011, 05:29:43 AM »
I finally started reading the book The Sedona Method and it may be helping me release some stuck memories which are painful.   I know they prevented me from being open when my Honey was in contact with me and asking about a meeting between us.   When we broke up five years ago I did not have so many crazy things to let my mind go to, and so it was easier to be open to allow when he was communicating with me then and asking if I could forgive him.  Anyway, MinDiddy, perhaps it can help you too.   Also, I am rereading Ask and It Is Given.

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« Reply #13 on: January 07, 2011, 07:56:01 AM »
MinDiddy,

thanks you so much for your supportive comment. you should know that you are not alone and there is always someone out there who is going through the same. i have had a bad day today of crying for hours, friends and family are plotting how to take revenge from him for the way he treated me and i find myself saying please dont hurt him. I deep down love this guy so so much and it is that kind of love where you just cant disconnet them no matter how much u try. Me and my husband have gone through alot together, we lost our first baby when i was 5 months pregnant with him and then went on to lose another 4 pregnancies. after that he changed, my depression got to him and he decided it was too much, he had an affair and decided he didnt want to be with me anymore. people say i want him back because of my ego but truth is no. although i am the one who he did bad towards but i am not angry with him like my family and friends are for the simple reason that i know him, i know his trueself. i know deep down he is fragile and needs to be loved so much, his dad abandoned him when he was 14 and he was raised by a single mother and has no siblings. my heart is not willing to give up. there is a very strong feeling inside me that he still loves me, that we are meant to be together. it is just that connection that i never had with anybody before and i had broken up with other people in the past but this one is my soul mate, it is a feeling that is not located in my heart or my mind, it is deeper than that. i wish u all the best dear, stay strong and i will keep u posted with what happens. these strong love vibrations we are sending are bound to come back. i just realised i have to dry my tears otherwise i will get more of that  ;) and we dont want that. today is a new day and time to go back to very high positive vibrations.

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